Been testing the field heavily lately... some failures, some learning points, some successes... overall, these past couple of months have been really "abundant", which helps me with the IDGAF approach that it's proven to work.

However; I've gotten a ton of quantity, and nothing that I feel like I would even want to invest time on. Hence; I'm letting plates drop on purpose.

The problem is, instead of being happy and content with my current situation, I find investing time on a chick I only want to fuck so time consuming, empty, sometimes money consuming, boring.

Don't get me wrong, I have fun on these dates. Take for example; the chick I went out with Friday night was super fun, the sangrias we had were great, it was a relaxing Friday night.. but at the end of the night, I knew I could escalate if I wanted to (I was getting a ton of IOIs), I knew I could have scored if I wanted to, but I saw her as a great girl to hang out with, not someone I want to fuck the living shit out of.

My attitude that night (and every time I've gone out) was to have a good time, and I've accomplished that, but there's SOMETHING missing...

I got a text from a plate Saturday night "want to have a drink?".... old me would have jumped out of bed and been all over this shit. But I know the situation (why would you think a girl calls you at 11PM on a Saturday night?!?), chick has 3 kids, she's pretty hot and all, dad has them this weekend, and I thought "meh, for this, which I know it's not going anywhere because I'm choosing not to.... I'd rather stay home watching The Punisher on Netflix). Instead I got up and went to my apartment complex's gym and lifted for 30 minutes.

After reading the Rational Male, I see that I might be motivated by finding "the one", and we all know where that leads.... right? and I'll be back in square 1.

Any of my fellow Red Pill brothers feel the same?