So I recently came across this thread on /r/askwomen where op talks about his old strategy of being completely honest with his sexual intentions.

He says;

I'd make the first thing I said to a girl a compliment on her butt. One time I told a girl she looked like she could give a good bj. One night I hooked up with a girl at a party I threw, and then another girl just two hours later, with both knowing about the other. The irony of this is it worked crazy well. The girls that knew about each other were okay with it and even hung out with each other after (though they didn't like each other very much), the girl I told said looked like she gave great head actually ended up giving me a bj that night.

How effective is this in real life?

Background: I'm considerably attractive. I've had enough women hit on me that I've lost count. Embarrassingly, I have not been able to follow through with ANY of them. Still a virgin at 21. The problem is I have no game. I never know what to say when these women approached me or I just didn't get the message until it was too late. Not knowing what to say has ruined my confidence since it's the most effective trait a man can have.

SO, the question is... Can I talk dirty like this and get a women in bed?

I don't really browse TRP much, but I know I'd get the realist answer here.