I am still living with my ex, and we have a close friendship. We will be living together for at least another year because of immigration/residency reasons.
Since I found TRP (for the second time), I have been trying to grasp the reasons that our relationship failed. One of my faults is that I relied on the notion that I would eventually develop sexual desire for him (based on his virtues) over the course of the relationship. This, of course, did not happen. I was not attracted to him initially, but we had developed a very strong relationship online (we met in a philosophy chat group). I moved to another country to be with him, and expected the sexual desire to flourish as time went on. It didn't.
I'm wondering if I should introduce him to TRP, and how that would affect our relationship? I obviously think he needs this information in order to have a successful marriage in the future, but I am very afraid to hurt his feelings. I'm also worried about introducing the information while we are still living together, though I feel uncomfortable not being honest about this.