Question for fellow guys.

5pecial · 2017-09-11T00:49:23+00:00

I definitely feel the same way. Looks fade fast and relationships are a ton of hard work, so you should at least have the benefit of being able to savor that time when she looked her best. If you're marrying a girl past her prime, why would you give her your best resources ($) when she didn't give you hers (youth)?

oldredder · 2017-09-11T06:40:59+00:00

That's very off for dating. Only a man in his prime can make such a demand and very few are. Even then a ton of them will be ignored because some women really want to date men their age.

Leos are big with loyalty

Are you retarded? Did you just bring astrology into asktrp / theredpill? Seriously? Dude you can pull stupid chicks with that, you can't swing it around here like it's a dick to show off.

sd4c · 2017-09-11T01:02:05+00:00

Relationships and women are damned hard work, it's the red pill on "hard mode", as they say. Figure out your mission in life and focus on that until success is the most likely outcome. Then open yourself up to dating. If you have the choice, always pick younger over older, all other things being equal.

The only thing worse than developing oneitis, is having to add the embarrassment of admitting to your boys that the tears and moping, are about a 33-year old hag.

GreenPiller · 2017-09-11T00:44:02+00:00

Its natural. Who doesn't like young tight women?

elcarlosmiguel · 2017-09-11T01:32:55+00:00

welcome home brother

JeffreyDoe · 2017-09-11T03:58:44+00:00

"If a woman didnt give me her prime years then she isnt worthy"

LMFAO. You sound like a bitter fuck, and everyone who has the same mentality. You talk as if you (or your cohorts) deserve ANYTHING, let alone things regarding women.

SAME ENTITLEMENT mentality that women have being put on display here.

And just LOL @ the dumbass statement "its a loyalty thing". Shut the hell up. Not one of them are loyal. Chads get chaded.

NOT TO MENTION THE FACT that most chicks in that age range will have partners in the double digits, few exceptions.

Get off your high fucking horse OP, you really arent shit, no one will remember you when you die (or me). So stop acting like you deserve shit.

kranos33 · 2017-09-11T06:08:12+00:00

Going to chime in on this, as I am probably a bit older than you (35). What you find attractive in a person shifts with time, and there is a huge difference between just "looks" and overall person.

To pure "fucking" 22-26 is the age range I find the most attractive (younger girls look like children too me). But when it comes to actual holding a convo, and having things in common, and being able to relate to each other I like the 28+ crowd much better. (this is even for my male friends as well). Most people's brain just is doesn't mature fully until 25 or so. There is a reason car rental companies just don't rent to folks under 25, as they are both reckless and immature in their behaviors, and their motor skills haven't fully developed.

If you do a quick venn diagram, if you are looking for a LTR, at my age, the 26-31 is the sweet spot. It has remained remarkably stable, and shifts very slowly with time. At 31- If found 25-28 the most attractive. At 35, it is 26-31, at 40, I assume it will be 27-32.

I know, some of you fuckers will scream, 'but that's blue pill, I heard in here that they are plenty of 50 yo, dating and fucking 22yo, women', but that's how it is for me. Try to hold a conversation with a 22yo. You just fucking can't.

TLDR: There is a huge difference on what you consider 'prime' attractive for just fucking, and to actually have a relationship.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-09-11T02:47:16+00:00

Dont give me that "Leos" zodiac crap. Yes we'd all love a woman in her prime. But in life we dont all get what we want. Sometimes we get what we need. You will see your needs change with age.

PeopleHateThisGuy · 2017-09-11T05:38:53+00:00

How old are you and how would you rate yourself on the 10 scale?

MattyAnon · 2017-09-11T13:20:53+00:00

Leos are big with loyalty

horoscopes are garbage, give it up.

I asked this question at datingoverthirty and those old bats (4 out of 5 of the moderators were those misandric witches) shook their cat-filled fists at me.

Right. They hate that.

They told me to come here.

Welcome!

Most guys here don't justify it with "give me their best years".... most are "I'll get as good as I can get".

Your attitude, OP, is the way to avoid the post-CC beta bucks dead bedroom.

Sadly this doesn't work forever... sooner or later you'll struggle to pull 20 year old girls. And marrying one isn't gonna fix it. And then you have to date slightly older. And then of course.... the problem you outline.

setsuna0 · 2017-09-11T03:02:12+00:00

I agree

awayofthought · 2017-09-11T20:22:39+00:00

This was the way all men thought about women until recently in society. In my country, women who make it to 25+ and are still unable to find a guy are considered whores or just thought of as broken.

Title	Question for fellow guys.
Author	GQManOfTheYear
Upvotes	10
Comments	19
Date	September 10, 2017 11:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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