Wrote this post about a week ago : http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2dwas0/divorcees_of_trp_any_advice_for_those_about_to/

The feedback I got was immensely helpful. I have changed my situation to be the best for me, I know some of you will disagree with that, so be it.

We are still living together, we sleep in separate rooms at the moment, and in the spring she is taking out a loan to do a large renovation to include an additional bedroom and living area for me. I advised her against this, since I don't plan to live together for very long, but she said she was doing it regardless of if I moved out or not.

She has yet to contact a lawyer, I am currently in talks with mine to have a separation agreement done up. She doesn't want anything from me, split everything including the kids 50/50. She doesn't want alimony or child support (I'm not holding my breath).

It's always good to have a new perspective on life proven true, and it has been 10-fold for me so far since we decided we are getting a divorce.

She has constantly told me how happy I seem, how she feels like she held me back, and how badly she wants to remain friends.

She has constantly dropped hints about us getting back together as well. She was drinking with some friends and tried to grind against me, sat on my lap while watching a movie. Attempted to kiss me before she left for work, still wears little/no clothing around me. Tells me that she doesn't think we should end things permanently, and "maybe we realize we are happier with each other in a few years".

HAHAHA. I am so glad I am only 23, and can easily recover from this. It sickens me to think that I once thought this woman would love me forever, and stay with me through anything. She can ride the cock carousel until she dries up like Mars for all I care. As soon as this agreement is signed, and the divorce is final, I don't intend to have any more contact with her unless absolutely necessary. I realize it will be on a semi-occasional basis, with children involved, but that doesn't mean I have to put up with her shit.

I hired a personal trainer; I am sure most of you think this is a waste of money, but I don't.

I haven't tried to sleep with anyone else, or done anything on the woman front yet. It helps that my tinder profile is failing.

Picked up most of the top recommendations over at /r/redpillbooks. Not what I usually stay up burning midnight oil for, but obviously my old habits were shit.

My only regret was getting a vasectomy, and her not having the operation done. It is probably inevitable that my son's will have half-siblings, but as long as they have me as their father, I will be the father they deserve.

BB days are behind me, and while I am not nearly AF yet, the oneitis is gradually fading, and I will actually do something with myself, instead of being the 450,000th person to beat Tomb Raider.

Thanks for all the honesty AskTRP, it's hard to take anything she does seriously now, since I can see the motive behind the lies.