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| 1 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?fuck, auto correct lol | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Who here is currently in "monk mode" and how do you feet about it?I'm preparing to go monk mode. Getting my schedule, things I want to improve prioritized, and what I need to cut out in my life. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Downloaded Tinder,Okupid,Bumble,POF,Hinge. I'm a male model, but am ZERO social proof. Prime example of no social = No pickens..How's your pictures? Online is basically all visual. Have striking photos. Maybe one of you modeling if you can. From there just be chill and build rapport. Get a number in 7 messages on the app. Then text for logistics. Once you meet then you can show more personality. Online dating is rough. I've been in your position. I'm not an official model yet. But irl women stare and online is difficult. A girl I met on tinder showed me she had like 400 matches. While decent she wasn't even in my level. … | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 4 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?Why are you so mad? I remember now. I read that a long time ago but forgot the term. I just asked a question. In fact I'm reading Irrational Male now give me a break lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?What's the Brad Pitt test | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How to not get nervous after approachingThat's true I feel like a robot lately. I'll just not overthink it | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How to not get nervous after approachingYeah, lately I have been getting numbers. Having a hard time getting dates tho tbh. I feel like I need more practice | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 07:34 AM |
| 2 | How to not get nervous after approachingNever asked for magic. I don't even drink. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How to not get nervous after approachingIt really does take balls and practice. My brother was watching but I didn't even care if I looked stupid. So that's a start. Going to practice more | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 05:44 AM |
| 2 | How to not get nervous after approachingBro ik that shit defeats me lol. They say bf I just go "oh well". | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | If you didn't have to work what would you do to become a top 5% man?Maybe I should've phrased it better. But not a 9-5 and tons of free time. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Bro you're the man. You are everything she needs and wants rn. Just be you but the best version. Everything will fall into place. I never feel pressure on a date. Because I don't care the outcome | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Tinder worth it?Tbh I usually wait a few hours to message. Maybe by then they've found someone else or are busy. I'll try messaging right after matching. Maybe you can sort this out for me. I have 2 possible lays that I'm unsure about. One says stuff like "let's hangout today" then when I'm available it's radio silence. Until the next day. Is it for validation? As a guy it makes 0 sense to me. The other wants to meet me but works and goes to school. And said she isn't available until next week because finals? I… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Tinder worth it?Taking good pictures is a thing too. I've had tinder dates where the girl would say I look even better in person. As for dropping standards. Im trying to avoid that. It's just a waste of time | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Tinder worth it?No not at all lol | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Tinder worth it?Well said bro. Im trying to not be another drone | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Tinder worth it?That's what I'm thinking. My tinder game is moderate. Looks I am a solid 7-8. Real life feels easier. Since they can actually see my height, clothes, body language. Tinder feels like a lot of work lol | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Tinder worth it?I have two possible lays from it. But I don't like how most matches just go nowhere | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Tinder worth it?I definitely don't lol | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 10:35 AM |
| 0 | Tinder worth it?Im just going to focus on day and night game then. My ig is bare my tinder is ok but needs work. I'll try again later | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | What’s with girls taking a day or two to text back?Im having this issue too. These women say they want to see me but take a day to reply. I'm not in town to see them until Wednesday but still | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good approach?Night game I'll at least do once a week. Online I'll get into. Tired of it lol. For sure bro. I spend 80% of my time learning skills. I learned that just adding value make a Every thing else easier. But I will focus on monetizing at most I've gotten $350 From side projects. Thanks for your insight | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good approach?Do you think I should step put specifically to day game? I have a lot of free time but I'm either home, gym, or work. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good approach?When I said lucky guy it was in a light way but yeah I agree. It being a numbers game is the hard part for me. I be thinking damn how many do I gotta miss. I like your responses tho. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good approach?Right, I was more smooth with it. I came off lightf tho since I was feel great. Next time I'm going to ask when I'M ready, got it! | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get bold and approach a girl?Messages makes getting rejected easier. In person is best. I know the feeling! Just don't worry about it or pedistalize! Have fun communicating | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How to get bold and approach a girl?Yes bro lol. Because if you don't you'll regret it. I had a crush and never told her. Never seen her again and been kicking myself ever since. When I approached women and got rejected I was able to move on. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Did your perception change when you started approaching seriously? If so, how? It's like I'm already defeated before seriously starting. I've been non-stop self-improving. All that's left is to approach, and I go out, yet I'm blocked.Your last point got me. My friends are good guys but beta. I've taken their advice a few times and it always went wrong. And how I originally thought. Going with my gut | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:38 PM |
| 4 | How to get bold and approach a girl?Rejection is better than regret | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry herI never thought about it this way. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 05:04 AM |
| 7 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicAs someone with too many hobbies. This doesn't always work. The hobby would have to include women (rare). Then I would have to be interested. On top of that it can make things uncomfortable if it doesn't work in the long run. Let's say if you went to an art class. Cold approach is cool because you don't have to worry about seeing them at 7 everyday. After it not working. Plus you don't have to approach 100s... personally I only approach women I really like and if it's the right time. Couple time… | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicCaptain America could approach you and you'd turn him down? You're either a lie or stupid As a guy I myself have been approached before. And it never made me uncomfortable. At the very least I'm flattered they took a liking and was brave enough to express that. It's rare so I guess that's why it's not an annoyance. Do women really not like irl approaches? I feel like with online dating it's becoming less. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:03 AM |
| 2 | What does your list of priorities look like?Health Goals Fitness Relationships Dating I heard I should go out more for day and night game. But wouldn't that classify as chasing women? I rarely meet them in my day to day life | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 02:07 AM |
| 2 | How to get the confidence to daygame cougars6'2 | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get the confidence to daygame cougarsLike the way you think | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get the confidence to daygame cougarsI get them as is. I just want the experience lol | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get the confidence to daygame cougarsI don't know their ages they were young looking. Maybe not old cougar territory but def an 8 | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How to get the confidence to daygame cougarsReally? How so? | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 3 | How to get the confidence to daygame cougarsOh, trust me I'm working on it. I'm getting muscle but I'm not huge yet. My height evens it out | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion what are the best 10 hobbies that a man should learnYou're right I need to make the gym more of a priority. I was studying anatomy & digital landscape concept art. Once you really get into it there's nothing like it. Creating new environments you thought up. I need to start timing myself lol | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 4 | In your opinion what are the best 10 hobbies that a man should learnThis really motivates me to dust off my guitar, thank you | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion what are the best 10 hobbies that a man should learnThis is actually what I'm currently working on. But I find myself sticking to one hobby certain days and missing time on the others. Like today I studied art for like 4 hours. Which left no time to study Spanish or go to the gym. I want to pick up guitar but I feel like what I have is a lot already. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Is this even a smart ideaThank you bro. I'll do it and report back in December | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is this even a smart ideaYeah, exactly I'm not looking to score. It'll most likely happen but I just need to get away for a week or so. I can take some good photos as well. I live in "the hood" so my world is small. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Is this even a smart ideaFor the record. I'm not traveling for pussy. There's women everywhere in my area. In fact i turn them down. I just have money and a lot of free time tbh. She's not a oneitus or anything. I get women at home. I want to just see more of the world. But I don't want to just go without knowing anyone first. I'll definitely hit up more women in the area. I'm in no way shape or form trying to get married. This is more motivation to work on Spanish and get out of the hood for once. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Is this even a smart ideaThat's what I'm trying to avoid lol | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Is this even a smart ideaThat's amazing actually. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Gf said she is more attracted to mind, energy than looks and said a friend was objectively more beautiful than me.I know you care somewhat. But at least act like you don't care. Personally if a girl tried that on me I'd say it doesn't matter what he is. I'm the best anyway. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Creating An Aura Of AttractionWhat if she never looks my way and I'm basically invisible | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is validating/complimenting women working so well for me?See that's great. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 03:28 PM |
| 2 | So I tried to escalateThank you immensely bro lol. I've been my own worst enemy as of late. You're right fuck it. I have taxes to do & places to be. No need asking for something so basic and natural. Making things weird. Looking back I can't even imagine a woman saying yes to something like that lol. If I get rejected who cares, it's just Tuesday | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | So I tried to escalateHow to escalate properly. What's the art to it without making things weird? What to even do if you fail | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | No matter what I do I can’t get any females should I give upDamn dude. You're honestly in a great situation. As a 16 year old you have a SOLID foundation. Most people don't even know basic redpilled knowledge. I'm also black and it's hard. But just keep improving. Enjoy high school you'll only get this once. Girls are INEVITABLE. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 03:56 AM |
| 9 | Why is validating/complimenting women working so well for me?My best approach last week started with "you're pretty, let me get your number so we can talk later" | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Why do you always say to F**K women in the ass and to stop masturbating?So, you fap and feel a boost? Maybe so I am on nofap now. I have phases where I don't fap and do. Right now I just personally want to limit it. I found that I get to lax lol. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | So I tried to escalateWhen we first greeted each other that initial hug was the best time. I will just chill out and be natural | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 02:53 AM |
| -1 | Why do you always say to F**K women in the ass and to stop masturbating?For nofap I think it's like testosterone increase and such that happens when you retain semen | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Why do you always say to F**K women in the ass and to stop masturbating?He's just being an ass with no real value, ignore. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Where the heck do you guys meet these HB7+?That's crazy they put that much work in. Makes me wonder how 8+ live. I basically never take photos of my self. Tbh bro I have been working on my approach anxiety, but it's hard. What you said helps me a lot. I'll likely never see this woman again. That's my only chance which is great because I can fail and it not effect me. I just rarely see attractive women. Unless they're working and at that point I never speak up because I don't want to intrude. But fuck it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 08:20 AM |
| 2 | How far will a women go for you?I've had women do everything. It's possible. But it all depends on you. Focus being the best you can be. You'll see results. I need to try more myself too. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 3 | how to act when you are being lied to?Tbh bro I needed to hear this myself. I've been in his shoes. I remember accusing. Looking back I should've just left with my dignity. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Day/Night game v OnlineHow do you hunt? Do you pick a free day to just go out and game? I'm just asking because I'm considering doing that. I rarely see pretty women on my commutes | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Days apart: woman stares at me at the gym, see her at local park the next week and stares at me at the park. I approach her and she tells me she has a bf. Why do women do this?I had a friend fall into that trap. She cheated like 3 times and left him. (Surprise surprise) | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Days apart: woman stares at me at the gym, see her at local park the next week and stares at me at the park. I approach her and she tells me she has a bf. Why do women do this?That makes sense. I never saw it as a barrier I could knock down. I'm going to start | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:13 PM |
| 9 | Days apart: woman stares at me at the gym, see her at local park the next week and stares at me at the park. I approach her and she tells me she has a bf. Why do women do this?So if a woman says I have a bf I should stick around and flirt? Then bounce gracefully? I'm not being sarcastic. This is a genuine question. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 06:19 AM |
| 5 | When A Woman FLAKES: Golden Opportunity To Build ATTRACTIONIdk chief my ex was helping with home renovations. She flaked a good 2-3x and later admitted she had bad acne too lol. We were together for like 3 years. So it varies. In that case we knew each other for a bit. Try to be flexible but not a push over. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 02:48 AM |
| 3 | will you compare how a girl treats you compared to others?It's HER turn. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Heavy kino no number closeThat makes a lot of sense | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like modern dating is getting better or worse?Ok, I'll be honest and say I'm top 10 looks wise. Career wise? I'm on the low end. Will change that. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Heavy kino no number closeI'm fucking up already then. Not trying to lower myself more than this overthinking. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Do you feel like modern dating is getting better or worse?How do you know if you are top 20% let alone top 5%? What's even the difference | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Should you approach if you feel invisible to them?Funny thing you said should you approach when you're about to die. Awhile back I was at a concert with my boys and was having the worst pain ever. I was all the way in the back near the exit feeling like I was dying. I saw a hot Asian walk by so I quite literally stumbled/limped up to her to say what's up. But all her friends made like a wall so I couldn't talk to her saying she got a bf lol. I need to get back to that thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Should you approach if you feel invisible to them?Thanks a lot. I needed this | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want to be your fucking motherYeah, but it was nothing much. Maybe 2 days I was up there. That and it was WHO she complained to. One of my boys who lives states away..it just seemed inappropriate yknow? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Should you approach if you feel invisible to them?I didn't think about that bro. I've always looked for something. And YUP definitely looked weird we passed by each other a few times. Won't hesitate next time | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say?This is gold | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 04:35 AM |
| 5 | Unique conversation starters for cold approachI say the first usually stupidest thing I have in mind. It works lol | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Women don't want to be your fucking motherI say odd because it extends beyond her children. At least OP learned. That's the beauty of this community. You learn about these nuances the world hides from you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 01:45 PM |
| 50 | Women don't want to be your fucking motherIdk bro my mom is odd. She loves as unconditional as possible. It's actually unhealthy. But other women yeah...they don't give a fuck. I had one who acted like she was there for me at the hospital. While talking behind my back to my boy about why that's so hard for her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approachI saw my ideal type. I didn't even think I had one because I love all kinds. But she captivated me. She seemed to be eating during her lunch break. I didn't want to intrude and just left. I've been kicking myself ever since. I'd much rather live with a rejection than regret. Good job bro! | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone know where I could find game and flirting tips for guys who DON'T live in a big city?Thank you that makes a lot of sense. If I have been focused on my workouts and look good. It wouldn't hurt to say something 1 or 2x. I once complimented a girl's hair and just kept walking. She seemed genuinely happy I said something. But to stay focused I just had to leave lmao I'll actually talk next time. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone know where I could find game and flirting tips for guys who DON'T live in a big city?How do you talk to them at a gym? I always feel like I'll be judged or labeled a creep lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 05:58 PM |
| 7 | I’ve reached my breaking point and now I’m truly committed to getting over anxiety. Open to suggestionsBro you're only 18. I lost my virginity at 20. I wasn't in a rush and worked on myself. You are off to a great start. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Yourself or Pussy? More pussy won’t make you happier, so how do you make the most of your (precious) time?How did you find your strengths and weaknesses? I feel like I have it all except money. Yet my luck with women is trash | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Yourself or Pussy? More pussy won’t make you happier, so how do you make the most of your (precious) time?I'm trying to achieve that consistency. It's a little difficult for me to stick to a solid routine. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Whats a high income skill you should learn in your younger years?I'm pretty sure that was just an example. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:56 AM |
| 0 | Why shouldn't you date a former slut if you yourself were a player?What if I wasn't a player | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | What's my problem?Thank you man. I needed to hear that. It's nice to get a perspective from older men. That's true though my father is 52 looks young and gets just about any woman he wants without money. I'm trying to get like that lol | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 05:51 AM |
| 2 | What's my problem?I needed to hear this I am 23. I will get it eventually. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Delete, Block, ContinueWhat if you were the one making them wait around? I was basically taking my time to see this girl who I was talking to. And she posted on snap she was with someone. But I'm SURE if I hit her up she'd still want to fuck..Should I even bother at this point? In fact I think her posting that guy was for me to see. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I work out more first before approaching?Thank you very much for the well thought out reply. I will do exactly as you say. It's something I don't want to force I just want it to be my character like you said. So this is all great | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Should I work out more first before approaching?I thought about switching up my workout schedule to get this effect. I usually work out late at night. But I tried early morning and felt great throughout the day. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Should I work out more first before approaching?Man fuck it somebody going to like a thin guy. At least I have height | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Should I work out more first before approaching?Yeah, I guess I can't go wrong there. Maybe that's my problem I'm too focused on the outcome | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Should I work out more first before approaching?Possibly, I just had a few bad situations. Where that was the breaking point. I was just thinking maybe I should just live in the gym for a few weeks | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Rejected While Picking Up Girls ( + Daygame Infield Compilation)u should add subtitles goodshit tho reminds me of my rejections lol we gon get em bro | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Tinder first date, end up at my place, everything's going fine, she smokes weed daily and asked to smoke from my bong, next thing you know she's vomiting and shitting on my couch...Real shit??? | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Bartender or ex-bartender opinions on meeting girls at bars and restaurants.I always wanted to get a bartender or waitress number lol my friends keep telling me it's impossible. My last attempt was at a friend's party at some club. A waitress walked by while I was sitting and I talked with her briefly. But didn't end up getting a number. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Kinda lostI appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Kinda lostTbh Im the prize. No cocky shit but I'm quality. Constantly improving. But you're right. My frame needs work. Idk how I let this happen.. maybe I texted too much to try to build comfort. Welp, lesson learned. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Going on a date and moneyBless you. I needed that line lol. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Being territorial vs being insecure. Where's the line ?This is so cringe | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Why do women always tell me to stop lifting when I'm skinnyBro, you are absolutely right. I had to learn that the hard way. At least it led me here Thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | If something seems off with your LTR, do you ask her?I needed that article. I usually just tune people out. Looking back that caused more problems lol | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 07:50 PM |
| 10 | What's "the thing you do" to help you get out of the funk?This is good. My main problem is finding and sticking to a good routine. That’ll be my goal this week | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitI'll keep it real with you chief. I am not quitting. Why? Because they've been there for me in dark times like on a plane or in a hospital. But I agree with many of your points. An hour a day won't hurt. I think you definitely should log and monitor your time. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Plate doesn't want anything sexual anymore but wants me aroundYou right | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Plate doesn't want anything sexual anymore but wants me aroundIt's wild. If you have a boyfriend why are you calling me to see if I'm coming lmao | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Plate doesn't want anything sexual anymore but wants me aroundThanks, this is simple and logical. I'll meet and see what's up. If 2 I can just leave and check out the area since it's a nice college city area. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Making dumb beta mistakesLike texting a girl you nexted and they try to violate you for even reaching out. I don't make too many mistakes. But whenever I do I get mad at myself because I know better lol | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Practical Guide to Getting Laid on the First DateEven with all of that. It’s still nice to have trp | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | What to do when they keep asking for dick picsThat only reenforces me. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.Idk you but I'm proud you got so far. I'm going through a lot right now and needed to hear this. It's crazy how we can change our life with the right mindset and action. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What to do when they keep asking for dick picsI'll keep it real idk most of those terms. Let me figure this shit out now. I got balls I'm just tryna not send them to every thotpocket | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What to do when they keep asking for dick picsThis is it lol | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Healthy Habits that are slept onHow did d3 help you? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What should i have done here?Thank you very much. I was too worried about overstaying that asked too early. I will stick around from now on and charm! | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What should i have done here?Yeah, you're right I should've just keep the interaction going. There was no real reason for me to leave. I didn't want to over stay though | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Reaching your potentialYeah, I won't change for anyone except myself. But I always take criticism and consider it y'know? The picture thing kinda puzzled me. They have gotten me some results. But, some higher quality wouldn't hurt. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Reaching your potentialYou are right. Thanks brother same to you. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:13 AM |
| 2 | What are some Red Pill quotes that have stuck with you?I haven't seen this. Source? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Why would she show me guys messages?I'd just ask her why is she showing me I don't care | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] 6 year marriage endedI'm very proud of you and happy you are on the right track. Go harder than ever! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 07:51 AM |
| 5 | What to do if they don't date your raceYou got me there. Why am I listening to these niggas | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else get burnt out after many rejections?This is good I noticed I try to number close too quickly. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How to fucking get over a bitchThanks I'll look into that now. I'm not into drugs, drinking, or smoking thankfully | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get burnt out after many rejections?Your way is how I usually go about it. I'd just talk to whoever caught my eye while I was out doing stuff. I don't usually go out clubbing but when I do I always feel like I have to cold approach which never works for me haha. I guess I'm putting too much into it. I'm going to just do my thing | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to fucking get over a bitchI'm interested in this myself. I'm just nervous with travelling to somewhere where I can't speak the language. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 08:37 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I should be doing better than I amIma keep it real with you chief You seem to have everything you need to succeed. You just need to have the confidence to approach IRL. By resorting to online you're putting yourself on the same platform as everyone else. Why waste all of that? Use your advantages where they can work. And that's IRL. Trust me on this one. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What exactly does kissing involve? What's the appropriate mechanics behind it?Don't think feel | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Gaming a woman at her job?Right I shouldn't just slip it for free. That makes a lot of sense. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Gaming a woman at her job?That sounds good. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Gaming a woman at her job?I didn't think about that. I guess I should focus more on becoming that 9+. I'd say rn I'm a 7. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Gaming a woman at her job?Yes, I always take that into account. Simple talking sounds good for the places I regular at. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Gaming a woman at her job?Right, that's how I felt. The chances of me running into them are close to none (big city). I was thinking about slipping them my number and leaving it at that. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Met a Girl at the airportnigga what? I was waiting for a ride home too lol. It would've been cool to offer a ride but whatever. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Met a Girl at the airportYeah that's true. I at least got over my anxiety. I got it next time ^ | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you're at a loss of wordsThank you a lot for writing all of this it definitely was a big help ^ | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you're at a loss of wordsLol I'm going to try that 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 12:30 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you're at a loss of wordsI think that's why club game works for my cousin. He's a dancer and very high energy. I'm the opposite. But learning how to dance as that gets you in. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | 2nd chance with cafe crushSomebody responded! I’ll check out your FR. I never really bothered her because I didn’t want to come off as desperate or annoying. I agree with you 100% I gotta be the man she wants. She’s easily the prettiest girl in there so I gotta come right. I’ve been working out and slowly improving things like skincare. When I’m feeling ready I’ll get to know her and ask her when I feel it’s appropriate. Tbh I wouldn’t mind being a friend first before anything. Thanks for responding | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Failed yesterday. What should I do?I like this. I definitely was more of your first example. Boring in comparison lol. I’m going to work on that this week. Looking back every girl I’ve had at one point always said I was funny. Definitely been too rigid lately I gotta loosen up. Thanks for your input bro it helps | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Failed yesterday. What should I do?I think I asked too soon a couple times. I even felt a little bored with the convos outside of maybe one. I’m definitely going to try more. Looking back I just didn’t know what to say. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Failed yesterday. What should I do?Thank you boss I’m on it | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Failed yesterday. What should I do?Will do thanks | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What happened to your old Oneitis?I heard she’s engaged to the rebound after we fell off. It’s weird because last time we spoke she lamented how worthless he is. Told me that I ruined her. I’ll admit back then I felt slightly bad. But, honestly she ruined herself. Meanwhile I’m feeling stress free. Working on myself everyday. While sometimes she crosses my mind. I snap out of it quick. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The case against being frugalThe way you wrote this definitely makes all the work sound worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 03:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?Yeah I’m going to get my living conditions better over there. But in the meantime I’ll use my car, motels, and her place if possible. I’ll be out by winter anyway | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?I didn’t think about a hotel for the day to fuck multiple plates. That’s actually amazing lol. Yeah I got a car and Ive fucked at a park once. That was one of my best stories lol. guess I have nothing to worry about then. I’m looking around now and I think by fall I can comfortably leave. I’ll be getting a second job to make things go faster. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?Looks like this is the moves right here. ✊🏾 | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 12:17 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?That’s wild I like it lol. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?I am I didn’t move back in yet | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 11:56 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?Ok this is going to sound bad. But I don’t even have a door to my bed room my G lol. And too many family members around. I haven’t lived here since like 2011 so it’s weird from having my own lol | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 11:42 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys maneuver while living with parents ?Yeah there’s that. Our living conditions isn’t something I’d want people around. And my family is too much lol. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 11:40 PM |
| 9 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchDamn, I wish I had this awhile ago. Honestly I fucked up in so many ways. Even now I randomly cringe at how weak I acted. Out of all my past girlfriends I truly never gave a damn. But, the last one kinda broke me. Or at least the weak naive side of me. I always knew to cut off easy and coldly. But, didn’t understand why. I tried to change it up for her. She showed me every reason why my gut feeling is right. I’ll be honest I’ve been in a self inflicted dry spell. Pushing women away that want to … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 07:31 AM |
| 2 | What should I do with my company ?Thank you for this insight. They are all great in their own ways. I guess all handling life at different paces. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 10:01 PM |
| 2 | How to Travel as a Young Man (Part 2)I’ve been thinking about this. I just don’t know where to start | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What does this mean?mYeah thin chin, high cheekbones, good skin etc. I’m definitely really thin so adding some muscle will should do it | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How to Travel as a Young Man (Part One)Any advice for a 23 year old without any college education? I live in America but really would like to travel | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis haunting meYeah, bro for the most part I don’t think about her. But, it’s always that random moment where I get flashbacks. It sucks because she was my first and we had a long 5 year ltr. But, I try to look past how beautiful she was. Or all her good qualities. I just focus on the pain. That pain reminds me ok I need to try my best today. Hopefully one day I won’t remember her. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I being too prideful? What’s your plate qualifications?Is it possible to plate really high SMV chicks? I will think about what you said. Thank you for the insight | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Am I being too prideful? What’s your plate qualifications?Exactly. Idek why I asked this. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Am I being too prideful? What’s your plate qualifications?You're right. That's what it felt like. It's not worth it I felt like I was reaching too low there... | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Am I being too prideful? What’s your plate qualifications?You misunderstand or I worded it wrong. Idc for her values. I'm talking about her quality beyond average looms. She doesn't even seem to be plate material which is what I want at least. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I Got Cheated On and Dumped by My LTR of 4 Years: TRP LessonsI can relate to you, OP. I want to say that you're on the right path. Keep working on yourself because at the end of everything that's all you have. Get inspired by this pain. Let it be the catalyst for something great. My ex broke up with me after 5 years. Shes still with that coworker. It pains me even to this day. Because I've been single this entire time. Struggling with the pain. But, I'm actually grateful. This pain taught me a lifetime of lessons. I feel like now I can unlock my higher se… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 09:10 AM |
| 5 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateThe dont spill the beans rule is true. I had a co-worker interested in me asking me a ton of questions. I am naturally dry so I gave one word answers. But, she asked about my ambitions and I lit up with excitement. I don't think I'll ever forget how her face went from interested "PLEASE TELL ME" to that "ohh I see" look. Her actions followed suit. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Logistics not working for me and TinderI never thought about that. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 05:29 AM |
| -1 | Thoughts on what to do nextI've read it. But, I'll read it again for the 4th time. I understand what he meant. But still I was just asking about this specific scenario. Idc for a buffer for rejection. Fuck that. I said it in another reply lately I haven't been able to go out. I'm working 2 jobs to move out my folks house. The honest way. So usually I'm working all day. 7-1130 not counting commute. I happen to see a bih I was interested in and kicked up. Problem? No, I approach fearlessly all the time when I can. I was rea… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on what to do nextSecurity and retail. I'm in the US. By target HBs you mean number? I usually target HBs 7-9. I know women are everywhere its just been difficult for me lately unless it's a day off. I usually work doubles if possible too. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on what to do nextHow would you own it? Just leave it be? I was just irritated it did that. Usually ppl just ask why sc. But, alright thanks | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on what to do nextOk thanks I've seen others give 2nd chances and it worked out. Or even here. But, I'll just delete them and forget | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 06:55 PM |
| -2 | Thoughts on what to do nextHere u are hating instead of giving constructive criticism you're just being useless. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on what to do nextI'll admit that does sound like laziness and an excuse. It's just rn I'm working 2 jobs. So my only freetime is sometimes 123-3am. Unless I work over night. This is only temp, but aside that I get like 1 day off usually to do gym/daygame. Which I do. I'm just asking for opinions on this scenario. But ty I'll find time | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever accused you of reading TRP in real life?Yeah, my cousin. But, I told him about it when I first found TRP. I guess he did enough digging to understand. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 02:06 AM |
| 21 | Schrödinger's (n)AWALT : Right now, she (never) love(s/d) you. E.g. tingles uber alles and why finding a "unicorn" is a waste of time.This resonates with me. I've found TRP because of this very reason. Basically I found the most "unicorn-like" woman I could find. At the time she had all the qualities I ever wanted. While also not from America and having conservative values like me. It seemed unreal how perfect it was. To the point where everyone would tell me it's too good to be true. Or that we couldn't be that great because AWALT. Now, I have a card from her that's a physical reminder AWALT. The card was long but basically h… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Difference between a date and chilling?lol will do. That's what I'm doing anyway | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Difference between a date and chilling?Alright, that makes sense. I guess I shouldn't have mentioned a date. Tbh I'm not sure what kind of chilling she means either. At our first meet up she seemed super excited and called me later that night. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 04:45 AM |
| 7 | November 10 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPros Nofap for almost 2 weeks Optimizing skincare routine Elevating my already great wardrobe Creating art for clients Fixed headphones I desperately needed Met a girl from online and cold approached Cons Missed hours of training | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 05:08 PM |
| 1 | My female housemate and her Sugar DaddiesGood work. I'd want someone to tell me if I was in his position. It saves a lot of time and money. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get over severe oneitisThank you I'll do just that. Luckily I have a few girls lined up. I'm definitely interested in motorbikes. I'm saving for one now. I blocked and deleted my oneitis. I'm just going to forget about her because you're right. She never existed so i shouldn't even worry about it anymore. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How to get over severe oneitisI'll just go harder in my improvements then. It's rough but I'm looking forward to the day where I feel free again. Going out definitely showed me that I could be doing WAY better. So that's what I'll do brother. Let's keep up the good fight | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 10:54 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread November 01How do you approach women? I approach confidently, well dressed, and I sometimes number close. But, it always lead to no follow up text. Right now I'm like 10/10. What's weird is these approaches are always great. I'm trying to find where I went wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Having a young faceIt's crazy how much we learn here. Women most likely always were attracted to you. But, now you realize it! Abuse this power brother lol | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Having a young faceI'll tough it out and try to use it to my advantage. Luckily I'm tall so that helps haha. Thank you for the tips! I don't drink or smoke at all. I've been investing in skincare too. You're definitely right though. If I can master game at my age (22) then later will be really fun. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Having a young faceThat's a good way to put it. Mature ownership. I've been working on my maturity and dressing more up class and less street. Also lifting because my body is tall but too thin. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Having a young faceThank you I'll work on it. I noticed my confidence has been low lately. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Having a young faceYeah...I'll admit my game is weak. But, I'm working on it. Also bulking up. It doesn't help I'm skinny. But, it will be great when I get older. My parents both look very young. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 08:35 AM |
| 4 | Having a young faceThat's a perk lol | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 10:54 PM |
| 4 | My life is a mess, I am trying to sort it out. Where is the best place to start? Do things actually get better?I really like what you've written. I needed to hear this too. But, does knowing TRP alone put you ahead 80% of the population? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Making use of time at work?That's exactly what it is. Tbh fuck girls right now their irrelevant. I need to find a decent job. They'll only get in the way. I'm going monk mode anyway | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Making use of time at work?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Making use of time at work?I will do as soon as I arrive home. I've been working here for 8 months so that'll look better. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Making use of time at work?You're absolutely right. I'm looking now. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How to go about ONSAlright then. I'll just start my day like usual. They'll either leave or I'll walk them like u said. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How to go about ONSAlright then say less. You're right it is very BP | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How to go about ONSAlright then say less. You're right it is very BP | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How to go about ONSYes asking you lol. What do you do if they don't want to? Or can't? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 10:04 PM |
| 0 | How to go about ONSNigga I'm not saying to my house I mean like the next day lmao I'm dead ass clue less what's the etiquette | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | What did that mean?I got you lol that kinda sucks for me. I was busy. And I don't drive right now. If I did I would've just said I'm coming. Ig it's a missed opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 09:14 AM |
| 2 | “For a frog in the well, the well is his world”That's true. I'm not relying on anyone. Its just this morning and last night was really bad for me. But, you are absolutely right | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | “For a frog in the well, the well is his world”Thank you so much for this. I cannot tell you how much I needed it. I'm going through a lot right now, feel stagnant, and I need to break out. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?This is really great thank you! I see I've been doing it all wrong then. I gotta make her feel something. That's something I haven't done. Thank you for the insight. I'm going to be more descriptive and hit their emotions. I may have been too dry like your first example. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?Yeah.....I gotta work on that. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?I'll do just that. It seems like diligence is key for this. While lifting, reading, and staying busy I feel empowered. Congrats to you bro that's great progress. I'm thin so I'm working on gains. I would love it if they approached me. I'm trying to get on that level. One of my boys definitely does bring me down. Whenever I do dance he just shakes his head as if I'm disgusting. He never wing man or approaches either. And gets mad when I don't do what he says.. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?Yeah I include friends too. I have one who calls and ask if I want to go out often lol. Last Saturday it was cool my group of 3 linked up with another friend group of 6. So we were all out having a great time. Women weren't the focus, but I approached a lot. And thank you I guess I'm not failing after all. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?Yeah I'm getting over a break up. My last LTR was a few years. So, it's been awhile since I been out in the wild. I do game, but it's barely 30 mins every other day. I am still early into RP. So, far it has taught me a lot. I started lifting, reading, and going out often. I'm definitely working on fixing myself. The getting laid part is no big deal. I just want to know different dynamics I may not be up on. While improving my mindset and body. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?Thank you for writing this all out. In comparison my approaches are dry and straight forward. So, I'll say "Hi my name is Setsuna, and I'd like to get to know you what's your name?" Or I'll say that but instead of what's your name I'll say can I have your number. This didn't really work at all. I had 0 rapport and focused on talking to as much women as possible rather than the quality of my approach. One approach went well. And I did kinda what you did and didn't say my name. Asked about her. Sh… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I failing? Or making progress?Yeah I do but I'm still slim. The clothes I wear don't really show my muscle like that. I gotta really work on my SMV then. Aside lifting, and yes I do lift. Maybe not enough? Dancing is optional but my friends make it seem mandatory | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:25 PM |
| 7 | Plate is getting married.. Wants to continue to our physical relationship behind the husband's backRUN!!!!! | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 11:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out alone last nightThis gave me confidence to go out again. I went out last night too but it wasn't as great lol keep it up bro | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread October 04You're right. I definitely don't need any kids lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Investing money in a more expensive hairdresser is totally worth itMe and my brothers go to a barber every 2 weeks for about $15+ per cut. And keep products in stock through the month. It's great because our hair always looks sharp. Beards are important too! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 11:11 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread October 04So, I may possibly have a date with an old coworker who left my job. How should I approach this? I know she has a kid too. How should I work with that? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How long should you wait before leaving a scheduled date?I'm going to work on that. It started to bother me less as time went on. I plan on going out this weekend too and doing better. But, that's true it does make sense for a man to be alone. My father is the one who opened my eyes to going out alone. He said he always goes out alone and dies best by himself. I definitely gotta work on my game at bars. Like separating a woman from her orbiters/friends. This was like my second time in a bar and I see why ppl go. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How long should you wait before leaving a scheduled date?I agree. She missed her chance. I didn't feel bad for leaving at all. The blocking was childish. But, I was going to call her out so she knew lol. The whole room wasn't staring. Mainly 1 big group of older women. I brushed it off eventually and worked on getting numbers since I was there. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How long should you wait before leaving a scheduled date?Yeah that was mad shady. I didn't let it get to me. I needed to get out | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How long should you wait before leaving a scheduled date?No I didn't give a heads up. I took my time tbh. The place had no re-entry. So she'd have to pay again. So I doubt that's the case. It's possible but she never notified me she was in there. Until I left ofc. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on getting out of a mental rut? Is it possible to have more than 1 oneitus?Thanks for your not witty comment. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 27I found an Aikido dojo nearby. It was really cool I was thinking about starting since it's only $50 with uniform included. And is flexible with my work schedule. Anyone try Aikido? What's your favorite martial art? I'm picking one up to compliment my weight lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Any ideas on getting out of a mental rut? Is it possible to have more than 1 oneitus?YUP. That's exactly what happened to me. It's a waste of time to even have social media aside business. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on getting out of a mental rut? Is it possible to have more than 1 oneitus?Yeah, this void I feel I'd say is light depression. I guess I just need to get the ball rolling again. It's funny back in my last LTR all I did was work on my goals. She was an after thought. I like it better that way because these women aren't worth idealizing. Sure the oneitus I have now is cool. But not worth the time I spend thinking how it would be with her. I guess mows a good time to pick up some new hobbies and goals. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on getting out of a mental rut? Is it possible to have more than 1 oneitus?You're right...I've been day dreaming too much. I found trp because I was trying to use women to fill this void I feel. That's the best way to put it. A real mental block. There's so much that I want to do or am doing women shouldn't be a thought. Just an effect of my work. I'll work on finding this happiness within myself. I'll admit it's been hard. I'm recovering from being in the hospital for 2 months. Trying to do more. I guess I've been burning myself out. I think I need to take some steps … | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on getting out of a mental rut? Is it possible to have more than 1 oneitus?Yes, I'm working 16 hours tomorrow. But, it's odd my job cut my hours from 5-6 days to 2 this week. So I took a double shift when they asked just to make something decent. I guess I've had too much free time. I worded that wrong. More accurately I guess I'd say I keep track of 1 only because her post are damn near hourly so I see her often. She's someone I'm interested in. I'd say my "type". But there's no way for me to even meet her atm. The other 2 are some I know just can't get to. But you're… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 04:17 AM |
| 1 | She said she actually doesnt like when guys are in shapeMy ex told me the same thing years ago...ukno what she said when things was ending? She started to say how I'm not "man enough" and couldn't even carry her fat ass. Or that I was a twig. When before she used to rave about how sexy she thought I was. Any mention of working out was a big NO!!!! Don't do it!! Fucc what your gf says bro honestly. Make yourself stronger. Gain some confidence and power within yourself. Because once she leaves you'll be happy with yourself. Don't make the mistake I mad… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 03:44 AM |
| 3 | [FR] How I Accidentally Cucked My Best FriendWeird I grew up around guys who'd just pass them to their bros. So they both get it and laugh the entire time. I'd rather do that then do what OP did. It's pretty beta imo | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | How I fucked up my chances with a girl by showing concern.She doesn't want to be saved? I don't think you judging her getting a tattoo is trying to save her. In fact with that attitude you'll miss out on a lot of women. If a woman told me that I'd just be like ok that's cool. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 03:03 PM |
| 7 | askTRP Megathread September 20It's tough but it's a push and pull game. You gotta be caught up in your life. I noticed once I sent 3 texts it was over. That alone seems like too much lately. You gotta show interest but not too much. It kinda sucks. But if you're busy it won't bother you. Find some time to do something else too | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 02:19 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread September 20What's a weird fetish you guys have encountered? One girl wanted me to pee on her lmao I was R Kelly that day | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys in here who remained single on their way to achieving success in life (mainly financial but also SMV in general) or those that know guys who did, how did it end up?That's true. But, hey it's a slight edge. All of my shorter friends always say I have it easy. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Guys in here who remained single on their way to achieving success in life (mainly financial but also SMV in general) or those that know guys who did, how did it end up?I'm tall too but I feel like I don't use it as an advantage. Love your post. Always enlightening. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Divorce, a set path?Yeah, I agree completely. I'm not marrying unless I see everything from her family and such. I'll have to be 100 too. Your grandfather sounds like he had his stuff together. My only thing is I'm not trying to divorce if I marry. That's a waste of time and money. But it was something I wanted because I seen it work within my family. But, I will ONLY do it if everything just lines up. And I'm always on point. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Divorce, a set path?Damn I used to want to get married until I came here. So many horror stories | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 04:37 AM |
| 2 | How do YOU handle disrespectIdek that about children. Good to know lol women are like children after all | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU handle disrespectHaha thanks a lot bro! You keep up the good work too. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU handle disrespectOk, good. Then I'm doing the right thing then. I asked because people make me feel like I'm too harsh or rude. But, really I'm just correcting them after they violated. I'll keep in mind to dominate every group | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU handle disrespectI like this a lot. I need to do this because I know I have the tendency to cut them off. Which only makes me look stupid and they keep going. Because they feel I didn't let them speak. Now what if it's just a quick rude comment? Something not even 5 seconds. But it's frequent? I feel like that's a soft next too | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How to make an ex-girlfriend a plateI've been contemplating this too....even as I go out and meet women I still have feelings for my ex. Part of me just wants to give things another go. Who wouldn't want another shot? But, as I continue to work out and meet women I think what's the point? I don't think my problem is scarcity. Because I have options. Just having a hard time detaching for good. But like the Bible says "if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and. cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee." Even if you aren… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Random party with resultsYup, that is correct. It has cities like Camden nearby too. That are very hood. Sometimes I go out in both areas. You just gotta be careful with shootouts. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/17 04:07 PM |
| 10 | I Found A Unicorn!Tests never end in all relationships. You'll always have to work. Always have to be on point. Everyday. Not for her. But, for you. Some LTRs may blow up and plates may break. But there are no unicorns. There's no exceptions. I too thought I had the one. She let me down. But, that was because I expected fictional traits from a real person. With real flaws. The best thing to do is not worry about her being a unicorn. But, worry about yourself. We should be on point with everything regardless or at… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Random party with resultsThat's exactly what I'm talking about! That's exactly what I did. I like it that way tbh. Makes me be on point. Brings out alpha traits I have. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Don't just split every situation into AF/BBSomething similar happened to me. This girl would buy me gold watches, expensive game consoles etc. I'd only sometimes get her a gift like on occasions. Overall she was completely in my frame. But, there was a lot of issues. After awhile I became more weak with my resolve. She sensed that and ran off. I let physical issues and the problems we have cloud my judgement. The next guy was beta af too. So it's not black and white at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 06:50 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Random party with resultsI can see that. I was shy at first but gained confidence is all. I say try to be open minded. Read the side bar. Red pilled theory is like eating fish. Spit out the bones. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 05:37 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Random party with resultsI'm not entitled at all actually. No one owes me anything. If what I wrote was "Ew" you're speaking for everyone there. It's hard to explain if you haven't went to this kind of party. I respect women immensely. The point is that at something like this you're forced to be more "savage". Because alphas dominate in that environment. If I ever tried to dance with someone and she wasn't feeling it I'd respect that and move along. Afterwards I just asked the few I messed with if we could chill another… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 04:16 PM |
| 23 | September 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGood I've worked overtime and bought myself new things to boost confidence like a watch. Haven't fapped or watched porn Got my hair looking great again Worked out whenever I could Optimized my morning and night routines Played less video games. More studying Went out a few times. Always got numbers. Possible plates. One girl even approached me lol Bad My ex reached out. We've been talking again. I saw her the other day. I'm not stuck on her so no oneitus anymore. But, I do still care for her. No… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 03:10 PM |
| 45 | Don't just split every situation into AF/BBThis is why we just gotta focus on ourselves. Women sometimes just break even when you did everything or most things right. But if you truly did then it'll be easy to bounce back. Definitely don't think the guy gets cheated on is an automatic beta. Some bihs are just hoes | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 03:04 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Random party with resultsFrom my experience European girls are differ. Black girls here either range from extremely stuck up or outgoing. Alphaness is most important with them. Because they will try to dominate you. Which is cool. I enjoy challenges | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 02:03 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Random party with resultsTruly. It's a different beast | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 01:01 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 13If you talk to a woman and she gives you her Snapchat instead of a number is this a good thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'Yeah I was talking to my brother about that. He told me the same thing and I agree completely. Personally I don't want someone easy ig. It's a red flag. I'd be looking like damn she must've fucked everybody lol. Nothing worse than having a LTR that's been around and ppl clowning you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'Ah, I see okay. That makes sense to me now. I usually just try to see if they'll come straight over. But if it's a date I'll wait until the 2nd. Because I like to know something about them. And I'll look out for those situational cues. Really that's the most important part. And the easiest if it's going well. Now my final question to you is would you LTR a girl who gave up sex on the first date? Not on the spot, but eventual. Would the day 1 sex bother you? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'So you would rather a good medium of both a big crowd but small culturally interesting and overall better? That'd make sense. I live near philly. The culture I'd say is decent not too sure yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'Why exactly do you do a venue change? And not go straight home? lol I don't drink or watch rick and Morty I gotta figure something out haha | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone been in a LTR for a long time?Damn.. I'm sorry man. This really makes me reconsider marriage. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Can you guys expand on thisI'm not sure either I just copied that from plate theory iii from rationalmale. Since it was side bar material I wanted to expand on the idea. That's really good bro. I got my LTR motivated to go to college when she was going to skip. She saw I had scholarships and I encouraged her of the benefits of school. She did online school primarily so she was scared. Over time it didn't last because her family stopped her. But it was nice to see I was being a good influence. Or a solid container rather. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'This is why location is important. Rn I live outside of a big city but not in it. All the women are there. If I go across the bridge and meet some I have to rely on Uber considering my car is down too. I was thinking about moving to a big metro city. Not for women but for more options overall. My town is dead lol. Thanks for expanding | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'Got any links that explain this better | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What parts of RP do you disagree with and why?Ok nigga first of all what the hell are you talking about? I said the term annoys me. Not the idea behind it. Next, you sound like a generic red-pull bot. I've seen exactly what you've said so many times. Same diction and all. That's sad you can't think for yourself even with writing. Now all I was saying was ltr and marriages aren't that bad. Idk wtf you're saying. Idk what woman hurt you but she got you good. Ok you aren't in the game. But my father taught me that you can do whatever. Women ar… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Question for fellow guys.I agree | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | What parts of RP do you disagree with and why?I hate seeing AWALT constantly. Idk it's just the term itself annoys me. Weird i know I don't exactly agree that LTR and marriage is that bad like everyone claims. Both require tons of work on both sides. I believe marriage can be great. But only if you and your partner can handle it. Now ik marriage can ruin you. But that's why it needs to be the right one. And you gotta work hard to maintain as well as improving. Me personally I don't believe in divorce. I may not get married. But if I do illl… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Those tits, manI see you too are a man of culture | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Learning the word "no" in my journey...My favorite part is when you said no to the two women. More men need to do this. Fucc them 😤 | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Walk into the Bar even when you don't feel like itThis is real. Just show up. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Any shortcuts/advice for someone (35M) with a few million $I got you. Thanks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Any shortcuts/advice for someone (35M) with a few million $Could you enlighten me on how to make good money online? Maybe a pm? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Any shortcuts/advice for someone (35M) with a few million $Considering you're older than me (I'm 22). I think you possibly know more. I'm most likely am not telling you anything new. For shortcuts maybe dressing in high end fashion. Stuff poor people can't afford lol. The internet I'd say is your greatest shortcut. There's social media to show off. Apps to meet women you can't reach. I think if I was you bro I'd go to events where the women I want are. Concerts, fashion shows, releases, listening parties, malls etc. This is why I say really innovate and… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Any shortcuts/advice for someone (35M) with a few million $So you have millions of dollars. Can go anywhere you want. And at a age where you're I'm assuming in your prime or close? Bro, I say create some mini adventures for a day in the week. Or go somewhere completely new for a week. Talk to everyone, eat food, and take pictures. Enjoy yourself. While you're on your journey you'll see many fine women. Approach all of them. Most may say no. You'll soon stop caring. Eventually you'll find a few matches. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Solo mission questionI got you sometime this week. Had to postpone my mission. Due to family stuff. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Escalate, Approach, Walk Away.I used my inexperience one time. It was with a teacher. Ig she was already attracted. So being 19 or w.e I proudly owned my virgin card lol. She loved it because she wanted to "teach me". I think mentioning inexperience varies. Only do it if they're already really interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 01:34 PM |
| 3 | If you want to write about an uncontrollable feature about yourself, write about how to either minimize its setbacks or how to maximize its returns. Do not post it otherwise.Same here its very empowering to tower over a room with great posture and style. Haha I need to focus more of using this advantage | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Coworker is leavingI'll do something | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Coworker is leavingDon't ask. Tell. I'll remember that thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:05 PM |
| 3 | If you want to write about an uncontrollable feature about yourself, write about how to either minimize its setbacks or how to maximize its returns. Do not post it otherwise.This motivated me to run to the gym today | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 02:32 PM |
| 3 | If you want to write about an uncontrollable feature about yourself, write about how to either minimize its setbacks or how to maximize its returns. Do not post it otherwise.Wow, I never noticed that's why I stand the way I do. I try to make myself shorter. Sometimes I even wished to be shorter to fit in easier and not demand so much attention when I walk in a room. I'm really tall and dark skin. I need to see these as advantages and not set backs | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I blush for no reason, almost everywhere and in any situation. PLEASE HELPAs a black guy idk what to say lol. I guess you should own it. Don't let your blushing make you shy or nervous. Try to forget it's even a thing. Some women may like it too. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Push/pull w/textingThat's true. My roommate I love with now has been my friend since 3rd grade lol we're out of school now. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What are your opinions on your LTR making plans?Spend time with her if she's reaching out. Take her to a few places you want to go. Don't over due it. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Push/pull w/textingI never thought about that. We do go through periods of non sex. War time was a perfect example | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Student's friend left her number on my desk. To laugh it off or pursue?I'd kick up lol keep that number and all text logs just in case she tries to pull a fast one. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 11:35 AM |
| 2 | I wrote an "I miss you" letter in a moment of extreme weaknessYou're good. Just don't make this a regular thing. In fact don't do it again. Move on from it. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 06Women are just accessories of your life after all. I've been working on self love. I admittedly lacked that | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 09:55 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 06Got a link? I'm terrible with tinder | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Solo mission questionI noted this in my phone to read on the train. So no cold feet? Thanks man ^ | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 04:29 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 06What is everyone's definition of being a real man? In your words what makes a man great? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Should I quit gaming as a teen? How about my gamer friends? Can it make me less depressed? What should I do instead?Just make it like 30 mins a day. That's after you did everything you needed to do. Gaming with moderation can be good. But remember too much of anything is bad. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Solo mission questionOk then I'll do just that. Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Pickup As A MinorityYou said we think white women are a prize? LOL no. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Solo mission questionThank you that motivates me ^ | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 02:04 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on Witnessing a Guy Get Rejected During a Cold ApproachUsing that next time lmao ty | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/17 01:45 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts on Witnessing a Guy Get Rejected During a Cold ApproachRight. I was leaving so I just kept it moving. I did see it as a rejection though ty. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.mY "gurlz" on teh bloc ayy | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 10:40 PM |
| 16 | Thoughts on Witnessing a Guy Get Rejected During a Cold ApproachLast night I was walking out the bar. Omw out I saw a lady with a nice body (couldn't see a face) and just acted like I came right up to talk to her. She hit me with a "aww you're way too young for me" I laughed because I'm 3x her height and walked away laughing. It felt good to get rejected tbh because before I'd over think myself out of it | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 09:02 PM |
| 3 | September 01 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadCleaned the house in prep for September. Wake up 4am-5am this week more consistently. Started meal prepping. Finally started reading. Optimizing work outs. Went to a bar for the first time last night! Failed to get 2 girls but got a waitress's number who was ironically the best looking. Now I'm still not feeling there yet. But, I'm working so hard. I want to do more. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 08:48 PM |
| 33 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.Brothers, let's look out for each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Why does her cheating upset you?If it happens I'll just take the self love and red pill way to recover quickly/deal with it healthy. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Some people pretty much never get jealous in a LTR/with a plate/girl/etc. How can I be one of those people?Nigga a tournament of money. Stop trying to be cool 😂 | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Some people pretty much never get jealous in a LTR/with a plate/girl/etc. How can I be one of those people?What if it's competitive gaming? Like going to tournaments? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Feeling like I've run out and burned out of date activities with my LTR after 6 months?Damn nigga you did more in 6 months than I did in 2 years lol sheesh. I say slow it down. What you're doing is cool. But break it down into seasonal occasions. Or when you feel she really deserves it. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why does her cheating upset you?Maybe it's a pride thing? I've never been cheated on but if I have I'd probably feel betrayed. Because I trusted said person. To acquire said trust isn't easy. But, all in all I wouldn't be upset for long because that's just her playing herself. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 08:13 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread August 30I lost it at 20. I'm 22 now. I focused more on my hair and such. Then they just started to gravitate towards me. I say don't worry about your shortcomings. We all have them. Try to work on fixable flaws. Whether inner or outer. And really heighten your good points. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 01:20 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 30I'll open up my interactions then. I may have to branch outside my immediate area for a new pool. But this is helpful, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 30I never been to a bar before but I'm willing to try. Alcohol is prohibited due to my condition so I thought it'd be weird for me to go lol. This weekend is looking very promising. I'm going to get into something positive. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 30I would like to do this as well. With online dating and irl together you can have a lot of real abundance. What made you go this route? TRP seems really against online dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 04:02 AM |
| 12 | askTRP Megathread August 30Where does everyone meet women aside bars and clubs? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 03:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Failure! Went out with a girl that had a boyfriend (first ever date with a “taken” girl), Condoms fell out of my pocket at bar! Went to her place but couldn’t close! Need advice and analysis please. LONG story inside.I think you tried too hard. Overthinking leads to inaction. This requires less logic and more emotion. "Sweeping her off her feet" in a sense. But, she was being loyal. That's an outcome you have to expect when you mess with someone taken. Don't beat yourself up. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | It's time to let go of mommy's handMy mother doesn't want me to have kids lol or take care of her. She even told me not to trust these hoes and don't even bring one around her. And to change women like I change socks. Much like how my father is. My pov is very different. I would say my mother gave me real hard realities. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 01:24 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I'm never going to have a healthy relationship if I can't look past girls' sexual history. Is that true?Yeah, but that's just unattractive to hear. True or not | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upI did all of what you said. I just answered an unknown number. I wasn't even expecting it to be her. Because she wasn't on my mind. No, I'm not a "weak beta". Was I in a time of weakness yes ofc being hospitalized for a month does that to you. But, anyways ill just forget and move on like I was already doing fine. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 04:51 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I'm never going to have a healthy relationship if I can't look past girls' sexual history. Is that true?I have this issue as well. Basically a teacher I was talking to was telling me she sucked a lot of dick and is good at it. I was disgusted and found someone with better in that regard. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:42 PM |
| 4 | I feel like I'm never going to have a healthy relationship if I can't look past girls' sexual history. Is that true?Not entirely true. I think it depends. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upI did that. She called me from a unblocked number. Problem is I entertained her foolishness. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upShe was a big contributor when we were together. But, you're right. She's too unstable and random to include in my life. I'll just forget the call and keep moving | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upWill do next time. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upI can't go like that. Now I don't spend money on women so no BB. But, she definitely could take advantage of my feelings for her. I'll just stay away and continue to build | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Ex called & messed me upTbh part of me does I'll come clean. That's why I came here. Because I know you guys will tell me what I need to hear and not what I want. Thanks bro I guess I don't need that negativity in my life | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upShe called from a different phone. An unknown number exactly. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Ex called & messed me upSheesh you killed any want I had lol. What exactly do you mean doom? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | So is it a good idea to tell my girlfriend "I don't care" when she brings up something I'm not interested inI did this often. I'll say I learned my lesson. It really only made her feel unvalued and unappreciated. If that's not your intention then just listen or bring up something else. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 01:01 AM |
| 8 | Why 35 is peak age for men according to TRP?Rude for no reason. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions during hospitalizationOh, wow thank you very much! This is everything I needed. Seriously, I appreciate it ^ | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 09:16 PM |
| 1 | List of non-negotiables every guy should do when red pilled?Oh, okay that makes sense. Clothes are important but secondary. I think if you work all day, work out, and have generally a lot to do you'll be too tired to stay up gaming. lol I know I do. I just pass out. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friendsYeah, it truly does. It definitely clouded my rational judgement. I'm not emotional and my strength is what kept her so long. Once I lost that everything fell. It was hard but, a valuable lesson. I say analyze, keep improving, and go with your gut. If you want to give her a chance because this is her first offense that's fair. Just don't keep working for something that's broken. I think you're in a great position. You noticed early, can be a better man with her still, really show her the great m… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | List of non-negotiables every guy should do when red pilled?As a competitive video game player I think they are valid. Depending on your usage, and if you use them for positive means. Thanks to fighting Games I travel all over, meet new people, created more discipline, and it's been a great addition to my life. Balance is key though. So I still do much more and regulate my time. My must haves are Waking up early and working out, cooking, workout before the day starts Creating art and learning music Practice healthy skincare routines Eating well Never dri… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | List of non-negotiables every guy should do when red pilled?Really? I found my posting annoying lol | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | List of non-negotiables every guy should do when red pilled?What exactly do you mean improve wardrobe everyday? Like buying clothes daily? Every paycheck I've been investing more in clothes to refine my wardrobe. So far it's been great. But, id like to hear what you do as well. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friendsI lost frame early this year. She told me there was someone else. This stung because she always had tunnel vision on me. She texted him she said about school and regular stuff. She boiled it down to she liked that he had a car. I wasn't driving at this time. Not only that but he "listened to her". She even told me he didn't look as good. It wasn't money because he's broke. And lived with mom. I honestly was upset. She tried to say she enjoyed his company. And that's it. Deleted his number and he… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Came a across a virgin, why should I stay, and when should I leave?Sheesh man you're overbearing. Just try to escalate. First try she may say not now. Because she doesn't feel ready. But don't rush it. It'll happen eventually if she's attracted. If you feel she isn't just leave. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 07:07 PM |
| 2 | LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friendsI encountered this with my last LTR. This is preTRP btw. I was simply watching a tournament. When a top player saw her and snaked his way over. Trying to strike up conversation with her. Using the outlet nearby to charge his phone. She saw me turn around and look at them both. Then confidently turned away white talking to some guy. She of course did not entertain him. Saw I didn't care what happened because she's replaceable. That I'm focused on my mission (the tournament). Me not mate guarding … | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Texting for schedulingAfter being in a 5 year long LTR. Being single again is weird thank u bro | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | I've plated multiple Horse girls. Two of which were professional riders...AMA.Respect to you my nigga | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 02:01 AM |
| 1 | I've plated multiple Horse girls. Two of which were professional riders...AMA.Where they white? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Tips on hitting on girls with boyfriends?Lmao | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Texting for schedulingI'll start simply saying "Yo, ___ let's hangout Saturday." If no next. If yes we fuck. Simpler than I thought lol | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Texting for schedulingHonestly bro I'm not a nice guy. Don't get it twisted. I'm not waiting for no dusty female. I only said that because I wasn't sure what to do with the woman lol my car is in the shop. She doesn't drive/broke. I cannot make plans until Friday (to see when I work) The only thing I could think of was if she wanted me to call her an Uber to fuck at my house. Like, literally tonight. So I just was gauging interest for next week. Smart? No. But, it shows she's not interested. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Texting for schedulingI think you are right. My last LTR in the beginning always agreed no matter what I suggested. If she couldn't make it she always rescheduled. So I guess you can't mess it up. That LTR is over and I'm in the exact same boat you were in. I've been trying to find a secret component. When it's really just simple attraction. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Texting for scheduling3 is fair. I'll test it out with women. I think some actually want some sort of convo first. I just let my intentions be known | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Texting for schedulingThank you | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Message from an ex wife. We were on good terms(not in my life, we don't speak, no legal ties). She gets a jealous boyfriend, blocks me, I'm ok with it. 4 months later this-This was comical. A reminder of what my ex told me lol. My ex tried to hurt me much like this bih did to you. Man look fucc em. She's irrelevant. Seeking attention. Actually in pain and suffering. But, trying to validate and mask it. By lashing out at you. You can feed into it if you want. But, it won't be good for you. Ik it stirred you up. But, now you know why. Delete and forget. If she sends more. Do not open. Delete and forget. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever just, cry?I most certainly will! | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Do you ever just, cry?My mother works 3 jobs and I work 50ish hours a week. I can't cry. I don't deserve that luxury. I'm trying to acquire abundance so she doesn't have to work so hard. Life is tough, brother. But, we gotta be tougher | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late?Nah, even if she did it was prob a $10 LMAO. My last LTR used deposit my money for me so maybe there's unintended dread lol | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late?True I guess it's scarcity that has me thinking like this. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Every marriage starts the same way – a woman marries someone she dislikesI have to disagree with some of this | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late?Yeah, you're right about that. I'd rather a no then a "what if". I won't think about it unless I get another opportunity. Next time for sure though I will seize the moment when I get it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late?I need the Just Do It mentality. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it too late?Yeah, I guess I'll just go with it and not overthink it. May get lucky. If not that's cool | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Can I RedPill as a married man?Yeah on the app it's 3 dots at the top right. Idk if it's on browser. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 06:03 PM |
| 2 | is there any hope? I've wasted my life to videogames.I wouldn't blame video games only. More so laziness. You have to be determined to just get out there. It's not too late you're still young. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Are all girls like this? Break up.So she basically wanted to be a hoe? Maaaaaaan fucc her bro. I wouldn't say AWALT explicitly. Maybe they are but not in the manner she did it lol You did well | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 03:48 PM |
| 5 | AWALT or how I managed to awake manipulative instincts on a seemingly innocent girlThis. I told a coworker about a girl and he told other workers. So they started asking me questions and gossiping. If wasn't even that deep | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?That's exactly what I don't need in my life. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?It is common? Exactly why do they do this? For more control? When I disagreed to moving states away she became very angry. I didn't care because there's other closer options. No negotiation there. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?She wanted me to move away with her away from all family and friends. I had to cut that off. I'm sorry but the people in my life has been around way before her. She even hates most of my boys. Which is weird because they're all nice and polite to her. I definitely did let this get out of control. I'm to blame. Next time I'll have to tell them from the door. Disrespecting my family is disrespecting me. See ya | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?Aw man the true family feud lol | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?I want to say yes and no. Were good but there's a lot of dysfunction like most families lol. I'm getting rid of her. Because it's a bad sign. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?Fair enough | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?My mom treats them nice. She just talks a lot lol. They were just mad my mom would call me constantly while we're together. Really small stuff. It's kinda illogical. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What if your LTR doesn't like your mother?That's how I felt. Idc but being disrespectful is a different story. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 01:25 PM |
| 2 | A very useful set of tips when cold approaching. From a waiter that earns quite a bit in tips.Ty for this. Lately I've been feeling stuck when it comes to approaches. I think I overthink things. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 04:29 AM |
| 20 | Sex with an Ex that cheated on me. Am I being a fucking idiot or am I just playing a game with her?You're diabolical. lol I love it | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Chad fucked old oneitis.Good. You're on the right track bro | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 07:48 PM |
| 42 | Chad fucked old oneitis.I say cut him off. No confrontation. Just cut him out of your life. He really didn't have to do that to stir you up. It got you thinking enough to post here. You don't need that type of negativity in your life. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Few questionsI'll do just that. I appreciate you man | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Few questionsThe monitor doesn't I forget she bought it lol. That person is a friend I don't really trust anymore. I'm trying to distance myself. That's some interesting advice. I am planning a PR trip with my boys and I'm going to try clubbing for the first time soon. I'll do everything I can to get rid of her in my mind. I've did a lot of things with friends, projects, and hobbies while I was with her. Nothing changed maybe that's my problem. It's going to take some time getting used to but fuck it. Im goi… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Few questionsI've gotten rid of everything except the real expensive gifts. Like a $300 monitor she bought lol. Aside that I don't have any mementos of her or anything. I actually didn't keep pictures or anything of her. I only know about her new guy because a friend just had to show me.... opened an old wound. But, I say 2 months but prob 1 1/2 idk. But it's been long enough regardless. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Few questionsAll edit a better variety in. That's just been a main concern. I'll do that. I was thinking about keeping our old pictures. But, idk it's hard. It was productive. I was working always, but sometimes I ignored because I thought it was her being extra. I'll relax lol thanks | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend has massive pain during penetration. - What to do?My first and I had this issue. It took a few tries but it we managed to make it work. After that it was great. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | A question on energyI called my doc I'll be getting checked out soon. Thank you I appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 12:38 AM |
| 2 | A question on energyI will do just that. Thanks, coach. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 12:14 AM |
| 2 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldCongrats on taking action. Keep it up sir! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 09:20 PM |
| 5 | Teachable Moment: Every Encounter is an OpportunityThis was hilarious and helpful | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:48 PM |
| 3 | A philosophy towards women and Life, "Be Firm, Not Forceful"So my container became weak and the water fell through? I will remember that. I guess she was a reflection of myself. While great at first in the end a nightmare. An avoidable one. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:36 PM |
| 4 | A philosophy towards women and Life, "Be Firm, Not Forceful"Your ABC points gives me some insight on where I went wrong in my last LTR. I need to work on filling my role and showing my leadership. I definitely didn't do that. With resulted in distrust if I could fill my role. Which was very important to her. Not that it matters what she thinks. But, I can see it matches up to your points. Next time I'll properly fill my role. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:24 PM |
| 2 | A question on energyI'll look into those my diet is definitely lacking. I at least work a part time job so I can manage $100 on food. Usually on weekends my friends and I go out to a restaurant. Even if it's $15 per weekend that adds up if it's every week. Thank you for the helpful suggestions | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 06:39 PM |
| 2 | A question on energyI hope u get back on track soon! | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | A question on energyAs of now I'm a broke college student primarily living off of noodles lol. Sometimes I can go crazy with food whenever I get paid. But, maybe I need to plan my meals ahead of time and cook more. I do have a blood disorder so maybe supplements will help where I'm lacking. Thank you I'll try just that. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | A question on energyWow just a few days? I never lifted for long periods of time. So this should do the trick. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 05:47 PM |
| 2 | A question on energyI have a blood disorder too so that could be part of it. But, I will say I never lifted for more than 3 weeks. So, I guess that can help me and my overall condition. Thank you sir. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | June 09 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI'm healing from an injury so I'll start lifting soon. I'm practicing driving for my test next month. Deleted any and all dating sites/apps that felt great Regulate my online time Returning to old hobbies Tomorrow I'm planning on getting my hair cut, buying clothes, and talking to women while I'm out. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | June 09 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadYou can watch a few. Just regulate your time and don't binge. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 05That's great advice salute | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 05You did something I've been wanting to test out myself. I get a decent about of matches like 30 a month. But, either no response, no follow up, lost of interest. So I guess I need to lift more. Because that's my main problem atm. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | June 02 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Threadbad I checked on my ex sm Didnt train like I wanted Procrastinating with a business idea good Went to a comic convention played Tekken and approached every hot girl I could. Got some numbers Spent a day buying gifts for family just because I can Overall so far only one responded. The others are In limbo. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/17 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Let’s talk Oral…Wow my parents said fck it lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Are black men the most "alpha" or just insecure?I think it depends on the individual. But, black women are amazing. But, I must add I've noticed black women have more self hate. I can't even count how many black women told me a black man that they do g date their own. Hell one yesterday said that to my boy. But that's a minority. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How would you guys handle thisI'll do that thank you. I didn't think about momentum. I should just break through it rather than letting it mess me up. I'm confident in everything after that. I'll admit I was swamped lol | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 01:29 PM |
| 1 | If you're short, you're done.I'm 6'2" and my 9s told me they wouldn't date me if I was short. So I get what you're saying. BUT don't let this stop you. Height isn't everything. I think face and hair are more important. If you have an attractive face, groom well, and style right. Then you'll get a 9 in due time. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 12:26 PM |
| 2 | How would you guys handle thisI could slip it with the cash when I go buy something 🤔 and just tell her to hmu if she's interested. If not I'll at least have an answer and not regret trying. Thanks bro ~! | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 05:55 AM |
| 1 | How would you guys handle thisI see what you mean. I am reading it. Just had a question. Wanted someone else's opinion on it though since some of you guys are smart. U right tho | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys think about your ex? Is it normal?My ex liked a picture of mine on instagram. I thought she got over me. She seemed to be doing so well with her rebound. I remember her telling me on the phone that she wants to forget me but can't. In truth she was a easy 10. Her beauty was undeniable to anyone who saw her. In fact random men would come up to me and congratulate me for having her. The problem is her beauty was her main factor. Eventually that runs out. She was my first love and were going to marry. So in truth she'll be in my th… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | She's going on a tripRight I'll do that | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Common mistakes, misconceptions and hamstering from newcomersAll my friends give me shit for not fucking ugly women when I have a certain standard. I'm not trying to force it with someone I'm not into at all. Even if I'm in a dry spell | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice on recent break upI'm aware I was a big part of the problem. I did a lot wrong. But, she was also. I didn't sugar coat anything I did. I made myself look as weak as possible. Because I realized I wasn't being a man. Call me girly if you want. But, I am owning up to my mistakes. Initially the problems stemmed from me not moving in with her, giving her a kid and ring. So, she looked elsewhere. I tried to fight it. That was my big problem. If I just let her go and do me I'd be doing better. As a young man I realize … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice on recent break upYeah I got the "you are nothing". I brushed that off. Fuck that. This woman couldn't even pass basic college classes. I'll be happy once I can see her with someone and not bat an eye. Or see her face and not care about her at all. I'm getting there. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice on recent break upRight. Those are glaring issues. I am a mess you're right lol. I'm glad you guys came through. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Advice on recent break upThank you. This is very insightful. I'll admit I lost control. I lost my power. That in turn gave her the power to test me. Which I failed. I'll come clean and say my frame shattered. Before I didn't break to her crazy demands. And always waited for the inevitable break up. But, when it came I broke bro. I was in the hospital too. Usually she'd be there. I would be happy to have someone by my side. But, really she only did that before to look good. Because she threw it up in my face later. I'll … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice on recent break upI would like to say thank you. I needed to hear every part of this. I will read over the material starting tonight. And I will save this comment in my notes because it's the best advice I've gotten. You're definitely right. I was blinded but with my newfound knowledge I'm walking on the path of enlightenment. In truth she was slowing me down. I'm wildly ambitious and she was a naysayer. Thank god I lost nothing from this break up, but gained all the experience I needed. Whether it was dealing wi… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Advice on recent break upShe came back to NA eventually and stated since. The problem is what happened during our 3 years together. But yes I'm free. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider this girl potentially LTR worthy?Honestly bro. I'd just be FWB. She's at 4 already and just had sex for the first time last august? She beat bro. You're better than this. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/17 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want your kindness; they want you to be selfish.I was called selfish a lot in my last LTR. But I was just focused on success and still am. We're not together anymore and I see I'm better off. This post was everything I needed to hear. I don't feel guilty for putting myself first. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Tips for Alphas on Frame and GameI held frame because it was just a day. It wasn't intentional I was just busy. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Tips for Alphas on Frame and GameRight. I did. But, it's a lesson. Thank you sir | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 08:12 PM |
| -3 | Tips for Alphas on Frame and GameIn a LTR the radio silence for 24 hours can backfire. It did for me. I didn't do it on purpose. But, it started the "you don't appreciate me" talks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 03:25 PM |
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