Game is the process of establishing the frame that you are above a woman in the sociosexual hierarchy. If you want to be attractive to any woman the way to understand this is that she will feel like you are above her, hence she is punching up to get you. This satisfies her hypergamous instinct and notifies her hindbrain that this male has desirable sperm.
Everything we do and suggest doing to improve your smv is to help you create a frame in a girl's head where she believes you are above her. Are you a fit muscular winner? Great this will help give you the confidence to use the correct game to create the frame that you are above the girl. But being a fit winner isn't enough you need game. This is also why I call women girls and is a good reason to think of girls as lesser to men. And we are men here.
The easiest rule of game is to reframe everything so that she is qualifying herself to you. No matter what she says or does you then reframe this into her qualifying herself to you. This is essential during a first date.
If she shit tests you with an insult you reframe it so that she was actually trying to impress you. So long as you hold your frame and believe it it almost doesn't matter how stupid your reframe is. If she says something like, "God you're stupid" you say "so you only date dumb guys eh?". If she says, "my last boyfriend was 6' 5"" you say, "guess you'll have to look up to me a different way". Or hell throw in a neg first since she's being a bitch. "That why you got that crink in your neck? Guess you'll have to look up to me a different way". This is using assuming the sale game in your reframe.
There are lots of shit tests and lots of ways to pass them. But they will all involve reframing the interaction in one very specific way. That she is the one who is qualifying herself to you.
Say she's bragging about her program. "I'm in the English program and just wrote a killer essay on how Shakespeare was really a feminist blah blah blah". Wait for her to finish opening her mouth, feign a little interest, and reframe. "So you're gonna read me a sonnet in the morning?". Whatever you do do NOT say something beta where you qualify yourself to her. None of this, "oh that's so interesting I'd lurv to read your essay". This alerts her vagina that she has something to teach you, hence she is above you, hence twenty grains of sand just accumulated in her heart. Save that shit for later when she says it not to test you but to qualify herself to you. Say she texts you about it after you've banged and you've been a little distant. You can reward good behavior, a little. If she's telling you about her essay or homework or whatever dumb shit she thinks is important not to brag or test your position on the sociosexual hierarchy against hers but to get your attention you can, if you so choose, give her some attention. "Oh an essay about how Shakespeare was really a feminist? Come over and read it to me."
"Bring vodka".
The most important thing to remember is that you have to reframe often in the early stages. Before you reply to that text think, am I qualifying myself to her? If so don't send it. Wait fifteen minutes and try again. This time think to yourself, damn this girl wants me.
Don't try to force your frame onto a girl. I've seen many a high quality man make this mistake. Let's say you have some truly high quality accomplishments. Maybe you're an amazing drummer in an up and coming band. Maybe you just got accepted into a PhD program. Maybe you won a contest amidst harsh male competition. Don't go telling a girl this during the seduction phase. It will sound like you are qualifying yourself to her and she will not be pulled into your frame. Rather just let the conversation flow and reframe. In fact it's better to win the woman's heart between her legs through game and allow her to learn about your accomplishments later, where you can just shrug it off. Yeah I'm that awesome. So awesome, in fact, that that huge accomplishment is no big deal at all. I barely remember it. But thanks for bringing it up.
And don't over game. Don't reframe at a frantic pace. Don't make it seem like you are desperate. If you reframe and she shit tests the reframe don't freak out. Smirk for a moment this will give you a sliver of time to reject your beta brain screaming at you to not fuck this up. Then reframe again, in a fun casual way.
Let's go back to this example; she says, "my last boyfriend was 6' 5"" you say, "That why you got that crink in your neck? Guess you'll have to look up to me a different way".
"Oh like looking down"
Smirk. Smirk and stare right at her. This demonstrates that you understand the game.
"Oh you like doing it cowgirl"
During a successful seduction there will be many many shit tests and many many reframes. You won't be able to script this shit. So cultivate the attitude that all girls are beneath you and all girls are trying to qualify themselves to you. No matter how rude any girl is to you at any point reframe your own thoughts about it so that she was really trying to qualify herself to you. Some fat cow push her way through you in a crowd and say something rude? Damn she really wants me to notice her. Hell you can even say that and run some game on her. Some fine hotty once put you in the friendzone? Damn, that poor girl missed out. Adopt the mentality that you are the prize. Accept it and assume it. Your game will follow.
Put reframing into practice on your dates and see how it goes. Analyze your mistakes and learn from them. And realize that reframing, pulling her into your frame, is only half the battle. The other half is sexualizing the dynamic.
There is a lot of game to learn in your career as a player. You can't really learn how to be a player through knowledge alone you have to apply it and fail. Then get back up and do it again. So fellas it's Friday night. If you have no girls to text go hop on online dating and fire off a few messages to random fat ugly women and try out some game. Test your reframing on the trash of women. They will adore the attention and you will learn.
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