2 days ago, I went to my ltr's house with her and we saw some guy we both know from school. They both live close. Just before we enter her apartment she says: "Should we invite him too hehehe". I laughed it away and didnt say anything. That day, we have amazing sex and she orgasms hard then cooks me shit and kept calling me that day asking whether I liked the dinner etc. Now fast forward to 5 mins ago. She texts me "Are you asleep dear" Now here's the thing: in our language "dear" is also a male name and happens to be that guy's name as well. So you can think for this instance (Jason=Dear). I havent replied yet. Am I paranoid for thinking it's a message meant to be sent to that guy, imply to me she's cheating, some shit test or simply a night message actually calling me "dear". How should I respond? Should I respond like "Not yet, Jessica" or something like that?