I'm learning a foreign language and doing a free language exchange (I just put up an ad on a facebookk group), some of the women from that culture who apply are super into me (as in, we start dating). The people from that country who make it abroad to my city and then find me via a Facebook language exchange group are pretty smart and way more into me than average. For what it's worth, I also do language exchange with men who apply, they are not gay and don't start giving me IOI's or coming on to me hard, so there is definitely a legit aspect to it.

I know what deep interest looks like, it means looking at someone in the eye for long seconds, leaning forward, biting her lip, touching me, texting me a lot, etc. (So much. WTF. So much.) This is after the first meeting! In this case she is 19 and I am in my mid 30s. I would like practical advice.

When I was in school (at 14 or 15) I had a sexual experience with a much older woman (who was a teacher) from online. I don't think that was great and besides the statutory aspect shouldn't have happened. She wrote me poems such as "my man-child" and stupid cringey stuff and the experience wasn't there. Setting aside that we're talking about a freshman college student here who is 19 and not 15, still, I wouldn't want to give her a bad experience for that reason. When I was 19 it wouldn't have been good for me to be with a 34 year old. Even 26 was too old, as I recall.

I'm not asking for one itis reasons, so far we've just met once and I have other plates, but what is your practical advice about treating this specific language exchange partner if she continues to show this level of interest?

We had a personal coffee, as language exchange partners we're equals (except her age, I mean come on, think back to when you were 19). Her command of English is upper-intermediate, with some advanced words mixed in. She can express whatever is on her mind. I'm a beginner in her language (the other half of the exchange.)

any practical advice (pros/cons etc), consequences, what I can expect, etc. Thanks.