Backstory met this girl few weeks ago when she came in town with my friend and his gf. She's probably a 7 but with makeup a 8. She's my friend's girlfriend's bestfriend. She just immigrated here 2 years ago, and I speak the mother tongue decently, so I try to speak to her in it. We are 10 years apart, she's 20, I'm 30. We hit it off flirting and everything. Smash on the second night while we were drunk and on the third night before she left back home. I was doing everything right. Showing confidence, talking to other girls, these other girls who I knew liked me were trying to get my attention. She saw this and kept asking, do I have any other girls. Obviously getting a little jealous and competitive anxiety. I just answered back that I didn't know anything.

She went back to her city, and wanted to keep in contact, we keep in contact for the next few weeks. I went camping for 10days in the middle of the bush, no reception. She gets sad that I'm gone away so long, and can't msg her. I missed that ass so I booked a flight and went down and saw her.

She picks me from the airport, we head back to the airbnb and smash. Everything going well. Second day drop her off at work, told her I was going to pick her up but didn't. Stuck in traffic, arrange for dinner with a friend, but pushed the time furthur, and didn't realize it so forgot to pick her up. She goes home. (First fuck up?)

Third day, I drop her off at work, my friend gets back into town, we have a double date. Come pick the girls up from work. I could feel something was off when she was in the car, but wasn't sure. I initiated holding hands, she held it. But something was still off. Went for dinner, I asked her what was wrong, she responded with " so what are we? Are we going to be able to do this long distance thing". I respond with " what do you want to be? And long distance is hard but if you want we can try" ( I just literally came to smash that pussy as much as I can, the language is kind of hard to convey you just want to fuck when it's not your first language, it might seem like I want a relationship, but I didn't). I'm trying to talk to her, she answers with short answers. She shows me her snap, asking if I knew what was going on, and I'm like nope, she just did a backward video of someone pouring a drink, and I didn't notice, she yells at me for not noticing, I respond "I don't care". ( So another sign, something's off) go see fireworks, and she's not sitting as close to me, still feeling something's off. So I tried initiating some hugging, but she wasn't feeling any of that. So I left it. Tried taking her home with me after. But no to that either. (I found out after, that her ex bf sent a text to her saying he misses her, while we were at the fireworks. He's a fuck boy. I'm thinking he has a higher SMV, that's why he's fucking with her head)

Couldn't sleep all night. Just wondering wtf went wrong. Next day I went over in the morning to talk her, all frustrated and angry, trying to keep my cool. Asking her what happen, she says she can't do long distance , I'm like cool. I didn't know how to say let's just have fun while I'm here in the language, so I said "I came here for you, you know". ( I know, I know first mistake, putting that pussy on pedestal) She's like I know, I'm sorry , let's just be friends. I'm like fuck. So me being hurt, I was like okay peace. Goodbye. I'm going to cancel our double date day trip that we planned today. I go off hiking solo, feel better. She called me, I blocked her. My friend told me she texted me something. But by me blocking her, I never recieved the text.

Fast forward a few days later, I'm still here in her city, still trying to figure out wth went wrong. My buddy plan a big party, she's there looking all sexy, I'm just ignoring her(I know I should of acted like it didn't phase me, but I couldn't help it, bitch made me spend time and money to come out). She asked me to drink, I ignore her. And then the rest of the night she just ignore me. I overheard her talking about her ex, must not be over him. At the end of the night she said bye to everyone except me.

So I'm just venting to you guys. But also wondering if I could of still of smash it? Like what went wrong. Or was she still thinking about her ex? Could I had still smash her at the party? If I was more chill, and drank with her, instead of being all grumpy. Or was she just being nice, offering me a drink, for ruining my vacation? I don't know. I guessed I'm just pissed off and I ain't smashing that pussy right now. Things were going so well, and then 360 turn around.

Thanks guy