I just made the best decision in a while in my choice to swallow the red pill a couple of days ago & still have on my training wheels so bear with me here. Anyways This Girl I texted her the following: “Let’s Kick it this weekend hmm...let’s go with Friday.” Before I found the Red Pill I always used to be super beta and ask “Are you available this Friday” or “Are you free Friday?” Like a whiny beta loser leaving the choice up to her instead of demanding/telling her let’s meet Friday. I may have made some mistakes but I’m still learning. Anyhow her response is the following: “Yeah I’ll let you know what I’m doing Friday cuz I’m not sure Yet! We can hit the bars tho”

I still am not even close to the level of alpha translating a womens Text to her manipulating/trying to get her way, but I’ll give it a try. FYI i’m obviously just trying to smash and the Bars is a terrible idea for the reason of no privacy and having to be around all her bitchy friends judging me & 98% of the time blocking me from getting laid so overall that’s not a good idea & I’m an idiot & still realize this. Her “I’ll let you know” I think is a power move to have her in charge of what’s happening & leaving me waiting on her beck & call to call the shots which is an obvious no no as an alpha.

I should be calling the shots &. making the decisions and it’s her job to submit & follow the lead. Last but not least her “I’m not sure yet” sounds like a potential exit strategy she inserted so she could potentially flake with no consequence because she said “I’m not sure yet.” So she could say oh something came up I told you I wasn’t sure blah blah blah which is a bold faced lie. Women know exactly what their doing especially three days later I saw right through that bs.

Anyways I haven’t responded yet & wanted to get some feedback on possible solutions/mistakes I made in my post. I just want to isolate her so chilling at her place would be the best decision. I realize my text may have had several beta discrepancies that need to be hashed out any feedback would be much appreciated. What should I say from here? What mistakes were in my first text and how do I flip the tables and put her awaiting my beck and call & just wanting to straight hook up, thanks. Everyday’s a new learning experience.