What does holding frame mean?

frontyer0077 · 2019-03-15T19:46:42+00:00

A strong frame means no one can get you to do or say something you dont mean or want to do.

Example bad frame "Can you pick me up?" "Yeah it will be 20$" "I dont have money" "Okay I will be on my way"

Example good frame "Can you pick me up?" "Yeah it will be 20$" "I dont have money" "Too bad"

SimplyFishOil · 2019-03-15T19:29:27+00:00

Frame is your confidence, everything you know yourself in, everything you know you're capable of.

Anything other than frame is your insecurities

embracingtheredpill · 2019-03-15T20:54:20+00:00

This is very simple sidebar stuff. Please read it.

jaspreetbindra00 · 2019-03-15T21:44:36+00:00

Frame is composure

mrpoopistan · 2019-03-16T01:41:18+00:00

It's not confidence. It's actively directing the way a situation is thought about.

Let's say you've met a few chicks at a club, and you want them to come with.

Frame 1: "Hey, do you wanna come back to my place?"

Frame 2: "Let's keep this party rollin'! Everybody's coming back to my place. Let's go."

Confidence helps in Frame 2, but it's not the point of the enterprise. The point is to frame the decision as:

a) Fun.

b) Collectively approved.

c) The only direction things are going.

d) A done deal.

WIA20XX · 2019-03-15T22:37:50+00:00

Being stubborn

Title	What does holding frame mean?
Author	thepizzaboy123
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	March 15, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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