Why would any man subjugate themselves to shit tests for life?

What can you gain from marriage except fro the ego boost/adoration you get from looking at your child...I know of a few men who have awesome wives who workout, cook, clean, and fuck on command... I guess i pretty much answered my own question, if you find a decent one thats down marry her but you're still going to deal with shit tests...

I currently live with my grandmother and aunt upstairs my aunts shit test and shaming tactics are light and easy because we get along but my grandmother is aggressive and pretty much the breadwinner (even though i make 7 dollars more than her, she pays most bills) Certain women get under my skin ALOT more than others is all I'm saying... Do women come with different level shit tests and do they increase or decrease with time?