AriMerman Archive

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0	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her	Building Power	AriMerman	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 02:32 PM

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1	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her i can't believe I'm arguing grammar. I said Shawn mendes early stuff is almost all exclusively about me. It's great music. You guys both fail at reading comprehension....	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/17 02:00 PM
1	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her assuming I'm not. I am. Four counselors. But you sound like an absolute idiot, so I won't qualify much more of your assertions about things I didn't say.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 05:21 PM
1	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her Some of the most fucked up shit you've ever read in your life. It's also an extreme example, of what lengths a woman at the tail end of her SMV will go to, in order to lock down a beta provider, while still cashing out with as many alphas as possible. Forewarned is forearmed	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 05:21 PM
1	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her This is a vent, idiot. A story of personal experiences. Not a tome of all truth. Get a life.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 05:20 PM
1	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her Exactly. This girl has crossed Canada doing the same to so many guys. She gets them hooked on meth. Then stalks them. Then gang-stalks them. Then makes pop-corn. Every time they seem to be escaping her silver screen, she brings in some new force, to manipulate them back in. Enjoy the show.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 05:19 PM
1	Does TRP want my AMA?: I was gang stalked by a prostitute, the Mafia, Bikers, and Triads, 4yrs, to get me to marry her Hollywood doesn't like me. Because I had to literally shame this girl's actions, out in the open, in order to make it stop. Being a genuine nice guy, I protected her secret, and kept it a secret, until it was no longer safe to do so. Any man who has anything bad to say about any woman............ Also, notice the absolute lack of any movie, about a female supervillain, AFAIK. I've watched thousands of movies, and have yet to see one. Part of the public shaping of opinion, in that men can be evil…	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 05:18 PM
2	Depression phase of TRP. How to get out of it? discipline, and willpower, in my view, are shortcuts, to finding purpose. And really bad shortcuts where the road is broken and there are bandits. Redpill theory, fully accepted, is a radical re-organization of your entire motivational rubric. I suggest you research 'complicated grief' for theoretical understanding. And I suggest you temporarily actually forgo all goal-oriented motivational activities, intentionally, in order to allow yourself time to re-wire, and adjust	/r/askTRP	28/12/16 12:03 AM
1	Christian girl [26F] is mad at me[21M] for showing interests in other girls at the club source: personal life experience: christian LTR who was prostituting and acted the same way: pastor's son: need more?	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 11:52 PM
1	Christian girl [26F] is mad at me[21M] for showing interests in other girls at the club usually those same church gals can't justify why your attention would have better captivated by themselves.....my advice? call bullshit, loudly, publically, to her face, and her friends, and anyone she knows. and then get ready to block and ignore, or accept and reconcile, depending whether she responds humbly and or angrily.	/r/askTRP	27/12/16 11:51 PM
1	What to do if you find out your SO is cheating on you good advice. i did six months for failing to adhere, on a few counts. i can't think of any exceptions. i rationalized i was allowed to be upset, and 'put me first' since, it was the mother of my child, and i had just found out she was a 15 year veteran prostitute(including our time together), but i failed to put safety first, and paid, lads	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/16 11:38 PM
2	My province's government instructs police officers to treat domestic violence with a "gendered lens" and assume that men are perpetrators. How can this be changed? [CANADA] I've been a victim as well. 15 police service calls, in Ontario, and a guilty charge against her for DV. And the second she cried 'rape'.... EMDC, detention centre has 10 to 1 ratios male to female. For assault, and three breaches of recognizance, my ex served 48 hours, in police cells, not jail. For one simple assault I served six months. Anecdotal, but London Police informed me 90% of their calls are domestic. Women are unilaterally not punished or deterred from assault. The strongest defense …	/r/MensRights	19/04/16 01:26 PM
5	I just feel like an asshole. Maybe I'm doing this wrong. Pastor's son; self-taught extensively. First and foremost, Christianity nowadays is the single most exhaustive training manual for BB in existence. Its the biggest cash out for any woman. Personal experience for me was 3 years of me being husband to what turned out to be a 150+ partner count ex-slut, who lied and hid that, and gave zero sex. And 100% manipulated for my life. At the end, am diagnosed PTSD, schizophrenia, and am taking a medically safe crystal meth analogue to cope. I will say one…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/05/15 12:32 AM
1	Are suicidal thoughts normal during anger phase? Yes. Research the complicated grieving model. After introduction and belief in the TRP, BB indoctrination becomes a trigger, instead of a self-reward, and the person could be left with almost nothing left that is a reward, or comfort, for coping.	/r/askTRP	25/05/15 07:38 AM
2	Chaeting ex came back... This is actually a fantastic opportunity to practice and learn alpha dominance on easy mode. Give her a frame, make it real, make it tight, for her, uncomfortably so, etc etc etc. It'll be easier to execute dominance on a gal to whom you ARE the best option, AND she fucked it up, so you have free reign as far as obligating submission, and she is suffering and can't manage without you, so you can dictate the terms more easily. She sounds like a neurotic. I say go straight for pleasure via your do…	/r/askTRP	23/05/15 11:32 AM
1	"You always 'limited' me..." How the hell do i act. Agree and amplify. Enforce the breakup and make it 100% effective. And nonnegotiable, as punishment for her breaking up with you. If she makes a motion to have anything back, tell her overtly that it will be just sex, and open.....and then enforce that if she agrees to it. She sounds like an Ambivalent, lying, repressed bitch, and, to be honest, as long as you dont retract your commitment to her, enforce that retraction with zero attention, cold distant bejaviour, ZERO favours, or heart to heart…	/r/askTRP	20/05/15 12:22 AM
6	Advice on how to ignore a girl irl This is actually really excellent advice. Stop trying to find a genuine, heartfelt and warm way to express, 'I dont intend to know you anymore'....its doesn't exist, except by making it overt, and she will either be offended, or fuck with you. Go cold. Dgaf. Its real. Not smart ass.	/r/askTRP	20/05/15 12:13 AM
1	"Always leave a woman better than when you found her." Really? I can be loving, supportive, instructive, etc etc, and I can also be 100% asshole dark triad "badder bitch than any bitch".... I let the gal's behavior dictate what response she gets. Whether she is fucking with me ignorantly, or maliciously, she still gets fucked with. Vice versa with loving commitment. Its a waste of time to attempt to test and discern and screen for intent, honesty, and integrity. Actions are the only thing to believe.	/r/askTRP	20/05/15 12:09 AM
1	Marriage/ divorce laws in Ontario (or Canada for that matter). What should I know or do to protect myself in the event of a divorce. Common law sets in, along with all marital obligations, after six months. Including splitting of assets. Etc. Not sure about alimony etc. Am an Ontarian.	/r/askTRP	14/05/15 01:00 AM
1	I'm beta, and I'm angry Totally normal and valid perceptions of how women are evaluating and analyzing men.....it does get more comfortable with exposure....like any negative experience....you lack desensitization. You dont have to game, or reject women, to get desensitized to the negative internal response to the realization of the true way youre being perceived and treated aka manipulated and abused	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/15 12:58 AM
1	Girl only wants to meet up as friends after she's been talking dirty with me and sending naked pics. It might be semantics to you, but here's your mistake, as I see it. You offered to let her make you hers? You needed to tell her when and where and how you would make her yours.....she even asked to be owned. Trp is about masculine dominance. Its the absolute end game of relationship where you are hers, only if she earns it, and only if you made her yours. Only a unicorn makes her man hers..you put her on a pedestal, then devalued yourself enough, using words, with that one sentence Alone...inst…	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 08:19 PM
1	Should a husband confront the guys he suspects his wife cheated with? All seriousness aside, the only valid scenario I can see where you get honesty, is if you genuinely offer these guys the chance to join you for a surprise gang bang. ...seriously. Do it up. Will be jokes on her. Trp doesn't even call it cheating. Its a natural result of frame inequity, attraction imbalance etc. Women dont commit....... So, my advice, have fun with this, and get justice by collectively shovng your cocks in her face all at once, or leave it alone, and get more aggressive to make s…	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 08:09 AM
1	Should we hide our problems? Mark Manson is likely borrowing heavily from the vulnerability:connection work of I forget the blond on ted talks who speaks about the need to resolve shame. The male equivalent of this, is brutal honesty, aka do whatever the Fuck you want, say what you want, and hide nothing. Never fail to push for sex, and be successful. We dont open to connect, and share our weaknesses, as men. We initiate sex, and expose our desire....makes us vulnerable to rejection, or ridicule. We broadcast, to attract. S…	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 05:31 AM
7	Should you be mad at the guy who cheated with your GF? Can't even hate her. Its her biological imperative. Cant hate the dude...likely was misled to assume she was single....Can't really hate anyone but oneself, for not being man enough to lock her down, unless she is a unrecalcitrant slut, in which case nobody could lock her down, ...so can't even really hate oneself....why hate? Focus on dominance, and making real what's wanted.	/r/askTRP	04/05/15 04:39 AM
4	Why would a girl ever divulge the fact she used to be a huge slut? Since guys don't tend to feel bad for being sexually active, once they know you have been, this is am automatic permission slip, for them. Bear in mind, i bet dollars to doughnuts, she has never or almost never had such a perfect opportunity to so candidly relate her dalliances. Girlfriends would have shamed her, or encouraged her to more and worse, depending if they were prudes or sluts. The red pill views multiple partners as a psychological trauma, to a woman. She can't help but unload and un…	/r/askTRP	03/05/15 07:15 AM
4	From 5 new girls in a month to zero sexual appetite Yes. Its an ego play. She attracts and invites you while rejecting and denying you, all at the same time. Can this bitch, because this triggers insecurity issues in men, and the technique she used isn't a magical rainbow with a pot of sexy gold, it's a black widow, then she eats your heart out....her pot of gold. Women can be extremely dangerous	/r/askTRP	26/04/15 06:42 PM
4	Women's emotional volatility is an unconscious and evolved mechanism to secure men's commitment by wiring his ego into the role of the provider. Activation of the hindbrain is an interrupt of the prefrontal cortex, usually due to personal trauma, very much more rarely due to real threat, and even more rarely due to an accurate perception of malicious intent. Awalt: Engagement of the parasympathetic system, that disengages the hindbrain, is accomplished through either a fight to the death, or an ecstatic orgy of sensuality. So AF/BB. Whores/Madonnas. And almost nothing in between.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/15 05:36 PM
2	Fucked virgin on first date, no she's afraid I just want her fun, I'm open for LTR, how do I let her know Tight, sensitive, tentative at sucking dick....these are signs and symptoms of a gal who has been railed hard as well. Look for permanent darkening on the outer labia as proof she has been pelvis slammed hard, for hundreds of hours	/r/askTRP	09/04/15 01:30 PM
23	Mind Your Perception and Understand Her Strategy Dated that modest dressing demure, humble christian gal. 100+count. Can confirm. Awalt. Assume she's a slut always. Proceed to banging her like the slut you assume she is. Worst case scenario she loves it and wants ltr. Best case scenario you beautifully break in a virgin who will now love your cock. Either way, assume you will never want to know which scenario happened.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 12:11 PM
2	So why is rape considered almost worse than muder? Male strength is their physical power. Women's asset is their psychological continuity. Early childhood Rape affects men, but doesn't tend to affect their asset. Rape of women imprints a debilitating trauma into their psychological algorithm, that turns them into conscious walking damaged goods. We men can shrug that away, because we're used to being conscious of being failures and broken, and persisting and achieving despite that. The basic tenets of the red pill sidebar(can't reference exactly…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/15 05:15 PM
0	Unexpected Breasts. [FR]? As far as Dark knight techniques this is solid, and you presented yourself unaffected. If you had approved of the goods without pointing out how she has to develop them into something you might like, if she does the work, and responding neutral, then her ego wouldn't have forced her to escalate. Next achievement unlock, to cement your perspective in her fragile self-esteem rubric is to fall asleep from sheer Boredom and lack of stimulation while she is giving you her best sex ;)	/r/askTRP	04/04/15 02:39 PM
1	Discovered red pill but parents pushing for arranged marriage Lots of horror stories you can use to reinforce your decision against. Hypergamy combined with traditional culture has equal odds ensuring she is a virgin who will respect the arrangement, or she is the slut whose the best at lying and hiding, whose about to make the beta bucks cash out of her life. Caveat emptor	/r/askTRP	30/03/15 02:02 AM
1	Advice on dealing with specific rape accusations It sounds as though she is using the rape claim as leverage to get you to replace her phone. Outright blackmail. Pure and simple. What if you go super beta? Tell her an hour long sob story about your $60k in debt, how no woman will give you the attention and validation you crave. How you just want to make her happy but can't and feel like a failure as a man...bullshit like that. Invariably, you want to pound into her head, that you are not worth the power struggle. Tell her she is beautiful and …	/r/MensRights	25/03/15 05:23 AM
1	Prince Charming is an "Error" Since you write it that way, a charming man is one who completes overwhelms her lmr, and assuages/lies to her need for plausible deniability. He is not a charmer. And the effect of his lies, and power could only be magical to someone who doesn't know awalt.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 12:49 AM
1	A perfect example of AF/BB. Don't be John. Valid to say men agree it is juvenile, only because she didn't try everything to make it work. Trying everything to make it work is the philosophy that made john a dull boy .	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 12:35 AM
2	Advice on how to break up with a girlfriend who has actually been a great girlfriend. Women are always fair game to be gamed like they game. And women try out the new branch, without letting you know, before coming back to make fun of the old branch they are letting go off. Dont try to end it with her. Dont change anything. Take the job. Get the place. Thats your new branch. She doesnt need to know the enormity of how much this changes your feels for her. If she changes anything or wants something different she will notify you.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 12:27 AM
2	Advice on how to break up with a girlfriend who has actually been a great girlfriend. Women are always fair game to be gamed like they game. And women try out the new branch, without letting you know, before coming back to make fun of the old branch they are letting go off. Dont try to end it with her. Dont change anything. Take the job. Get the place. Thats your new branch. She doesnt need to know the enormity of how much this changes your feels for her. If she changes anything or wants something different she will notify you.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 12:27 AM
1	Is being "good at sex" overrated? I tend to agree, it doesn't matter, for the more jaded older cc riders. If she's a slut, chances are you can forget about her pleasure because a. She can't feel it b. Has had so much she is easily satisfied with little Its not a great proof but porn like fake taxi or fake agent etc...most gals are satisfied and eager and happy to comply with him just focusing on himself, to the exclusion of her. The exception where it might make a difference is if she is a virgin or extremely low count. In that …	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 11:50 PM
1	Introverted does not necessarily mean low confidence, extroverted does not necessarily mean high confidence. He is trying so hard to be exactly what women say they want. When shit is so crazy wrong best thing to do is watch and laugh	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 04:01 PM
1	My Moderately-Uninteresting Story of Conversion from Feminist Sympathizer to MRA supporter I'm not MRA bro....speaking of putting people in boxes. And you show yourself to experience what I experience, which is an unhealthy repression of negative emotion and excessive self censorship, as proven by a lot of explanation and qualification, and finally apology. And all I'm saying is there has got to be a healthier way. Those triad of actions and the underlying emotive motivating factors make us sitting ducks, hamper us from even knowing what we truly want, much less going after. Think rep…	/r/MensRights	17/03/15 03:33 PM
1	[FR] Shit test – “Do you think about other people when we have sex?” The last time I got that comfort test was from a slut who was lying to me about repressing the memories of 50-100 guys...projection is right on the money	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 03:19 PM
1	Something weird just happened while I was about to have sex with my wife. Need input... On the scale of knowing youre disinterested, to her screaming and moaning every time you enter her, her submission paired with your dominance is the test of how into her you are. This doesn't sound like very into each other.	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 03:03 PM
1	My Moderately-Uninteresting Story of Conversion from Feminist Sympathizer to MRA supporter You weren't a full blown don Quixote white night. nice guys try to protect and defend women from hard feeling too. We dont agree precisely on the overlap	/r/MensRights	17/03/15 02:35 PM
1	There’s no such thing as victims, just volunteers I studied a lot of leadership material, And its good. Then I studied red pill, and its what clicked the other into place for me. A leader is one who understands motivation. My mission is my motivation. My reward is sex. And, to be honest, a guy who is doing those two successfully, and is internally balanced, does lead effortlessly. Its in the nature of up and coming leaders to be pleasers etc, so, in my view, its not that leaders cultivate help, as leadership compels help. Think of it this way, …	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 06:53 AM
1	Woman qualifying but making no headway Shes got asd on max. Wants you bad but can't be aggressive due to balancing the need for plausible deniability. Enjoy that your hot self is burning her up inside and do nothing to ease the fire ;)	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 06:44 AM
1	My Moderately-Uninteresting Story of Conversion from Feminist Sympathizer to MRA supporter If youre fishing for a feminine approved word, then you could say you achieved enlightenment. Youre a former white-knight turned realist. And realistically, feminine entitlement and misandry is the rule of the day. Go further with your realism. Nobody but men can stand authoritatively for men, and that's a natural, biological, proven, scientific order that exists independent of people's rationalizations or descriptions or perceptions. Edit: addendum: and of those men, the number who can exercise…	/r/MensRights	17/03/15 06:36 AM
1	Introverted does not necessarily mean low confidence, extroverted does not necessarily mean high confidence. In this case, its not his confidence that gets him laid. Its wimun not seeing through their bias and assumption that a charismatic/outgoing personality is a good lover. I know the guy well enough to say Most gals regret fucking him. None ever stay. The one that did stay did so to practice her mothering/pity sex skills. So perfect example. Tldr: Its not false confidence he is projecting. Its cluelessness. Its women's assumption charisma:confidence that engages their hypergamy enough for a ons wit…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 06:25 AM
1	Looking to end relationship on a Red Pill note. I got into this relationship while swallowing the blue pill but got burned. I would recommend you do exactly what she is afraid of. And keep fucking her too. And do it all covertly. That will satisfy your desire for revenge. If she ever overtly fucks with you again, and youre in a position to thrive even without her sex, then lay it all out on the line. How many women you've been fucking. How awesome they all are. That you got one it is is your liability. That she is a cc riding hypergamic slut is a fact. She is fair game and gave a the entire cheat sheet of how to acco…	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 06:18 AM
1	Should I lie about proof of infidelity to try to get to the truth? Actually fix the laptop. If you say you fixed the laptop, they will change the password and you lose your opportunity at closure	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 06:04 AM
2	I had a client not pay me, what's the RP way of dealing with it? This happens to me too often to be coincidental, and the amount of cancelations or reversals of decisions is disturbing. People commission work and give approval and go ahead, but dont commit.	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 06:02 AM
1	My GF told me she wanted to go out with some friends to a bar Friday night and basically asked me if that was ok with me, asked for permission. Never had this before - this is a good thing right? I used to be so quick to assume the best..... Just because a gal is asking permission, doesn't mean she is implying she is trustworthy. Treat the cancelation of your plans, and her going to a bar(red flag) discreetly	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 05:59 AM
16	I started working on not being a nice guy at the age of 24, and started seeing results. 1.5 years later, I am starting to realize that I am consciously exploiting women for what I want. I am still not happy. The pinnacle of masculinity is to have what you wish at your command. At your beck and call. There isn't more. When you understand that women don't transcend the consciousness of manipulation/manipulate then you can fully grieve, and stop rationalizing why you creating what is good for everyone is somehow not the best there is.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 05:56 AM
1	Introverted does not necessarily mean low confidence, extroverted does not necessarily mean high confidence. Roommate is an extrovert/charismatic. But he lacks confidence, and strength and doesn't dominate women. So he excels in one night stands, but gets dominated and left and mothered for anything longer. They figure out he is a beta wuss and won't come back haha	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 05:48 AM
10	Introverted does not necessarily mean low confidence, extroverted does not necessarily mean high confidence. The mistakes you warn of making are the prime bias women suffer from, when selecting men. Charismatic, verbally dominant extroverts may seem confident or alpha through and through....but not all is at it seems. And the non charismatic introvert may actually be covertly dominant and confident, consistently, but tend to get passed over. Hence the advice to lift. Regardless of your personality structure, lifting and bulking will open their awareness of you	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 05:45 AM
2	How to become the selector? Thinking is good, but neither the problem or solution are in your thoughts, I'd bet dollars to donuts. Learning by experience, then soft exposure to better(hotter/more intense) mental extrapolation, refinement etc. Hire a 10/10 escort if you really wish to speed up the process. That would help guaranteed.	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 05:09 AM
3	Considering a girl's history question studies suggest that most women feel most intimate and aroused with their partner while giving him oral sex. So, even if she just blows him, that's still five minutes of alpha ;)	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 05:01 AM
2	How to become the selector? Its about socialization with women, and specifically building up your bank of successful interactions, regardless of her rating. Over time, it can accumulate to where you have your pick of the litter	/r/askTRP	17/03/15 04:54 AM
1	"Is Britain becoming hostile to blokes"? Food for thought I love watching fake taxi on youporn and using that to remind myself how solipsistic and internally compromised some British gals are, then using that to predict possibly how the rest of the feminine culture is. The only blokes who are in for it, are the 99% who are beta, needy etc. Bear in mind, all these complaints are an appeal to authority, and by its nature, the only one that can affect this now is male authorities. Rather than lament the truly bad environment, better to accept the decline …	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/15 11:28 PM
2	Hedonism and DNA: You don't have to respawn. Presupposing you are able to 'take the responsibility seriously." Rationally, and all seriousness aside, at minimum this requires wealth. Not all men who aspire to wealth will have it. Those men will experience parenting as more purely an obligation and burden than a satisfaction and investment.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/15 11:10 PM
2	Thoughts on my situation- can I get a fwb/plate out of it? The appropriate advice is not to not branch swing. Its to optimize your access to sex. Dont next until you decide...not based on a need to not play women's game.	/r/askTRP	16/03/15 08:49 PM
1	70% of men aged 20-34 aren't married. 50% never will Its a continuum. Clearly if you had a unicorn you would be happier and more satisfied. And togetherness is not only measured by living together but interpersonal interactions. You can have your private apartment to yourself and still maintain enough relationship to not feel alone or be alone.	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/15 07:46 PM
12	Bill Maher has gone full feminist Fantastic career choice. Notice the complete lack of competition from women for the available positions.....	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/15 02:19 PM
1	Open Hypergamy Fantastic mental picture. I think so, yes	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/15 04:26 AM
1	First Officer Pregnant with 3rd child Contrary to popular opinion, which she is likely normalized to, pregnancy is a time, when, hormonally, she will naturally desire more sex. That this woman doesnt realize this, is testament to how firmly, in her mind, she has backed you into the corner of beta bucks, and can't give up sex/aka power, for how desperately she needs you to stick around and commit beeeeeter. As well as how thoroughly she has been brainwashed by feminist strategy of securing bucks by manipulation. During pregnancy I us…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/03/15 02:36 AM
24	Stop making posts "challenging" men to get married. It's a terrible deal/risk for men in the west. At least with motorcycling, The risks are more easily exposed, and mitigated with awareness.	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/15 01:42 AM
3	Open Hypergamy Dubai is shariah law enforcement. There is immediate deportation for unmarried sex. And complete annulment of marriage and jail and deportation for infidelity. You can't pick a better legal climate for checks and balances against hypergamy. Its also a hypergamic paradise as few places in the world have such a high number of eligible bachelors with income to burn. Having said that, that's no guarantee these relationships will last through child rearing, or past. She has great access to branch swi…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/15 12:04 AM
1	Sweat the small stuff This post remimds me of the Howard stern movie. He is always continually misinterpreted misunderstood, hampered by others efforts, not helped and marginalized. But he red pills the fuck up and wins the day....like you did in your story	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/03/15 11:40 PM
1	The Cheating Thread I have many stories that would qualify as cheating compared to women's sense of entitlement and what men should be obliged to give and do and be. For example, I dated a whore who convinced me she was a Madonna. We had the best sex ever, then she decided to go full christian restored virgin. If you ask her, me continuing to explore my newfound love for sex was cheating, because she assumed I would remain contractually bound for exclusivity without getting sex. I dont call it cheating. I call it a…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/03/15 10:22 PM
1	How lonely does it get as a RP Captain? There is a deeper love, but her subconscious exists in contrasting opposition to the manifestation of that love that you see. Its lonely until she gets into your world. Your world is always far more vast than hers and she is limited in the extent she can get into you. Rollo tomassi's observation that men are always more extreme in everything? Means the comfort of a woman's presence will never fully salve and suffuse the depth of our need.	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/03/15 06:48 AM
-6	The Cheating Thread Presupposing that cheating means she is entitled to the entire perfect loving commitment and exclusivity that the one she offers obligates you to match. I don't even believe any man who ever lived is doing any less than getting his due when he takes on more than one at a time. In my view, No woman is equal or worthy even the worst man's love. I just can't call it cheating until a magic unicorn woman matches his commitment and service. Nawalt. Until then, polygamy is extremely valid, and its not …	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/03/15 06:23 AM
3	Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too. Effortless for her to love you. What you do for self improvement and strategy is for your own benefit and not her liability....	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/15 12:00 AM
4	Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too. On a side note, on topic, off topic, I banged a whore for free last night. She said the bulk of her clients were submissive, wanted to be dominated, paid up to $300 for a hand job, didn't want to penetrate her etc etc etc. No different than the actual bulk of most male/female pairings....they Were so starved for companionship even that they paid $10-100k for her presence, and more and worse. I felt compelled to clarify for her that when a man wants to be dominated, it means he wants to be made t…	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/15 11:59 PM
3	Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too. Its really not the norm, as I'm sure you're well aware of. However, as a fellow musician, there is an availability bias, where we tend to have had more success and less abuse, due to women's sexual attraction preference for the same. Some guys really haven't had success ever, some guys have given everything, and still been shut down Cold and abused and used. While its not hugely in the scope of my personal experience, its valid and justified that they cry wolf before they come to accept sollipsi…	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/15 11:39 PM
1	Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too. Can't wait for the day hypergamy takes full effect and women stop demanding their marriage entitlement for sexual services rendered. Dutch treat is old, and only whores demand or assume the rule applies	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/15 11:19 PM
-5	Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too. Clearly a 'I judge no one' male, white knight. Its ok you unconditionally love women. No one will deny you that. But most people are here because of unjustified misandry	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/15 11:04 PM
1	Long term married man – Advice sought I would recommend that she see a shrink, a sex therapist, and work through her sexual dysfunction, attachment issues, internalized shame, control issues etc. She is not entitled to your ongoing commitment without her resolving her issues, much as you are not obligated to unconditionally love the role she is playing where she is uncomfortable and non-integrated with all the aspects of love. Once people are mature, they can choose to attach and love to whomever they please, regardless of all other…	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 06:25 PM
1	Long term married man – Advice sought I doubt a shrink alone will be as helpful as you leading her into complete submission to your desire for her, and that would only be proven by her showing she feels madly passionate about you, and more importantly your cock. Knowing that women willingly submit to be the sexual toys of more dominant men, and do love those men more deeply and truly, is a recipe for deep suffering for the guy who is obligated to provide and be present with her clearly not wanting to submit, and rejecting to love hi…	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 06:18 PM
3	70% of men aged 20-34 aren't married. 50% never will Furthermore, women place such high demands and high value on even their friendliness that its inaccessible to 90% of men. Meanwhile white knights, betas and pussywhipped, aka most men, are divided and conquered by their pedestalization and competition and adversariality amongst each other. The safe haven of noncompetitive friendly and helpful masculine space and relationship, as well as positive women who altruistically give platonic or sexual friendliness is the holy grail that men must rely on…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/15 06:05 PM
2	70% of men aged 20-34 aren't married. 50% never will As an amateur student of psychology, with some conviction I can say all the people affected by the new social order that doesn't include nuclear family are susceptible to greater vulnerabilities to mental health and physical ailments. We are not at our best living alone. Which record high number of people are doing. And simultaneously record high numbers of people are self reporting bi-polar(can't self regulate...no duh sherlock) depression(not enough hugs?) Etcetc. While I dont draw causation, …	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/15 03:13 PM
1	70% of men aged 20-34 aren't married. 50% never will I was speaking with a small business owner, and he was saying he kicks in 10%, on top of what he gives me, in mandatory WSIB insurance...so theres even more than all that	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/15 03:08 PM
0	Had a big fight with the wife, how to handle it? I can't disagree less, that "pregnant women should be excused for three year old behaviour'. She is a proven lost cause. This guy has stronger hormones than even her peak of pregnancy, and he successfully manages himself and performs well regardless. She gets under a little pressure, fails the test and everyone wants him to fix it? That's fucked. Dont fix her. The only thing that needs fixing is his decision to allow her to be close to him anymore now that she has won such a massive power strugg…	/r/askTRP	02/03/15 12:56 PM
0	Had a big fight with the wife, how to handle it? I highly doubt this is credible argument. And more likely white knighting. And shaming. Towards this guy. Guys are more extreme in everything. Her hormones is no excuse for her abuse. Imagine instead, he takes photos of the cuts, charges his pregnant wife with domestic violence, and sends her to jail pregnant. That's the better scenario I am inclined to support. Fuck her tantrums. Fuck her inability to manage her emotions. This guy is the victim of that. The trigger does NOT justify abuse, ever.…	/r/askTRP	02/03/15 12:49 PM
1	I hate my wife! Me too..! "She will never take care of you, and love you as you are"..... Truer words never spoken. You can use her assistance to take care of yourself sometimes but she'll never initiate caretaking nor feel desire to do so. I had to lose one I loved before i realized she can't handle those obligations, and every time I showed a need for her, it killed all her attraction and respect for me irrevocably, forever.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/03/15 04:39 AM
2	Radio silence is golden. How do you not understand that this woman is using op to keep being the slut that she already was	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/15 04:33 AM
3	Moving past the MRP Anger Phase Next up on your reading list, check out the 'complicated grief' models that are placed to replace the kubler Ross models. In essence, we became attached to our beta rewards, having not perceived the relationships between our beta behaviors, and how they blocked us from the reward we wanted. Assimilating the alpha mindset is a gradual formation of new ideas, applied to old situations, as they arise, where we may wish to revert to old patterns, but can't. Because we are now angry. So we are propel…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/03/15 04:02 AM
1	after years of porn and mastrubation, can't stay hard during real sex What worked for me was to set aside a time to discover which sensations made me get hard. I used oils, and took it very slow, and breathed deeply etc. Good sex where I stay hard and dont blow my load happens in between the spaces where I am trying to cum or trying not to cum. Theres so much pressure on guys to be a beast, or be a more sensitive lover, that we sometimes forget or put second place the very motions and positions that will keep us hard, defeating the whole purpose of the entire acti…	/r/askTRP	01/03/15 03:38 AM
1	after years of porn and mastrubation, can't stay hard during real sex Find and buy and read a book called 'ejaculation mastery". Through focusing on what you are feeling, you can restore your sensitivity and pleasure. Ability to perceive pleasure and sensation through conscious focusing is what will keep you hard, more consistently than abstinence.	/r/askTRP	01/03/15 03:35 AM
1	Always end up with older women I'm similar to op. Ok so I always choose older women. And I'd like to know why. But for some reason feel psychologically blocked from accessing the reason. Anyone care to venture a hypothesis?	/r/askTRP	19/01/15 04:13 AM
8	Rape Glam: '... a developing and startling trend ... glamorization of rape as a means of fitting into a social clique.' Any woman who alleges assault or abuse is instantly rewarded with attention and validation, gifts and support. And with that story she has access to a whole slew of beta Mr. Nice guy saviours. Imagine if being fat got you 70% greater access to unlimited sex. Most men would be hard at the buffets to qualify themselves	/r/MensRights	17/12/14 05:56 PM
2	FR: I am too tired for Sex Less altruistic. Story reveals she has not been altruistic for years	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 05:06 PM
2	Nickname game to help pull a plate into my frame it's excellent. this hails back to the days of david de-angelo...name your pet. Give her a funny nickname, that you can have fun saying. It's a subtle, overt way of establishing that you are the dominant creator of your(you and her) reality, and it establishes an attachment where you controlling her reality is something she agrees to and wants. Works like magic. I use it, and i love it when it is used on me(by buddies etc, since we GET IT about nicknames, and use it for fun on each other) It's a…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 06:26 AM
2	Tupac's attitude towards women before-and-after becoming a man he went full white knight mr. nice guy, to proper red pill.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 05:37 AM
3	[UPDATE] The continuing saga of the headstrong hamster. Basic premise of hypergamy is that she will always want to capitalize on a potebtially better opportunity than you. The only way to get her excited and trying to win you is to prove to you both that you are fully committed to any new best opportunity. If and when she sees this and if she manages to recognize it, she will automatically know what it means and start a futile attempt to lock you down with pleasing you. Ideally, that's the sweet spot to always keep her in.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/12/14 08:57 AM
1	How do you guys manage stress? I like the word manage better than control. I see emotions as causeless phenomenon, like the weather. Don't control them, instead learn an effective response to each.	/r/askTRP	10/12/14 06:05 PM
1	Woman has finally hit the wall, upset because a guy doesnt want to date her after learning about her cock carousel The only helpful perspectives, then, are the ones that empower men, who know what's wrong, but through ignorance have chosen impotence.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/14 03:43 PM
1	Woman has finally hit the wall, upset because a guy doesnt want to date her after learning about her cock carousel Men but immature men. Men in the idealized generalization? No. Men who need our compassion, support, guidance, wisdom and direction. no one has or ever will have constructive help for men but men. We can leave the white knights, betas, and afc's to suffer or take pity and help. Your call.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/14 10:17 AM
3	Are you supposed to plate girls like this? I strongly agree. I had to mentally revise my mental timelines so as to invent an alternate reality where i never met crazy. Might be missing out on some of the best sex of his life. Depends how many spins of the plate she takes before she breaks, and whether he is emotionally sound enough to keep frame. If what he has in him is latent one-nitis, a tendency to fold under pressure etc, then it could easily turn into a semen stealing db bb marriage and possible cuckold with divorce rape....just li…	/r/askTRP	10/12/14 09:55 AM
2	Are you supposed to plate girls like this? Speaking as someone who put their dick in a gal similar to how you describe, she's really saying 'the only thing i value from men is sex' ...as in, she already hates all the guys she hangs out with, unless they're banging her, in which case she hates them more, because 'all guys only want sex'. Women like this may be distinctly uncharitable and have deeply hidden service resentment. That translates to, that when you dominate her, she will allow you, to do what you want, including sex, but then s…	/r/askTRP	10/12/14 09:27 AM
1	"Tell Me." Even the ones who have a subconscious red pill attitude but only manifest blue pill, the ones who joke, and wink while agreeing with the feminine frame, I see the look of quiet desperation in their eyes.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/14 01:21 AM
-5	"Tell Me." Can confirm: am Canadian. Don't believe me. Come and see for yourself	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/14 06:09 PM
-5	"Tell Me." Canadian is a language of passivity....can confirm. Its not a collection of unique words per set but a unique style	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/14 04:28 PM
1	Men who decided to go MGTOWs, how do you deal with people's curiosity/shaming/...? I'm just focusing on me right now...is very valid. I'm just focusing on my career. I’m making a better me before I re-approach a relationship. I'm doing self improvement only. Key to communicating to your audience is to use their own language. They just want to hear you say what they would say.	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 09:07 PM
1	Men who decided to go MGTOWs, how do you deal with people's curiosity/shaming/...? You can always split hairs....use questions to force them to reveal the nature of their curiosity. "Why do you want to know?" "I think you know where I stand already" all the way up to agree and amplify "I've converted to Islam and they're giving me 70 virgins"..." Without getting into too many details....long story short....i'm seeing someone. I'm actively dating. I'm very serious about this one(me ;)etc etc"..use.obfuscation or sudden full honesty depending on what effect you wish to achieve o…	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 09:05 PM
1	Women are more likely to be physically aggressive towards their partners than men--British Psychological Society's Division of Forensic Psychology annual conference in Glasgow Another way of saying we are not to feel pain.....otherwise we deserved to be hurt and are weak and bad, guilty and worthy of shame, so her abuse is justified because he made her feel that way. Her action is not even abusive because she was only responding to the threat that he always is in self defense. Plausible deniability and zero culpability in 99.999% of all cases.	/r/MensRights	08/12/14 07:54 AM
2	The Anger Phase & Monk Mode Forever is not a bad goal. Might be the only feasible one. Having said that, once that is your trajectory, nothing saying something else positive can't intersect	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 07:16 AM
2	Women are more likely to be physically aggressive towards their partners than men--British Psychological Society's Division of Forensic Psychology annual conference in Glasgow Men are more likely than woman to assume an interpretation that an abusive behavior is not abusive. Either a proof of men's power of faithfulness, or their utter cowardice to call things as they really are	/r/MensRights	08/12/14 06:20 AM
4	Men who decided to go MGTOWs, how do you deal with people's curiosity/shaming/...? My first rule of mgtow, is don't talk about mgtow. The only exceptions being if someone has proven they already get it and are in. And secondly I talk about it as a way to piss off people who won't leave me alone who I wish to separate from as soon as possible.	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 06:16 AM
4	Reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy", got to the section on integrity, need help. Proof of the advice...gene from kiss who his mom knows he fucks 6000+ women manages to handle it and rationalize that at least he doesn't do worse things. Read 'radical honesty' by brad Blanton. Witholding information that you know will significantly hinder the other person from loving you is lying, but I view that as lying to yourself. The truth is that your fear of being found out is equal cause to you not being and feeling loved. Fuck your idea of your own reputation that you think you have t…	/r/askTRP	08/12/14 06:13 AM
1	tits_out_forTheBoys' advice for men stuck in the Jaded stage of unplugging The five stages of grief has been replaced with a model called complicated grief. In order to get through it, the grief, one must find ways to feel joy again, similar to or in replacement of how they felt about what they lost. Or in other words, a man must learn how to have frame and have joy and success, which means he must disavow himself of illusions and learn reality.....when you are already feeling lack and pain and are unable to find and feel joy, the last thing you'd want to learn is that…	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/14 05:21 AM
1	tits_out_forTheBoys' advice for men stuck in the Jaded stage of unplugging For me, the root of the depression and bitterness is in accepting and dwelling on the scarcity of opportunities to win, using my knowledge of what women reward. The sychronicity of me being the man a woman wants and feels like a dream of a unicorn. I've died in the dream within a dream, and am waiting for the kick. Some of us are naturally gifted and those are the ones who can kick start the rest of us back into reality. In the meantime, my goal is to do my godamned best and do every god damn th…	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/14 05:13 AM
32	Wall Anxiety, Done with CC, looking for sperm and $ provider - It's dishonest because she is not offering commitment or proving any of the values a wife or mother would need to be successful. She is sunk and she knows it. It's still a veiled qualifier that she is better than a guy's sexual needs and her special princess status entitles her to ask for him to give everything while sacrificing nothing. The message of her actions explicitly says no sex and I am still looking regardless of you. She's no good for him for anything other than what she said she didn…	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/14 03:24 AM
1	face slapping your plate/ltr/wife "He's oppressing me!"	/r/askTRP	07/12/14 08:38 PM
16	Think your girl won't upgrade if she has the chance? Wife of a college football player who had a workout with the San Diego Chargers was having an affair with NFL RB DeMarco Murray. Seriously though, awalt. Most christian gals resist sex like the plague, for a beta wussy, but spend just as much time on the cock carousel. I was an alpha in christian circles. Got to bang my fair share of the top tier women. The ones i wasn't banging I got to hear who was banging them. The nice conservative christian virgin gal is a calculated act like any other. Hypergamy and afbb and awalt still very much applies. Christian conservative sexual repression results in the bullshit manifesting i…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/14 07:55 PM
2	Think your girl won't upgrade if she has the chance? Wife of a college football player who had a workout with the San Diego Chargers was having an affair with NFL RB DeMarco Murray. Taken to it's logical conclusion, your turn means you keep embodying the ideals and that's your best and only chance of having something that resembles marriage. You can't love a hater. Only the lover is loveable. You can't commit to a hypergamist. You can only commit to the committed. Marriage is an abstract, in the minds of men, and an action. The best you can have is that she mirrors you, to a small extent.	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/14 05:41 PM
10	The Sexodus, Part 1: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society It's very subtle fix. Firstly, the whole discussion is 'I am not my sister's keeper'....women being fucked up is not for men to fix. Their circus. Their problem. We disengage and let god sort them out. The whole issue I strongly contend with, the premise is feminist. Aka we are the cause of their problems and are obligated to furnish a solution. Hell no. No way. No where. No how. The point being argued is that men call it like they see it and enforce the high standards, judge womens bullshit as …	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 02:44 AM
5	A Dystopian Parable of Power and Desire Obviously you've never gotten involved in a christian community that actively shames all male masturbation, or any sexual arousal for anyone but the wife. And the wife dresses like a nun. He can't press his own button because christian women literally divorce over one youporn video, as in the example. It is her button to press only. That's the vow.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/14 10:21 PM
1	Tips on getting my wife back In the big picture, you are the one in control of yourself, and the relationship. She is in control of responding to the quality of things. It's not that you're wanting a relationship, together you are wanting quality. She is highly unlikely to bring any kind of quality anything to you for a long while, and as has been pointed out, she has had definite hurdles to bringing it before. What you can do to get your wife back is take your focus off of her, and focus on building you, and building and p…	/r/askTRP	04/12/14 10:09 PM
1	You are a man. Then handshake like a man. Ever been to the orgy of handshaking called "small business networking" haha	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/14 09:30 PM
1	The ultimate goal of the pill is HAPPINESS. Philisophically, happiness is, in my view, equivocated with health, and is the only difference between you and not life. The goal of life is happiness; its also the starting point: and why? Because the opposite of living is the absence of happiness. You can't have outcome independence without finding your happiness in all situations. In other words, put what makes you happy, as your first priority, at all times.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/14 08:42 AM
3	[FR] Fill your wife with lust. They are one. Ideally they are unified	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/14 08:25 AM
3	Don't just make her do what you want. Make her want to. I disagree. As the gatekeepers of commitment, our choice of where to allocate our resources is the decision we are left with. We don't get to decided whether sex is available or not. Whether you are investing your commitment in a ltr or investing in a prostitute, on a transaction by transaction basis, pragmatically, you are making the same exchange: commitment for sex.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/14 03:09 AM
1	Bi live-in LTR wants to open relationship to women this too shall pass. I guarantee it's her that can't handle the thought of marriage, and that caused her to lose her shit, within herself(amplified sex drive, that will go to zero if you actually do marry her) and shit tests. Do what you are doing, but instead of beating yourself up for the lack of harmony, take steps to avoid her shit, and demand caveman sex. She is in a fucked funk. You can't predict how it will end, and any step taken to make it end now, is likely to be unpalatable, because a…	/r/askTRP	02/12/14 04:08 PM
0	You are a man. Then handshake like a man. There is a natural social order. Having said that, if someone turns my hand, I go in closer, until their hand gets turned back. I like to throw in a hug if neccesary, to make them break. I refuse to be dominated except by a benign dictator who allows me to take a turn at domination. Watch Allen Pease body language, the old vhs version, on youtube for a hilarious take on the whole deal. An overturned hands demonstrates superiority and implies dominance, but is a test that can be passed when you p…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 03:19 PM
1	Hopeless fetish for prostitutes? Sex addiction? Desire cant be negotiated. Attraction isnt a choice. Orgasm, for men, is the proof that a woman is acting attractively and is desireable, when he fucks her. I highly recommend not to abstain from sex, but to focus on it more. Focus on you. While she may be sexy, and you are a sex technique god, I've found one can train themselves to cum at will. Whether that is 5 seconds into sex with a 3, or six hours of a 10. If you control the sex, to manage your orgasm, then you can achieve your goal. Also I…	/r/askTRP	02/12/14 06:14 AM
-2	Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's Rights safe to assume you haven't worked through any of the issues i just mentioned	/r/MensRights	02/12/14 04:57 AM
-6	Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's Rights Actually, no one has to love anyone. And no one has to not hate anyone. This is very basic, black and white, freedom vs. Controll stuff. I am not wrong nor a misogynist. And I dont take issue with misandrists. I just support clarity here. Assigning blame and judging.... :-) principles are at stake in the relations of the sexes, as well as details etc. Men are entitled to like and hate what they like, as are women. Both are entitled to need what they need, and be validated in their perspectives. …	/r/MensRights	02/12/14 03:38 AM
-3	Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's Rights And there are many many many women who hate men. And they are misandrists. And they prove the unjustifiable position of "women's desires at the cost of men's rights". I am not a misogynist: i hate all women who demonstrae abusive behaviour	/r/MensRights	02/12/14 02:56 AM
1	The opposite of a red flag? What makes you think a woman is worth your time? Two qualities that work in tandem: the ability to reserve judgement. Which goes back to intelligence. This is the attitude of: not all the facts are known yet so best leave it alone. AND ability to act in good faith. In other words, if she is going to be your first mate, she has to prove, with her actions, an ability to conform to your desires, instructions. This proves her maturity, as a mature person is naturally in tune with another's emotions, regardless what is said, and, in good faith, wis…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 02:10 AM
-6	Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's Rights When someone has a perceived and real grievance, it is natural for them to process the anger and hatred vented against their abuser. If nothing else, the number of angry, disenfranchised men is a testament to how paltry and fickle, manipulative and abusive the love of women is.	/r/MensRights	02/12/14 02:00 AM
1	Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's Rights Any questions on why it is a rare instance that a man takes the child? Women's right to work is not pursued so aggresively as their right to live off of an ex husbands wealth. Hence reproductive rape ie rape of his wallet. Ie: divorce rape. Ie: women having options because of non-judgemental and unconditional empowerment and education for women.	/r/MensRights	02/12/14 01:55 AM
1	Who's more Unicorn, RPW or women who post on Bluepill? Higher smv is synonymous with following your gut,	/r/askTRP	30/11/14 06:13 AM
1	A common mistake that I'm (and most of you are) doing. I cautiously tend to agree with this. But most important is that it is what you want to do and find exciting. For good examples of which guy not to be, reference kanye at rock climbing with kim. He hates it so she uses the opportunity to flirt chat and pick up orbiters. Do something you genuinely enjoy and are engaged in. The trick is, the game, is that if you are having fun, she will selfishly sollipsistically attribute it all to you being with her, which is what you want here. You want her to …	/r/askTRP	28/11/14 03:43 AM
2	What is wrong with some of the commenters in this thread? Sex devalues her. assuming the context is a committed relationship, that statement is only designed to devalue men, and what men value, and if she agrees, and cuts off access to sex, and ljbf-s, then it devalues her by causing a value-differential, a dis-harmony, a dishonor, that is immediately a betrayal of the ideals, but in this cultural, feminist-thought-ruled cultural context, leads to divorce and her cashing out and finding a new mate. You can see why those kinds of statements, by our whit…	/r/askTRP	26/11/14 08:16 AM
2	What is wrong with some of the commenters in this thread? Or a manipulative tactic. Gender has no bearing on logic and obfuscates the argument	/r/askTRP	26/11/14 08:03 AM
1	What is wrong with some of the commenters in this thread? Part of being honest is accepting your partner's desire, seeing it as non-negotiable, and accomodating and compromising to fulfill it. Integrity. Not temporary fixes of I go my own way regardless of you, but, to the extent that I know you, I am to you what you want, and how. Only unhealthy insecure individuals fail to adapt and take arms crying injustice. Or the only other alternative is separation and break-down of commitment, with automatic and non-negotiable losses of priviledged status, and …	/r/askTRP	26/11/14 07:58 AM
2	What is wrong with some of the commenters in this thread? And yet men won't invest in her or marry her or give gifts and valuable things and be vulnerable or intimate without that element being in place. He can't give the e-valuation of her as wife without sex. Or maybe women and their white knights think women would get everything they do with the gates of sex closed....wrong again	/r/askTRP	26/11/14 07:55 AM
1	What is wrong with some of the commenters in this thread? I didn't read the thread. Its very short term thinking....if she doesn't shave then maybe he divorces her, and suddenly shaving seems like the thing she will want to do, not just because he wants it, but because it is in her best interest, assuming being married benefits her.... Double standard is based on hamster logic assumptions. Aka marriage is a favour she doles out to him. The woman is the most valuable object in the partnership. Easy then to negate what he desires, and is attracted to, wi…	/r/askTRP	26/11/14 07:49 AM
1	invitation only Six weeks is the established medical opinion but it is not the only opinion out there, that ia credible or verifiable or proven. My wife and I had sex a week after a ceasarean, by her choice. Then had it more than twice a day after that. Low libido is not the rule and sex, at her pace, in her comfort zone, can be extremely helpful to her overall mood etc. Especially when the baby is not yet strong enough to pull and drop down milk, the husband can help keep thinga flowing and keep her in the oxy…	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/11/14 03:52 AM
1	Girl refused to say 'please'! Anyone can negotiate for whatever they want. Anyone can set whatever conditions they want. Everyone has the right to say no.	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/14 04:02 PM
1	Personality Changes in Menopause - the non-Hypergamy Reason for Divorce it was good up to that point, the fulfillment of the commitment will not likely change by much. But if it was bad up to that point, then all bets are off. Equally Valid scenarios: she ramps up and becomes your sex kitten she jumps ship and becomes someone else's sex kitten she shuts down completely and becomes your personal hell leaves to be hellish alone.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/14 05:00 PM
1	Is what I am saying REAL life? Why are you so consistently a target for being dominated? Is there any proactive steps you can take to, earlier on, shield yourself from being 'picked' marked etc? I don't doubt you're lacking awareness of how bully's pick their marks, or of assertive, non-violent self defense. Research the warrior way. Its a way of power, automatic reflexive defense, and joy. It acknowledges that hurting people hurt other people. And as the warrior, you can inflict great damage if your defenses are not minimal …	/r/askTRP	23/11/14 08:26 AM
1	What am I doing wrong? the guy who took her away fucked her shortly thereafter. she texted you to set you up as an option for later.....once she got her alpha fucks in, she wasn't interested in you anymore......get it?	/r/askTRP	23/11/14 07:16 AM
2	My Brother is dating a pregnant girl. How can I help him? regardless your influence now, time will dry up that horny pregnant bitch like the sahara. She's oozing all the hormones to make him high, but that will ALL change, several months after the pregnancy. She won't want sex nearly as much. And he won't get high by being around her. A word of caution, women are absolutely at their peak fertility, for several months after having their child. Anyone who tells you differently is a liar. You know how many whooops babies happen because people believe that…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 09:18 PM
1	I need help! My back is against the wall... The whole point of the life being upset, at that point, was, she had a man out making money, who would give it to her, for free, and she got to have her alpha fuck. As soon as he stopped making money, he was out already. Then he decided to work from home, and block her from having her alpha fuck. She couldn't stand not having money, and sex; so you have what she did: fuck op. Get him the fuck out. Fast as possible using any means possible. She didn't take the new guy as punishment for him not fu…	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 06:36 PM
1	I need help! My back is against the wall... whether or not she cheated is immaterial anymore, except to a man's sense of betrayal, in which case it is everything. This info is ONLY for his sake, not for anyone else's. It won't help him in divorce proceedings. It won't help him with child custody. Women have it made in the shade no matter what they do, and even expressing disapproval triggers her wrath and will get your life further fucked. Absorb the information, and move on with taking steps to protect everything in your world, to make s…	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 06:28 PM
1	what was it like the first time you had sex with a girl "out of your league"? All green lights. No shit tests. She was really wet, and required no priming. Put up ZERO resistance. Didn't pressure me in any way.	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 05:11 PM
1	Britain's delicate and chaste lady's protected from flash Yank who wants to come over hear and teach our young cads who to seduce them... ironic, because, if you ever watch fake taxi, british women on that show prove themselves to be all kinds of loving the cad who offers quick sex and requires nor wants commitment...and doesn't care whether she's committed already or not. the smoke and mirror show here, is shaming the guys who want to learn how to get laid. The controlling issue running the show is that women want to keep secret their dalliances with the guys who've already mastered the yank's techniques.	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 05:08 PM
1	Bad FR tonight and a question. I'm interested in hearing more about how he overcomes LMR. There's a tension being being the assertive male that makes her have the sex she couldn't honestly go for, and who she loves, and being the guy she shit tests, resists harder and cries rape. I've lived both scenarios. If you believe the fem-nazis, one no, one pump past no, one touch past no, and it's rape. It's judged by the perception of the woman. If she felt pressured is all that matters. But triggering her 'fuck me' and 'fuck everyth…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 05:05 PM
1	Just need some advice She has enmeshed and entrapped you. That you agreed to it is irrelevant. Because the agreement has changed 1001 times since your initial 'fuck it, i'll do it.' Unfortunately, the people who will take your side, and help you, as a man, are 1 in 1,000,000. The people who will believe and commiserate, are 1 in 1,000,000,000. The only way out of this is forward. For starters, don't give her the benefit of the doubt. Even if she does what you like one day, your mind will trick itself into thinking, b…	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 04:57 PM
1	Bad FR tonight and a question. definitely LMR. Had you been a guy who didn't know she was still married, and separated, and done the same thing, you'd have had less LMR. But she's invested in maintaining the illusion of her commitment elsewhere, and keeping you as an orbiter, and LJBF, which is bullshit, because regardless of her past, there's a guy she'd fuck in an instant, right now.	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 04:34 PM
1	Who's more Unicorn, RPW or women who post on Bluepill? proof that 'acceptance' doesn't mean throw out the SMV. An ex SO. 'Stood by him' as opposed to 'got to be with him' Yes, it's exactly because of low SMV, for both. Higher SMV, from him, would have meant he is not an Ex, but a guy to attain. Higher SMV from her, and she wouldn't be talking about an ex, she'd be with a new guy. The SMV is the social proof, and it dictates the attitudes, and everything that follows. Including this entitled lament of it not panning out for anything more than just eq…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 04:27 PM
2	I need help! My back is against the wall... yeah; she has been cheating a long time. You transitioning into a work from home position took away her ability to bang this dude while you were gone. Once she lost that, then she attacked you for it.	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 04:17 PM
1	I need help! My back is against the wall... watch this movie: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_gLDF2dGLY get prepared to lose your kids. Because of the nice and good guy you are, too nice, too good, every involvement with her will further compromise your life. It's unjust, but it's the way things are in north america. Get very comfortable with the idea of choosing to not care about losing them. My suggestion? Move out of the country. She is using both you and the guy she is with. She doesn't deserve ANY CONTACT WHATSOEVER from you, becaus…	/r/MensRights	22/11/14 04:12 PM
1	TRP sub pages. I'd like to know this info also, if it's available	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 03:47 PM
1	Let's do an autopsy on a big fail. watch the movie 'Secretary' for the answer to that fear	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 03:27 PM
34	So my wife hit me this morning and I'm at a loss. acknowledge reality: she hits you, eventually she may hit the kids. You are contextually 'weak' in her eyes, in that she can hit you, get away with it, and not be hit back hard enough to hurt. The kids are the same type of target, to a woman who resorts to violence. They can't hit back. My daughter was taken away from my girlfriend, because the girlfriend hit me, and rightly so. She'll want to have her cake and eat it to, and say she's different and special, and that's not what it means, but it …	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 03:19 PM
3	On the universality of shit tests The power of trp is proven every time a man takes his life back and makes his world work for him and those he has in his care. The success is tangible. And adds to the bank of knowledge or how to succeed in more situations. Without those success stories we have less power to motivate attraction and persuasion and people wanting steaks and to be plugged back in	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/14 02:42 PM
6	On the universality of shit tests You can never step into a leadership role you weren't shown. First and foremost western men have failed western men. Bros before hoes as a global role can help stem this tide of effeminate and rudderless men	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/14 02:38 PM
1	Do Not "Report" Posts from Rollo Tomassi. You are wasting your time. Name the opposite scenario: someone who hasn't taken their time to meditate and they will be closed off to new knowledge, attack anything that upsets their bp knowledge and still not have absorbed the pill. Its called unresolved trauma and disorganized thinking	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/14 02:34 PM
1	I need advice on how to deal with my wife after last night. Part of the double standard, is that we tend to assume the best, about women. and society tends to assume the worst, about men. There's no valid reason not to exxagerate the assumptions, to test for reactions. There's everything of this man's mental and emotional health, for him to be aleviated of the turmoil her actions trigger/cause. Taking the middle ground here will leave questions unanswered, but not rock the boat, leaving her free to rock it, and in a way he is walking on eggshells, becaus…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 03:44 AM
1	I need advice on how to deal with my wife after last night. I'd second that. Coat's the first thing to go on the ground and get mussed up. Simple falling is never enough to lay a layer on that sticks the next day. Sex does	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 03:16 AM
2	Need unique advice - Christian LTR ok. found answers specific to the question you asked. All from a christian, red pill, dominant, male leadership and female submission perspective: http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2010/07/09/interviewing-a-perspective-wife-part-i-should-you-open-a-position/ http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2010/07/10/interviewing-a-prospective-wife-part-ii/ rock those articles, throw it at her full force. If she can't handle that heat then next her and keep your other prospects spinning the whole time.	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 02:57 AM
1	Need unique advice - Christian LTR Got it: his name is Dalrock. You'll find him more readily absorbeable, and somewhere in that blog, he writes up very specific questions to ask, to force her to prove her true beliefs, as opposed to the shit she has to say to make the best case scenario happen. Obviously you're more invested in what her real core beliefs are, as opposed to what religious sentiment she has learned to parrot. http://dalrock.wordpress.com/category/finding-a-spouse/	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 02:48 AM
1	Need unique advice - Christian LTR bear with me. I'm looking up a great blog Rollo Tomassi links to: there's an entire realm that is christian application of TRP, I researched about a year ago. It may take me a bit, but I'll get back to you on that. Essentially it strips away plate spinning, emphasizes stress testing her before hand, as you're asking, then how to translate TRP into christian lingo she'll understand and relate and connect to; making it easier for yourself to make the transition as well.	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 02:45 AM
1	Need unique advice - Christian LTR I can suggest, if possible research her background. Friend's opinions of her. Etc. Big question is if she has a strong female support network. That eliminates a whole host of issues right off the bat. Daddy's girls and insecure neurotics don't let you in to their female social circle because its insecure. Watch for misandry and negative opinions about authority figures and men in general. Its the flip side to a woman who wants to be submissive. Has she learned to resolve and deal tactfully, effe…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 02:39 AM
1	Need unique advice - Christian LTR She 'believes ' in submission is to be highly discounted. As is the numbers count to be viewed incredulously. Proof is infinitely more valuable than belief. Does she prove she knows how to be submissive? If not, why consider investing when so many variables are unknown and can't be controlled for. In my experience, christian women are a 50/50 split between the supposedly regenerate whores still in denial and dishonest and those who are virginal and who guaranteed have a host of shame issues rela…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 02:23 AM
4	What does RP think of men that only want virgin women? And knowing what I know about hypergamy, I would never take a woman at her word about virginity. Hence why the bride kept the blood stained sheets from her wedding night as proof of the prize, in the cultures that valued that most highly. Hymen reconstruction surgery is a thing for women lying to cover their promiscuous past and still cash out with a conservative husband. Hypergamy at it's finest right there	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 02:15 AM
1	Help, I've just realised my husband is a beta/delta many women try to catch their men doing wrong. Invert that. Try to catch him doing right.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/11/14 05:23 PM
5	How to respond to this shit test? there's no good reason not to next. Since she has to talk about it, she obviously hasn't handled it. Women are dumb enough to give guys good reasons to leave them. Only idiots see that as a proof of trustworthiness that her manipulative tactics tell her it should come across as. It's not valuable that she didn't hide the fact It's proof she hadn't blocked him already She didn't concretely block him when he contacted her She still wants him as an orbiter, or better, so proves she doesn't want OP …	/r/askTRP	20/11/14 06:03 PM
2	Oneitis from middle/high school is showing interest. Question for all. lived a near identical scenario. banged the shit out of her for a week. She wanted an ongoing arrangement, where she could come to me, and get fucked whenever she wanted. Husband knew and was relieved he was getting rid of her. She was a real hell-cat at home, and he was beta so getting fucked by her in all senses except sex. Don't write this off just because of marriage. Don't underestimate her power to make it happen, and make everyone agree, and make everyone agree it's for the best. She want…	/r/askTRP	20/11/14 05:25 PM