So last night I went over to a girls house. We were drinking wine and having a good time when I tried to escalate and kept getting shot down. She tells me that she's having some sort of stomach/ovarian pain. OK. And we proceed to cuddle. After awhile of this, I try again. It escalates to 3rd base but doesn't go any further. It's the pain. Something about ovaries. So I offer to make her tea or grab her some ginger ale. Nothing. I'm drunk and tired so I fall asleep. I wake up wanting to bang her. She ignores all my advances. At this point, I'm like let's make out or give me a HJ. Sorry. Can't. Why not? Well, I'm miserable so you should be as well. Really? Yea. Grin. OK, well have fun being miserable solo. I just left . At 4 AM I left. Within 5 minutes of me driving home, I get a string of texts:

Holy shit. I left! I told you I could be difficult. I'm sorry I was being a bitch. I'll try to be more understanding

I'm going to let her stew a bit. If she comes around, I've led the ground works that this won't be tolerated. If not then she can toss around some other fucker and I'll move on to grander things.

Before, I would feel like a heel and like I'm giving up a solid babe for my selfish desires. Now, I don't care. There are plenty of women out there that won't "make me suffer because she's suffering." I'm sure her friends will call me a pig for leaving her in pain but it doesn't matter. I wanted to thank you guys for opening my eyes further and giving me the tools to look after myself.