Lots of us on the red pill journey have either read of all Rollo Tomassi’s works, listened to all of the Black Philip twice, or read hundreds of posts on this sub. Some of us - especially the younger members - feel like we have internalised the foundations, but we nevertheless still have the urge to express our emotions in a different way than what is preached, or we don’t feel like we can honestly and convincingly express our newfound ideas. We don’t have the hatred of Patrice O’Neal, for example, and neither the resentment.

Society has convinced us that we are stuck in a permanent rat race. This is manifested in the red pill as such: members feel like they have to sleep with lots of women, be indifferent, have abundance (which, by the way, has to have a source). Which is all fine and dandy but it lacks the genuineness in most of us, as we haven’t experienced the circumstances necessary for us to truly not give a fuck, to truly have abundance and pursue your mission over anything else, subconsciously.

This is what separates red pill wannabes from the naturals - red pill without experience is a mere imitation of the final product, i.e. alpha.

My proposition to you is this: allow yourself to get burned. Allow yourself to make mistakes. You can look at it in a Fight Club-esque perspective -

If you, for instance, have a LTR, your “beta” side wants to keep her, and in an effort of doing so, you exercise your learnt Red Pill skills. However, this isn’t genuine. Subconsciously you operate from a place of scarcity and you aren’t truly in control, as the idea of her leaving you will result in pain. I say fuck it. I say let go. If you feel like expressing your love - however unnecessary it is, do it, even if it costs you that relationship.

Only then you’ll achieve honesty.. Only through getting burnt repeatedly and seeing the world for what it is, we can come to a true understanding of the pill, internalised. Who gives a fuck how many women you’ve slept with? Who gives a fuck whether you stay in a relationship with that hottie or not? It’s more important being genuine at the core and honest to yourself, that’s the only path to growth. Only then you’ll have frame. Only then you’ll be Red Pilled.

Allow yourself to make mistakes.

P.S. long time lurker, first time poster. Sorry for poor formatting, posted from my phone.