Not personally in the situation myself but I'm bound to be met with it in the future. Guy I know's girlfriend uploaded a bunch of pictures and among them are a bunch where she's clearly lingering around a select couple of very attractive guys. Some are shots of them sitting or standing with an arm around her and maybe making a dumb hand symbol which sounds like some standard innocent thing people do if a pictures being taken.
I'm trying to describe something over text here but other than them being very attractive the part i think that makes my spidey sense tingle is her leaning into their personal space and being rather receptive. Some of the shots are at a swimming event with silly behaviour and coloured zinc cream lines all over them with some guys shirts off with ab lines drawn and zinc on their nipples lol which is a bit sexual hinted.
My question is if you are rather involved with a woman, meaning an Ltr wife etc. not a fling fwb plate or such where the situation would be much easier to navigate and your girl starts to exhibit receptive behaviour something like the above that isn't okay what is the best move to make?
Not display jealousy or even mention it and act totally unphased? would be my play but it wouldn't sit well with me to do nothing and sit there like every other dweeb boyfriend.
Fuck her harder? Leave her satisfied so shes less inclined to seek other male attention? maybe not an end all cure but it would help. maybe shouldn't reward shit behaviour with a good hatefuck and she might catch on to your riled up vibe.
Confront her about it? I get a little lost on how to correctly lay down the hammer of your boundaries, you really shouldn't need to spell it out for them. probably not the best move and unsure how you'd formulate it without sounding like an insecure bitch that doesn't like their girl leaning on other guys chests.
Withdraw? make yourself more unavailable and be petty by hanging out with other girls while she does the same?
I normally run a very scorched earth policy and would rather burn everything to the ground and start again over something minor which can be either for better or worse with my rashness. >next her is a reply which is very common on this sub and is often the best move. But I also see it used as a lazy uncreative solution to a problem and probably strokes peoples ego. Would I be better to look at the married red pill sub? I'm after some insight on how to take the power back once shit looks grim.
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