I'm typing this from mobile so please excuse any errors.

I began red pill back in 2013, around Nov. post break up of the "love of my life" and blah blah blah. I've learned a lot sense then. The biggest thing that I've ever taken away from that break up, is every 3-5 months you will find another "girl" that was just as amazing as the last one. She will do everything for you your X did once you start to "grasp" abundance mentality. As soon as you start to get a little bit lonely after a few months of the "girl that got away" had left, another appears. Then only a few months later you realize that she's the same as your X. My point here guys, as this is my first FR in nearly two years, is that the point of being RP, of being Alpha, of being a man; is realizing you don't need to depend on other people for your happiness. After a year of reading red pill I left because I realized that half the things you read here, are advice that no one ever follows. You need to be dependent on yourself. Find enjoyment in activities you actually like. Have you always wanted to go sailing? Stop playing video games and take a 6 week class every Saturday. Want to learn how to start a business? Listen to a few Tim Ferriss podcasts or get The Four Hour Work Week. We are in charge of our future guys, and be being BETA males we only encourage women to continue to act the way they do.

Now that I am a self understanding male, I have come to realize that I have value. Each and every one of you that reads this sub has a value as well. It might take days, weeks, or years to find, but the most important part is to understand that all a woman wants is a man who knows who and what he stands for. Don't be a fucking pushover, don't get upset when she hangs out with "her guy friends" and don't chase her around the club. There's 3.5 million people in America alone. Someone will always suck your dick.