So, fairly recently back into the game. I've been applying TRP to my relationships and having amazing results.

I have a plate that's great, FWB level. But I see her rarely, its been almost two weeks (we are both professionally busy) She was my first out of the gate so to speak. Recently, I upped my efforts and I have added a few more.

I met a potential just last week. We hung out a few times throughout the week. She stayed over at my house Friday night and closed the deal.

Saturday I was with another plate and essentially ignored the new potential plate, she hit me up a few times... Sunday I did my own shit and gave sparse attention out. But I did text her a few times back in response. She seemed like she was vying for my attention though.

Yesterday, I hit up the potential plate we had a little banter back and forth and then and she suddenly seemed very distant, almost upset. I am wondering if the day after my close I probably should have been more attentive to her? Maybe she activated her anti slut defense and she feels slutty sleeping with me? It really doesn't seem like those, but I am having a hell of a time reading it.

I don't want to next her yet, as I really enjoy my time with her. She definitely adds value. So not sure how to proceed... Soft next? I assume she'd text me, as she seems really into me. Another note: she did mention that she starts her period soon... so perhaps that has started and has something to do with it.