I know a lot of you RP'ers aren't about Christianity, and you aren't about LTR's or marriage, but bear with me. These are my beliefs, and I hold them strongly so there is no need to discuss/argue about that. I also think its foolish for you guys to believe marriage should always be a no-go. Our society can't function for much longer if we don't reclaim having a strong relationship of a dominant, present man and a submissive, skilled wife, raising up kids with actual values to contribute to society in a similar way.

That being said, I have struggled with being fairly beta most of my life, I detailed this in an old post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ak4go/how_do_i_change/

Basically, I have landed a girlfriend now who is a pretty good catch. She's a Christian, she's only slept with one man and only kissed 5 guys in her life. She isn't into hookup culture and she believes in the biblical ideals of being submissive to a man who is the head of the house. Within this framework, what things can I do to maintain dominance, keep her in line, and make her love being submissive to me? You know, get her all tingly because i'm just so Alpha that she doesn't want to go to any other man. This sort of thing is a bit harder for me too, because I have always felt I have somewhat low testosterone for various reasons which makes me lack aggression and vitality at times. But I know I can learn enough behaviors and such to compensate for this. I can see myself eventually marrying this girl, but how do I overcome my nice-guy bullshit and become a strong masculine figure? Any help is greatly appreciated.