Single Dad Red Pill

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-07-03T19:24:01+00:00

As a single father should I also be avoiding single moms?

Pretty much, and for the same reasons, although given your kid situation, you might find single moms more amenable.

If you can still pull "child free" women, why would you not?

If you think you shouldn't because it's not "fair", then you need to Sidebar more.

huskerbolt1 · 2017-07-03T21:14:34+00:00

I am in the same situation as you are with the exception I am a bit older. I know what it says here ... I do think its good advice however in my experience you often have to take certain things with a grain of salt and pull out what works for you and what does'nt.

For me dating the single moms is the norm, infact anyone who at this point (past 40) had kids really doesn't get it and she normally has some serious red flags if not wanting to lock shit down and get preggo STAT.

I have a total of 4 plates, all with atleast one and all under 30. The challenge is staying in frame and not becoming the Beta Provider/Daddy-to-be.

If you are 30, I would stick to the single gals TBH but for those that are a bit older there is easy pickings out there with the single moms and it takes less effort to spin them.

UEMcGill · 2017-07-03T23:43:47+00:00

I got a divorced friend. He has kids and he exclusively dated single moms (not Redpill). His theory was they understand his position in life. Reality was almost all were on the fast track for the next "daddy".

The upside was they all fucked on the first date. Everyone. He even went out with one chick who was like "this isn't going to work, but let's fuck anyway" The downside, they all pushed for instant commitment.

So if you have steel frame, you can use them like any other slut. Sluts are good for plates so keep that in mind. Be careful, wrap that dick or get a vasectomy so they don't turn up preggo. Just don't go thinking you can wife one up or be captain-sav-a-ho cause you're not. Your resources go towards your mission and your own family.

Westernhagen · 2017-07-03T20:36:52+00:00

I don't see why hooking up with single moms should be a problem. Wouldn't LTR or (god forbid) marry one though.

What you'll really have to watch out for are single women in their 30s who have no kids but who are desperate to have them.

checka_fred · 2017-07-06T21:01:26+00:00

I'm married, so I'm not necessarily looking for hookups... but if I was looking for hookups, the only thing I'd be avoiding is underage girls, and girls I'm not attracted to.

If you're looking for potential LTR material, then yeah, general rule of thumb would be to avoid the single moms.

If you're getting hard no's it's probably a "you don't lift enough" problem more than it's a "this general group of women won't fuck" problem. Especially single moms being that general group (I would think).

If you're closing other chicks though, maybe you've just got some negative vibe towards single moms. I doubt it has anything to do with you being a single father though (maybe leftover resentment towards your ex - a single mom). Optimize your game by fucking girls that want to fuck you.

Title	Single Dad Red Pill
Author	Ezrickkn
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	July 3, 2017 6:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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