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Concept of AF/BB ?

neverquitman

May 8, 2018

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So yeah, just wanted to hear your opinions guys:

If a guy goes after a girl who is in a relationship, is he a beta for going after a taken lady, I mean he might be fucking a chick who already fucked her boyfriend the same day so she's damaged goods and thats pretty beta to some degree or is he an alpha because he isn't afraid and smashes who he wants and does not get intimidated?

And is the boyfriend, an alpha because he gets to stay with pussy long term or is he a beta because its a beta move to stay in a relationship as a BF/GF ?

What happens if the BF looks like an alpha, but since he is in a relationship, does that demote to Beta status ?

So girls who have boyfriends can branch swing for other chads, does this mean the boyfriend, even though if he lifts as well, is he more beta than the other chad that she is not in a relationship with ?

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Title	Concept of AF/BB ?
Author	neverquitman
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	May 8, 2018 8:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8hzwwb/concept_of_afbb/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/concept-of-afbb.96694 https://theredarchive.com/post/96694

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[–]X--Man3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Being in a relationship doesn't make someone a Beta. Knowing your GF is fucking another guy, and staying with her in any serious capacity, does, unless there are some abnormal circumstances going on. (Open relationship on both ends, swingers, etc...)

Looks don't matter as far as Alpha/Beta. The biggest, meanest looking guys, can still be beta. The skinny guys with no muscle can also be alpha, if they have and can hold frame. A skinny guy, due to social status and frame (Dr. Lawyer. Hollywood star. Athlete. Important person), could be an alpha. The powerlifter at the gym that put on muscle because he was bullied throughout high school, could still be very beta deep down.

Its more about, do you dictate the terms of your life and emotions vs do you let others dictate the terms of your life and emotions. Not as black and white as you would think.

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It doesn't matter. Your focus should not be on the BF. It should always be on yourself. You will know if the girl likes you more, because she will come fuck you. It doesn't mean hes not bigger than you and cant kick your ass in a fight. It just means that you stimulated her more in the moment.

There's plenty of "alphas" out there. But, take those alphas and put them in prison, and your gonna have a whole lot of alpha bitches. It's all relative. To the girl, the moment, and the environment.

You can be an alpha on the football field, but then when its time to play chess, you are no longer the alpha, in that particular environment.

You are trying to hard to black and white this stuff, but its all situational. This is why you only focus on yourself, and what you do, and your own frame...the more you master, the more situations you can maintain frame in and the more confidence you have and show.