(Accidentally posted this on TRP and got banned)

So I've been seeing this girl for a little while now, she works down from me and initiated by writing a note on my car with her number saying I was cute and asking to hang out.

We went from there, me learning more about her and vice versa, doing things together, and enjoying each other's company. I think I did decently with the basic redpill techniques at the start, e.g. showing indifference/aloofness, keeping things fun, exciting, using dread appropriately etc. Sex was decent up until recently and I'm trying to figure out why.

However, there's been a few mistakes I've made that have put me into doubt and self-pity with her, and its fucking up the way that I deal with her, in terms of me getting more beta and me feeling like I'm further away from her as a result.

Mistake #1: Her clutch fell out of her car when she got to mine one time, and she brought her dad over to help fix it. The car stayed overnight in my driveway and I was working until 3AM then. 6 hrs later she came back over with her dad and started working on the car, which woke me up and I foolishly decided to go out to say hello to her and her dad.

Mom comes out as well and starts interrupting the conversation (yes, I live with parents which worries me even more), so me with the lack of sleep gets a little angry at her in front of everyone. This creates a bad impression of me with her dad and her. It doesn't help that he's the judgemental type.

Mistake #2: We're both at uni (different ones) and she's texting me about her ex messaging her and she's realizing what a gem I am (her words not mine). For some reason, partly to test how she reacts and partly because I felt like I was keeping her at bay too much, I say "I think I love you". She tells me she doesn't know what to say but that we're on the same page.

Mistake #3: She comes over one night and long story short, my dad makes a fool out of himself along with her meeting weird people from my parent's church. We go for a drive and I can't get this out of my head, she even stops somewhere quiet so we can bang but i'm in no mood, I just freeze up which I never do. I tell her to take me home and it's awkward in the car home.

I text her a while later to apologize (another mistake) and she starts ripping into me about not seeing her enough, not wanting to talk to her, asking whats going on and all this BS. This is the first time she's been angry at me, and I calm her down eventually.

She then says she loves me for the first time. I see her a couple days later and address the situation and she doesn't see anything wrong with what she said. I tell her she shouldn't kick people when they're down and she tearfully apologizes after an emotional conversation.

What I'm asking is, Should I, and if so how can I change things when I've dropped frame? Is it worth it or only as worth it as I make it? And how can I stop coming so quickly when I fuck her? First 8 times were fine and now i can only last less than a minute since after mistake #2!