So this is something I never anticipated. I've read up on a lot of red pill material, and I'm mostly past the whole blue pill beta behavior issue, but now I'm nervous to even start talking to girls for a new reason.
Now that I know how to talk to them for the most part (In my head at least), I find it hard to actually go and do it because I'm afraid of making a mistake. It's like, in my head it goes "Okay, go say hi, ask a question, give value etc etc,", but on the outside, I get nervous about screwing up. Best analogy I can give is like someone reading for hours and hours on how to hit a home run, but then getting to nervous to even take a swing. I think deep down it's because if I screw up after reading hours of material, then I'll think "Wow, even after all of that material, you still can't get it right?"
I know it's stupid, I know the best way to get good at something is to keep doing it over and over, but I just can't shake this stupid feeling. Anyone else have this problem? Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks
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