I will keep this short.

AF/BB, and AWALT are fundamental concepts that are so common in our culture that we gave them acronyms. We see it all around us - day in and day out. But there is a bit of nuance to this that I picked up from the Will Smith story I posted yesterday.

The AF/BB dynamic is a little more complicated than I previously realized.

It it is more like AF –> BB –> AF.

We know that when most women hit a certain age, they start looking for a “good man”. We see it here all the time: “Tired of games” “swipe left if…” “No hookups” etc. They want a provider and a father figure for their existing children. Once they legally secure the resources they need to provide for AF children and herself, she is then free to go back to AF - or at least attempt it.

Now, some men cope by saying "Yeah, but once she leaves, no one will want her dried up roast beef". That is wishful thinking. Sure, different women may have different levels of success. We all know this. But their results are irrelevant.

I am talking about their instincts and their intentions

We know that upwards of 80% of divorces are initiated by women in the US. We also know the dramatic rise in cheating statistics among women over time. When you put these things all together, it becomes clear that, for the average American woman, BB is just a pit stop that was never meant to last.

How many more stories do we need to read before we realize that BB is just a phase. It is a scam from the beginning, and any man who has ever been divorced knows this to be true. What’s worse, the whole system is in on it.

OPENLY so.

The case of Jada Pinkett and Will Smith is even more disturbing. Because she had AB - the holy grail for any woman on the planet! AND he MARRIED HER. But not only did Will wind up BB in her eyes in the long run, but that she OPENLY flaunts it in his face. This should be disturbing to any decent person reading this.

We have all read those articles that proclaim “Don’t worry good guys! When she’s done with the bad boys, she will wake up and realize that YOU are the prize. Hang in there! She really wants YOU - she just doesn't realize it yet!”

We know better now. That is a false promise to ensure that a critical mass of men don't give up and permanently go MGTOW.

If you are a young man reading this, be careful. Because even if she is a good woman now, there is a disturbingly high chance that she will change over time. And never forget the saying: The woman you divorce is not the same women you married.

Keep Growing.