i'm curious about a friend of mine who bagged himself a girl under some very questionable circumstances and gain some understanding of how this will like play out.

The girl:

  • strong 7 but painfully codependant.
  • was in a physically abusive relationship for 4 years, misscarried a child and dated my buddy WEEKS later. REBOUND
  • seems very unhappy with where she is in life
  • antidepressants & therapy
  • has bad credit/alot of debt

so my buddy basically white knighted the shit out of her. he's a nice guy but he knows he's punching above his weight and it shows, he lacks frame and his insecurity bleeds sometimes.

some blue flags to consider:

  • he dosn't drive she always picks him up from work (idk why i feel this is significant but i read somewhere it sets the dynamic of the relationship?)
  • his facebook profile pic is of them as a couple but her's is just her wearing something pretty revealing.
  • he's always available and lives to make her happy, his life revolves around her.
  • they spend everyday together

i really feel like even a portion of these issues would be enough to end a relationship but it seems to be working even though they've only been together just over 2 months.

logically i think he's just acting as a distraction for her pain having never dealt with getting over the previous relationship, does this seem accurate? i'm just confused by how super-happy-in-love they seem to be.

whats the most likely scenario here? is it possible for them to work out or should i try and warn my buddy?