32M here

Sorry this is Long. I revised it 3 times to make it easy to read.

I made it a point to approach younger girls (20-24yo) recently and I'm running into some problems. I'll share my thoughts on them and welcome your feedback.

My Strengths:

  • 6'3, 200lbs and growing
  • 6 pack
  • White
  • 6 - figure salary, Own a home, Drive a Tesla
  • Perform music locally

Weaknesses:

  • Not ripped. Can't seem to eat enough.
  • Wish I had more high-value male friends

I know this sounds like I should have no problem, but I just can't seem to relate to girls under 25

Girls who are over 25 and have their shit together are easily attracted to me... and not just because I'm husband material. I've had many good plates that never tried to turn it into more in the 25-30 age range. We talk about personality types, Sex, Desire, Travel, Our most exciting experiences, our goals and dreams... we go to events, do things...

These kinds of topics don't seem to interest hot girls under 25 though.

My idea of what intereststs hot girls under 25

  • Drug dealers/connects/smoking buddies
  • Ripped physique
  • Tattoos
  • The type of self-hating mentality that says live for the moment, rebel against authority, make foolish choices, etc.

I tried weed for about a year (taking one hit on saturday nights). It was fun. but I also felt like it was fucking with my brain even when I wasn't high, so I gave it up. I have no desire to get a tattoo. I'd love to get ripped and I'm still working on it.

I feel like really hot young girls fall for the "bad boy" type that I am not (if that makes sense)

I have read the entire sidebar and I understand there are ways to emulate that bad boy persona without doing the above mentioned bullet points, but I feel like that works incredibly well, but only on older girls.

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EXAMPLE:

Recently, a 20YO HB9 caught my eye. I was the AMOG and brought my friends over and opened her friend. She immediately got jealous from lack of attention and began qualifying herself to me. I got her phone number as we left. I texted her to meet up the following night and she agreed. I went alone (could have been a mistake, but I wasn't wasting time in trying to get her to come home with me). I was the tallest and most fit guy at the place we went, but I was boring. Everyone there knew her. some other guys her age who weren't even trying joined in our conversation (usually not a problem as I don't act insecure and can provide more value) and I watched her laugh much harder at the nonsense they were saying. She excused herself to go smoke weed with them (I wasn't invited and probably wouldn't have even "gone and not participated") and I told her I'd text her later but was going to leave. She acted surprised and didn't want me to leave (OK so what do you do there?). She obviously dropped a huge indicator she was NOT into me, and sitting alone waiting for her to come back is not something I could play as abundance mentality... I lined up something with a 30 year old plate and called it a night.

This is a pattern I see. For intelligent guys over 30, are there any resources that have helped you relate to young 20s girls better? Or do I need to look for a hook point like an aspiring musician or entrepreneur? Obviously I can't win them all, but I should be able to pull and plate young hot girls as I continue to improve myself. Thanks.