Hey guys, first post here. I’ve been RP aware for about a year now and have been using RP tactics in my current LTR since it started: about 7 months ago. She’s been fun to have around. HB7, not too many shit tests, likes cooking for me, likes to give me head at random times, etc.

Anyway, lately whenever I try to initiate I’ve been getting turned down. She just hasn’t seemed as “into it” as she usually is. Even the foreplay she used to go wild for hasn’t been doing the trick. What confuses me the most is this seems to be contained to strictly sex. I can pass a shit test of hers and she’ll get the biggest grin, saying what a “sexy man” I am, etc. but the second the pants come off she dries up.

So, what steps should I take from here? I’m actively employing 1-5 dread and am having no problem passing shit tests. The only thing I can think of is working on my game but even that hasn’t slipped much despite the relationship becoming more comfortable. Any ideas fellas?