So lots of women, old and young, happen to appear randomly sending me IOIs. Most of the time, I don't approach/escalate because reasons. That's my problem and I own it.

My issue is that these girls get angry and vindictive just because I didn't open them. Lately I've been through:

  • Girls making a point of showing me how many orbiters/options they have
  • Girls making a point of showing me how slutty they are by blatantly making out/fucking with other dudes, sometimes even close friends of mine (as if that were attractive, like it would spur me into action or something)
  • Talking shit about me to my/their friends behind my back
  • Talking shit about me online
  • Name calling, hard negs (e.g. "something something gay" or "I thought you were a rabid dog, now you're just a funny guy")
  • Silent treatment
  • Shit tests galore and general disrespect

I generally don't react and hold frame, unless it's a shit test then I A&A.

It's been said here many times that "Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned", and it's also been said that denying a woman sex is like denying the ocean a cup of water.

So why are these girls mean as fucking hell just because it wasn't convenient for me or I didn't feel like givng them my cock at that exact moment? We're talking about situations where I'm minding my own fucking business, like in a hurry to go about my day, and they are expecting me to approach them every 5 minutes. For real, I can't leave my house without feeling like I have to approach, like it's my solemn duty to give these girls cock. They make it feel like it was the worst rejection ever just because I didn't approach. They're expecting me to jump off bridges to have a split second chance at their worthless, CC riding pussies.

Before you guys start shitting on me: I do approach, at my own convenience. When I feel like it. When I have the time and patience to apply game.

But this is getting ridiculous. It's like a fucking conveyor belt of women who hate me the instant I don't give them attention. And we're talking about really awkward timings and places: like at work, or when they're with their boyfriends (who are my friends), or when I'm noticeably dead tired, or when the situation is way too public and there is no room for subtlety, etc.

How do I get these girls to relax? How can they understand that I'm a busy man, with no time to approach them anywhere/anytime? How can I get them to "be available" when the time and place is ok for me? Can we break girls?

Until recently I've just hard nexted, and that just creates all the whiplash I mentioned above. Now I've been experimenting with being a complete asshole instead of remaining silent. If its a random girl on the street, I'll frown or make an angry face instead of ignoring. If its a girl I know, I'll start hard negging and telling her to fuck off/go fuck herself. It's been funny but I can't say it's worked wonders.

Thoughts? Solutions?