Approached her on the street, she smiled at me before I approached, and seemed to be into me really from the start. Since she was with a friend, I took number (actually she offered hers) and set a date on following sunday. Date went well, kissed, had fun. She texted me during the week, asked how my work's going (had an important presentation I told her about). Some virtual kisses were sent by her (I tried to abstain sending kisses over text). I scheduled another date to this sunday (note: due to our schedules we can only really meet on sunday for the time being). Had some text exchange about the plans (told her what to wear, since I decided to take her to a kind of indoor amusement park, she got intrigued, demanded I tell her what we're going to do since she's so intrigued, I told her about some of the activities on the premises, some more virtual kisses from her, I said goodnight)
Today she texts about cancelling it (note: she lives with her parents). Conversation goes like this:
HER: Hello, I'm sorry I won't be able to come tomorrow((
ME: A pity. Something happened?
HER: Nothing special, problems at home)
ME: Well, it happens
HER: Tell me something nice, my mood is terrible(
ME: I do not know what kind of problem you're facing (if I knew, I could tell you something specific), but try to always remember that life goes on, and every moment is given to us for a reason, sometimes a tasty fruit, and sometimes a bitter pill, but always for our benefit. Moments of sadness, sorrow and depression are required, both in order to give us a chance to slow down and self-reflect, as well as in order to make the moments of joy, pleasure and happiness feel more vivid and full in contrast.
HER: Thank you for your support : the problem is really a trivial one, don't sweat it) *
ME: Not sweating it :) if the problem is trivial - definetly not worth to have a terrible mood over it
HER: A pity really, that tomorrow plans would not come to fruition (
ME: I think if there was a way - you would find it. Since you have no way of coming - it's okay, I'll find something to do tomorrow. And, if it's in God's will, there will be another sunday :)
HER: Maybe we can meet on weekdays, if they'll be free) I miss you ;)
ME: Let's see, next two weeks I'm free 24H per day, except tuesday and thursday evenings. Took days off at work, will do self-improvement work, read books and do excercises, as well as go shopping for my new appartment and so on. All plans are easilly movable. So decide on your schedule and text me.
HER: Very well ;)
So, if you have anything worth pointing out to me - please do so. I'm trying to evaluate the way I express myself and the way I handle conversations (especially those tricky things about cancelled dates), as well as just evaluate my progress of improving myself.
PS: Okay, the majority's opinion seems to be "too verbose". I've looked up other conversation threads with her and indeed, it seems I'm texting her way more letters than she texts me. I cannot say I clearly understand what's wrong with it, but I'll look into it.
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