TL;DR
Recent swallower of the red pill trying to understand hypergamy in the context of my social circle. The example im using is a good friend of mine, let's call him Bob, and his beta-orbiter collecting female overlord, let's call her Fuglyskank. I will post my questions at the end.

The Example
(context: We're all early-mid twenties college students) This all started when Bob met Fuglyskank, who I knew from different social circles. Bob is a good friend of mine who i hang out with a lot, Fuglyskank was a classmate that I tried to hook up with unsuccessfully in my Pre-TRP days. Nontheless I moved on because i instinctually knew she was just an attention whore.

Very quickly a new social circle was formed. It turns out that she was also a friend with Bob's bandmate and good friend Freddy. During all our gatherings (we're a group that likes to have dinner parties every weekend), she would be doing her best to garner all the possible male attention she can get. She has "accidents" and injures herself with small cuts and scrapes and then parade them to all the males of the group to get sympathy and attention from them (think of children getting a booboo and going to mommie for her to kiss it). During these parties, our circle of friends noticed that she was playing both Bob and Freddie, she is also always doing Kino, hugging, touching, playing footsie and otherwise flirting with both of them, sometimes with both of them in the same room.

Fast forward a few weeks and Freddy leaves his GF in order to be with her, Bob is naturally annoyed because he wants her. Fuglyskank and Freddy spend 3 months together in a relationship without a label, and the gossip i've heard is that Freddy never Fclosed with her. 2 weeks ago i hear that the relationship experiment between the two failed, and she's keeping Bob as her main orbiter right now. The problem is Beta Bob isn't making any moves and letting her lead the relationship, and Fuglyskank is always going out with him on her terms, or bailing on him to do her coursework or some other excuse. This is where it's at right now, she sluts around for attention, does physical contact to get attention, but keeping Bob (and all other men she knows) at a safe orbiting distance.

Quick Note: Bob's intention is, and always was an LTR with this chick, because they're both Jewish, and he wants a Jewish wife. Jewish people are sparse in our social circles.

My Questions
These are my questions, with the hopes that some seasoned TRP members will shed some light and help me understand this situation in a TRP context.

*Fuglyskank can, if she wants to, have her pussy stuffed by any of her Beta-Orbiters if she so chooses. I understand that she seeks male attention and validation, but surely she must like sex as well. Why doesn't she just fuck them for her own pleasure?

*Is there any way that Bob can break out of his Beta-Orbit and fuck this chick?

*If yes, how?

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