Day Gamed a girl about 3 months ago. When I met her I didn't hide my intentions. Told her I thought she was attractive. We talked for a few weeks and I invited her out. She agreed but stated we could "go out a friends". After this, I told her I had no interest in being her friend and I ghosted her. Then she starts a conversation with me about a week later and we continue talking for another month (mainly so I can practice my Spanish). That brings us to last week. She suggest we hang out and I told her no, I have no intention of being her friend. I ghost her a second time. Yesterday she texts me again asking her to hang out and I agree. We go to a Bar and I feel like there was chemistry, however I think she referred to me as her "friend" while we were hanging out. But what confuses me, is she kept grabbing my hand and touching me and our legs kept touching one another at the bar and she didn't move them away, in addition to other physical contact.

I was always inclined to believe LJBF=Rejection. But given that she initiated contact with me two times after knowing my intentions and after me cutting all contact with her leaves me a little confused.

My plan is to go out with her again and escalating aggressively and let the cards fall where they may.

Other Info: She told me she doesn't have a boyfriend

She just moved to the country and as such doesn't have a lot of friends

She paid for the food and drinks

Is LJBF always a rejection ? Can it ever be a shit test ? How would you proceed ? What experiences have you had when it comes to this ?

Thanks,