So I was with this younger girl (19) on a date, that was rather amusing and fun, but failed to escalate and kino more intensely, as we were on a dinner date (never again am I doing a dinner first date). After the dinner I suggested drinks, but she refused saying she has to wake up early for work, which to be fair she did mention a couple of days before in a text. Anyway she said we should do it next week, and then repedeatly told me to text her when I'm free. Fast forward 2 days and this is our text conv:
Me: So, bla bla a joke bla, let's hang out on Tueasday or Wednesday
Her: Haha, what did you have in mind?
Me: Let's go for drinks at a place and this time you'll be able to bust some moves you're so proud of (she was bragging about being a good dancer)
Her: I'll let you know, I'm pretty busy this week (FYI she's an unemployed student who's uni starts in the summer)
Me: Being a yet to be employed student must be quite time consuming Here: Wow
end of conv
So did I make a mistake for calling here out, i.e. did I break my frame? What should have I said instead? It just seemed she wasn't interested only after I suggested a particular activity, but still saying she's busy seemed like a red flag and just bs
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