Should I just off myself?

uwotm891 · 2017-02-18T00:20:31+00:00

You're only 19 my dude. Get to the gym and start eating well. It's no surprise that you're contemplating suicide when all that you do is sleep and watch tv. Find some new hobbies, get outside more and try to be social. Being a recluse can definitely cause depression. We are social creatures, so go find some friends. Get a job so you can be independent rather than living off of your families wealth. Go to university, or pick up a trade. The point I'm trying to get across is just do something. Start reading red pill material if you haven't been. Get off of your ass and do something. You got this bruh.

A strong frame of mind can make even the most mundane tasks interesting. Own your life; don't let life own you. Push yourself outside of your comfort zone, and quit being a pussy. You'll see that life will get better.

NeldonMantela · 2017-02-18T14:32:13+00:00

You don't have a job? You don't attend school? All you do is jerk off and watch TV?

I will tell what you are going to do.

Take a couple of t-shirts an two pairs of shorts and put it in a bag.

Buy a one way ticket for tomorrow anywhere in the world ( I recommend Thailand).

Start your fucking adventure. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Olongapo · 2017-02-18T01:22:11+00:00

Whoa!!!! Do not tell anyone to just go kill themselves. That is just fucking weak.

The OP, troll or not, is asking for help. Whether or not he accepts it is obviously his choice so I'm gonna offer some suggestions.

1) Stop using right now. Everything...including alcohol.

2) Get back into the gym and resume whatever lifting program you had yourself on.

3) Get rid of the Playstation and read instead. The gaming is addictive and artificially stimulates endorphins. Have a friend hold it for you.

4) Give yourself a full 30 days of total abstinence from gaming, mind altering substances.

5) If you have a diagnosis of clinical depression, then find a psychiatrist who can work with you in titrating your antidepression meds so that you can function.

At the end of 30 days of clean living, getting back under medical care, and lifting 5 days a week, come back and talk to us to help put together a short and long term plan for self improvement.

THERE IS NO EASY WAY TO DO THIS.

Surfincloud9 · 2017-02-18T01:24:26+00:00

Get help man. Speak to a professional. Start doing stuff, even if you don't want too. Do shit. Laying around and beating yourself up just makes it worse. Best friend killed himself and you do more damage to the people that love you than you do to yourself. Selfish. You are so young. When I was 19 I was homeless shooting up heroin. I'm 27, fit, career in biomedical genetics and a great girlfriend. Things can turn around.

[deleted] · 2017-02-18T02:55:35+00:00

You need social interaction, a sense of purpose, and to get out of the house regularly. The trick is getting those. How you tackle this will depend on your specific circumstances and strengths.

The good news is that you're only 19 years old. I know people like you in their 40s and older. That's more of a problem, because it's a lot harder for them to either return to school or otherwise alter their career potential.

I would recommend seeking a trade. You will learn skills that will give you a good income for a long time and it won't cost you nearly as much money as university. However, if you have a job you'd love to do that requires further education, then go for it. But choose something. It doesn't have to be the be-all-and-end all perfect career. Just find something that you don't hate and work towards it.

Next, you need to get out and be around people. Without people you'll go insane and be horribly depressed. I don't know what you have available in your area, but you must have some kind of clubs you can visit. I don't mean nightclubs, although you can go to those if you wish. I mean sport clubs or hobby clubs. Like jogging, cards, board games, or whatever. Just get out and be around people. Doesn't matter if it's a club for hula-hoop enthusiasts who like bird watching dressed in medieval clothing. Just find something in your area and go. If you can't find anything at all, move to a place that has stuff going on. What do you have to lose?

Also, I bet your diet sucks if you're just sitting around watching TV all the time. This is something else to work on. You don't have to make massive changes on all these things overnight. But pick one thing and do it differently. Then add another thing. Then another, until your life is radically better.

TheRojoPill · 2017-02-18T11:52:31+00:00

Hey man where do you live? If this isn't a troll post and you disclose where you live (at least what country & state/suburb) and I'm sure there will be other TRP members willing to inbox you and meet up and set you on the right path.

You have to show willingness to improve and take this shit seriously, from your post I sense a real lack in internal motivation to the point it seems like your making excuses or rationalising the need to suicide.

Life isn't easy my brother, you should be thankful you have it better than others. Then again, I understand depressive thinking can lead to all sorts of negative outcomes including suicide.

Surround yourself with TRP minded individuals, go read a self-improvement book, or take a walk through streets where the homeless are and talk to them. You could join a club of some sort, volunteer somewhere...soon enough a little lightbulb will switch on and it will give you purpose and direction in life.

You are young and full of potential, don't let it go to waste just because you don't realise that potential yet.

Stay safe my man!

oldredder · 2017-02-18T14:29:16+00:00

You could go do it - the world won't miss you - but you could try exercising so you're not fat and enjoying better drugs that are more fun but need more money and care in using them.

Sadly being pampered 2nd-gen rich really does leave a man as helpless as a wretch raised on welfare. Higher standard of living, equally near-zero motivation.

A man can not be a man without risk and striving to earn a thing, even though too much risk and destruction can still destroy you.

Everything IS boring. NOTHING has meaning. This is really how it is.

For this I can only advise to try something brutally hard mentally - like teaching yourself about relativity or quantum physics - or physically, like MMA or Jeet Kun Do or something, because as you learn you will discover things you hadn't imagined and it may spontaneously create purpose.

There is nothing positive in life except to sleep in and relax, and to earn things and own them and love it. Sex is no more than a drug. Laying some random girl to me is equal to scoring a gram of decent blow.

Honestly there is no reason MOST people alive stay alive and don't off themselves. If they weren't hard-wired with very specific fears of poisons, heights, sharp things or blood I bet more people would kill themselves. It's like evolution built in a bunch of phobias so primitive, so effective, that they really are more like anti-suicide "devices" rather than purely surviving the harsh elements of the wild.

mremms · 2017-02-19T04:50:41+00:00

come in just to say you're not above a job paying $4 per hour. Right now you're not worth shit. Get a job and stop being fucking lazy. Set some goals.

Then one day you will indeed be above that $4 job. But in the mean time, don't off yourself, get to work and create yourself.

Docbear64 · Sat Feb 18 0:32:29 2017 UTC

You sound like a little bitch and probably actually are a piece of shit . If you can't do shit for yourself , have no drive, and all you do is eat , sleep , and drink then fuck you're not living at all you're just consuming .

My suggestion is go get a job and commit to it for a month . I don't care if you don't love it because you don't need the money , you'll do it because it's something . Maybe you'll learn how to care about something . You can feel like you're contributing something . If you don't like the job after a month Great , try another job no you have something to compare against ...still don't love that? keep going .

We can't tell you what to be excited about in life , you're a grown ass man only you know or can find out what will stoke that fire inside of you . Whether it's playing Chess, working out complex math equations , lifting weights, running long distances, Bossing men more pathetic then you around , whatever . You'll never find it if you don't try something though .

Title	Should I just off myself?
Author	B055AN0VA
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	February 18, 2017 12:02 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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