When my girlfriend leaves in the morning to goto work, we usually kiss and say goodbye. After reading TRP I noticed she always said "kiss me" and wanted me to come and kiss her goodbye.

I think I remember that she doesn't do that when I leave the house, it's not that she comes all the way from the livingroom to kiss goodbye.

And after beginning TRP I don't want to be the one kissing, because she has to crave me right?

Let me tell you what just happened:

I'm putting clothes on our daughter, she says "goodbye" and then "kiss" (which is badly translated to english, but would be the same as requesting me to kiss her.

This is where, after reading TRP stuff, I don't really want to be the one coming closer and kissing. I went in kinda slow and kissed her anyway and then afterwards she says "you never come and kiss me" and instead of agreeing and amplifying I said "well, you never kiss me" and then she said "I kissed you last last when going to bed! You didn't want to kiss me goodnight!"

I guess I just ignored it after that.

But am I doing the right thing? It's not that I don't want to kiss her, but I don't want her to be the one that decides it's time for kisses.

Or am I taking TRP to the extreme?

Even though I'm not sure about this situation, I like how I haven't asked or tried to have sex with her for almost 3 weeks now. I don't think we have gone this long since we had our daughter. She actually wrote on paper "I want sex" and she asked later "Why don't we have sex anymore" and then "I don't think I can remember what it feels like to have sex with you". So I like where this is going. "When I we going to have sex again?" I said: "Hm, well maybe in 1 year and a half, who knows?". But I can see how TRP can help get me back on track, awesome. Just had to write that out.