So I'm in a situation I've never been in before. I'm banging this girl for the past month and last night she stood me up. She agreed to meet and then starting acting flakey, I stopped replying and she never showed up.

Today she texts like nothing happened. This has never happened me before, not trying to brag, and I see it as a serious source of disrespect and boundary crossing.

But I'm torn on what to do next. To be clear, I don't want to bang her or spend anymore time with her. A boundary has been crossed and that's it for me. I have other options but I want to make the right move.

  1. Do I ghost her completely? I haven't replied to her since, this type of behaviour disgusts me.
  2. Do I call her out on it and then tell her we're done?

Which is the better approach from a power point of view?