I'm a reformed beta male, from a family of mostly betas. My friend turned me onto TRP and I'm thankful for it. It's given me clarity in dating, although I've had a hard time keeping the pill down with all the blue pill in culture. Frustrations in dating seem to help me keep swallowing the red pill whenever I spit it back up though thankfully.

So there's a consistent issue I want to confront and I need advice. I've consistently been kicked out of groups and work environments for women "feeling uncomfortable" around me. I'm often honest in my sexual attraction and I openly complement girls on their beauty, and ask them out when I feel I want some one on one time. I take a no and move on, and when there's a yes I schedule a date, and sometimes fuck.

I have my own business and soon I won't need to take side gigs, but there are still other professional and social groups I'm in so I need to solve this.

I have two main parts to this question...

1) What am I doing to bring this upon myself? What should I change to not get called in by a boss/someone in authority? Am I being beta somewhere I don't see? Am I being too pushy, too eager?

2) And when a boss does call me in to talk to me, what do I do? What do I say? Do I just outright say "yeah we dated and fucked and now she's just having buyer's remorse?"

Easy answer is don't shit where you eat, and I might follow that, but let's disregard that. I want to know what to do to allow myself to hook up with girls at work and in social situations and hold my status, or raise it afterwards.

Thanks guys!