Fucked a stripper - update, need advice

thankyouhaveanice · 2019-10-10T22:12:46+00:00

I think the fact that you're worrying if you fucked up, is where you fucked up. Shoot your shot and keep moving. If she replies back, great. If she doesn't, fuck it.

Patches0wholahan · 2019-10-10T22:40:31+00:00

I worked in a strip joint for 2 years. I never dated, nor had sexual relationships with any of the girls, but...

She’s a stripper. Remember that. She’s going to more then likely live a fast paced life style and is going to be prone to flaking and plans changing. She may be expecting you to pay her for her time. Also, she might not have any idea what Sunday is going to bring. If a good client of hers wants to hang out Sunday, you’re going to be demoted. If a high end dealer is coming to town Friday, she may have plans to not function until Monday. If a good deal on good shit comes up, you may not hear from her.

Also, YOU ARE ALWAYS FUCKING BUSY. CRAZY FUCKING BUSY. If you fit her into your schedule, you are blessing her with your very very important time.

Honestly bro, plating this girl is gonna be tough. You’re going to need king Kong’s dick, brad Pitts looks and Donald trumps money. She’s going to be where the fun is at. That’s why she is doing the job she is doing.

Edit. Seriously bro, you have no idea how many guys would come to the club and blow entire pay checks on girls that thought liked them back. More times then I can count we tried to reason with, threw out, Ran off, threaten, and filed for restraining orders on dudes that couldn’t she didn’t like them like that. She was doing her job.

[deleted] · 2019-10-11T17:27:44+00:00

ghost

Upper_Donkey · 2019-10-10T22:16:18+00:00

You got nothing to worry about. If she responds, great. If not, next her and GFTOW

cawkedup · 2019-10-10T23:42:39+00:00

Update - she messaged 30 mins ago "hey sorry I literally just got out of bed lol" (it's 11 a.m. here)

Gonna maybe message her at the end of the work day - any tips on what I should message? or should I just leave it?

shugerdaddy · 2019-10-11T00:36:22+00:00

Here is another view.....

She knows what she does You know what she does

Treat her to her level.

Text her. Yo. What's a good night for a fuck sash

Then if u wanna fuck wid her, bail on it lol

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-10-11T03:55:26+00:00

You fucked up by saying "no worries, lets do sunday". Truth be told, if she was interested enough you could still get away with that but this isn't good to offer another day/time when they aren't available and do not offer a reschedule. Proper plays from there are either ignore or "ok cool. hit me up when ur free" or "lmk when ur free".

Its now on her to get back to you.

LilLoserFreny · 2019-10-11T13:17:31+00:00

First off you showed that you were too available and you care too much. She’s a young girl so you have to especially make sure to maintain frame. Also she’s a stripper and women like that tend not to have tolerance for guys who are BP or needy. What you should have done is tell her you were busy and can’t hang out with her or text her at that moment. The fact that you seemed to available definitely resulted in her acting the way that she did. The best course of action now is to not text her and maybe she texts you back maybe she doesn’t. Take this as a learning experience. Best of luck.

Title	Fucked a stripper - update, need advice
Author	cawkedup
Upvotes	1
Comments	25
Date	October 10, 2019 9:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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