So I just read this article (http://markmanson.net/vulnerability-and-manipulative-women) written by Mark Manson that talked about vulnerability. Something that confused me in the article is that apparently if a woman shit tests you, she isn't even worth your time because she doesn't share your values. Additionally, by responding to the shit test, you are trying to make her like you by using a manufactured shit test response. The book No More Mr. Nice Guy defines a nice guy as someone who tries to make people like him despite his own values, so wouldn't responding to shit tests using agree and amplify or one of the other methods make you a Nice Guy in a way, or am I missing something?