I notice a lot of young guys here (yeah, you, college kids) doing a ton of micromanaging. Every little detail of every little interaction. It makes one wonder how you have time to think of anything else. You should be trying to graduate summa cum laude, not worrying about whether or not the question you're going to ask through text should be followed by a question mark or not. There are lots of small details that people have discovered to make themselves look a certain way, but not all details are on even footing. Some are more important than others. The message I hope to convey here is that abundance mentality is the single most important mindset to adopt.

Get to it any way you can. Have you heard of mo-peds? A mo-ped is a combination pedal bike and motorcycle. Fun to ride but embarrassing to be seen on. Seek your mo-ped girls. Girls you like to fuck, but you wouldn't introduce to your friends or bring home to mom or even be caught in pictures with. They will be easy to amass and offer a quick ticket straight to abundance mentality. Then, with abundance mentality firmly in tow, you start pulling bigger, better game.

Abundance mentality causes you to exude confidence without trying. It's a straight line to IDGAF. You stop trying to prove yourself and suddenly you're now Mr. Mysterious. You become austere. If a woman asks you, you speak coyly and suddenly you have mystery AND an indirect form of social proof. Since you care less, some of the things you say to women are natural negs, without trying. You stop being apologetic. You walk around like you own the place. You stop being needy because suddenly your attention is being diverted back and forth among your plates and they notice and start putting effort into getting it. I could go on and on but I'll stop here.

Abundance mentality is an automatic path that leads to many of the concepts we discuss here at TRP. Start fucking girls that you will have fun fucking. If they're 4's, so be it, as long as you're going to enjoy doing it. Consider it training wheels. Once you start spinning your low-level plates, the abundance mentality they generate start pulling in higher-levels like a gravitational field. And then once they become plates, your abundance mentality is augmented even more because you're pulling more quality girls. The field grows stronger. The process repeats. You see where this is going.

Listen, if you have a bunch of beta habits then sorry, you're not going to be banging the hottest girl in the club. If you did you probably wouldn't even know what to do with her. Go bang some chubby girls who you think look fun. Again, it's super important that you are having fun with them. Don't fuck just to stick your dick in something. It won't make you feel good about yourself. The fact of the matter is, no matter how society sees somebody, if you can enjoy being with them, then they have value to you. And the more people like that in your life, the more valuable you feel. Just don't be an idiot and get stuck on only one. For fuck's sake.

There are plenty of women who will have sex with you, sans tricks, sans game. Find them and enter into honest FWB relationships. And always keep moving forward.