Concrete deal breakers

Ko7a · 2016-01-16T21:57:55+00:00

1.) Daddy or family issues growing up

2.) Disrespect (includes raising one's voice, physical shit, etc.)

3.) Smoking/vaping

4.) Dumb, meaningless tattoos

Tattoos cap off how far one can go in life, this is a known fact. If they're very visible, and/or aren't a passion/life goal I never consider even for a second sealing the deal.

5.) Cheaters

If they've cheated in the past, they WILL do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

6.) Gaining weight

7.) Blatant, blind hypocrisy

8.) If they've ridden the CC

9.) If they shit test too often

[I have my own standard for this, but would like others' as well]

10.) If they don't bring me up as a man, but rather constantly put me down, even if they don't realize it, that is the ultimate deal breaker.

I have not upheld #6, myself, in the very last relationship I had. It was a learning experience (like most LTR's), and have since vowed to never gain weight again once I get it all back off. I also kind of have 'daddy issues' myself, but not really. The dude was just strict as fuck, which was good for me because I would have grown up to be a total fuck-up, instead of just kind of a fuck-up. He divorced my mom when I was 18, he purposefully waited until I was out of the house before he broke our home. Is that considered daddy/family issues? I'm honestly curious.

bigdickedtyrone · 2016-01-16T19:31:10+00:00

Disrespect

huge_gap · 2016-01-16T20:50:10+00:00

Flaking. Wanted a long term relationship. Not putting out and doing the whole pussy-on-the-stick bid for commitment.

[deleted] · 2016-01-16T22:09:09+00:00

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proteinandbeer · 2016-01-16T21:44:05+00:00

No sex

The__Tren__Train · 2016-01-16T20:00:23+00:00

her getting fat af lmao

GunPostal · 2016-01-16T19:36:01+00:00

Disrespect in a way to tool you for her advantage. Example, I had once went to the bar with my cousin and we were in line to get our drinks. When it was his turn, all of the sudden this big breasted chick gets in front of him ( her breast in front of his face) then gets her order. He was stunned and the girl got her beer and walked away. Everyone saw it and he told me the breasts got him weak balls that he couldn't do anything despite the fact that he was face to face disrespected and tooled. If I was on my cousin's shoes, I would have took the money from her hand and throw it away and give her a stare and order her to take a line like everybody else.

Title	Concrete deal breakers
Author	RPThrowaway098
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	January 16, 2016 7:12 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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