Thought this post might be of use to folks here, as well as RPW. Fellas, examine your current LTR. If your woman isn't giving you the space or permission to lead, you might just have to take it for yourself. But see if she does these things to assist you.

Remember: There is just one boat. There can be only one Captain.

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