Stuttering shit test

OBOllie3003 · 2014-09-02T20:53:20+00:00

Really man, don't worry about it. Some people do have extra points they have to work through (i.e being short, having a large nose, missing a limb, a stutter, etc) but that won't prevent you from pulling mad tail.

Like with EVERYTHING, they are going to poke fun at you in your weak spot and at your 'vulnerable' times. Shake it off. Work through it. Work with it. You are who you are. Anybody who has an issue or difficulty with your stutter can fuck off.

Maintain frame.

aadderley · 2014-09-02T21:31:35+00:00

I stutter sometimes and what helped me was when I started to talk slow. Some people hated it but I didn't care. Over time it helped and some people don't even know I stutter unless I get in a heated debate and can't pronounce some words. They just pass it off as me being excited at that moment.

etcomro · 2014-09-03T13:48:41+00:00

I only had a moderate(maybe on the low end of severe?) stutter but I wanted to comment and let you know what helped me live with it and lessen it's effects.

A couple things.

Daily meditation and yoga - getting some practice at breathing deeply into my belly helped me in my daily life to remember to breathe. Most of my disfluency was caused by simply running out of air. Meditation also helps address the anxiety and confidence issue that I really believe is at the heart of stuttering.
Inserting intentional pauses in my speech. I used to have some insecurity issues when I was a kid and thought I had to get everything out as quickly as possible before people stopped listening to me. As you can imagine trying to rush just made my stutter worse. Now, if I'm feeling like that at all I slow waaaay down. And.. I'll just.. let myself go.. like this. And as a bonus speaking in that way draws people in more to whatever it is you're saying. Win.
Working on the inner game. You gotta figure out what in your childhood is your trauma. What your story is. Mine was that my blood father left my mom before I was born then I went through watching my mother pass away when I was 5. Some pretty traumatic stuff for a little kid. And I carried it with me for a long time, it was my reason for not being who I wanted to be. Through about the past 8 years of self-improvement in my 20s I have basically come to terms with everything that's happened to me. And I'm ready for more because that's how life is.

And if some group of bitchy girls make fun of you stuttering ever again, just say, "Oh, you're the kind of people who laugh at the stuttering kid? You just told me everything I need to know about you. Thanks." Turn around and fucking walk off. You don't want to be anywhere near that nastiness.

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StarlessAnd · 2014-09-03T04:06:01+00:00

Until you cure your stuttering, the only option you have is to agree and amplify. Anything else will reveal that it bothers you, and if people know they can affect your emotions with something so simple, they'll know your frame is weak.

Just say "f-f-f-f-fuck you" in a deadpan and laugh about it. Move on afterwards. You have a stutter and you think it's funny, because it's the anomaly in your otherwise alpha frame.

chakravanti93 · 2014-09-02T20:54:30+00:00

Stuttering is not a medical condition. I used to be a terrible stutterer and mine went away because I gained confidence. Stuttering generally means you don't have enough air in your lungs. Do intense cardio and it goes away.

Title	Stuttering shit test
Author	Guiltyascharge
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	September 2, 2014 8:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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