Summary: Following your own personal mission and sharing it with her with complete enthusiasm may pay dividends with the right LTR by your side. A common effect of cluing her into your dreams is for her to get wrapped up in your strong purpose and want to help you or even inspire her to pick up her own slack in order to please you.

Body: I've recently dropped into an LTR and one of the things I have noticed that at times my LTR loves it when I get into a fevered frenzy over my goals and the steps I have laid out to accomplish them. Many times I have finished speaking about my goals and bouncing my ideas off of her (Captain and First Mate she may have valuable things to contribute I am not so egotistical to think I might have overlooked a detail) only to see her look at me with such lust, love, and respect afterwards. Great sex almost always follows. Remember you are the driver of the relationship and women always love to stay (or at least seem to stay) on a steady course upwards because they are the passenger along for the ride and who doesn't want to go up?

A nice byproduct of this that I have personally noticed is that she is constantly talking about how inspired I make her. She has also taken care of the small things that I have meant to do such as setting up some appointments that I have been too busy to do without being asked, basic cooking and cleaning (which should be mandatory in any LTR you have especially if you want to one day have kids), suck me off when I'm stress, etc. etc. the list could go on but it can be boiled down to two things: Pleasing Me. Now I'm not advocating her your personal slave but it is nice to have someone to help with the minor things because more often then not they are more important than you think.

Things I Do To Lead And Inspire:

*Have high expectations of her ie. my LTR is a junior in college. I make sure to reward her for doing well and by doing so ease her into being used to listening to me and ultimately pleasing me

*Talk about my goals and then have her see me finish them (DO NOT be one of those men who speak of the things they want or will do and then never follow through. She may not straight out say it but she will lose respect)

*General planning of dates and events to attend. If you aren't used to doing so you need to start your partner is along for the ride and if you can't plan out simple things like that her confidence in you will drop

*Cultivate a atmosphere of mutual respect even if you are the leader of the relationship ie. allow her to voice her opinions and ideas for things without making her feel as if she's going to get shot down every time. This helps allow her to be more comfortable with speaking up and helping you without you saying a word.

Conclusion: Simple leading and taking charge is rare nowadays. Become her unicorn, be a man, not a boy and she will treat you well and perhaps even develop her own unicorn qualities that will make your quality of life even better. We don't need woman but it sure is nice to be taken care of for however long the LTR lasts.