I noticed myself getting back to blue pill thinking time to time, even if I have read the sidebar and are 2-3 years in the redpill I find myself question some fundamental basics, one thing is "One-itis"

I guess I am weak in this area since I had my first girlfriend at the age of 17-24, 7 years with my first sexual experience and we also got a kid togehter. It feels like I got really rooted of the idea of "the one" becouse of my bakgrund

Today I am 31 and have been spinning plates and have had some 6-8 short relationships, I do enjoy this fwb/short-relationships very much but I am weak in the oneitis area.

I give you an example of how my hamster oneitis girls : lets take a girl I was dating last summer we tried ddlg sex (dominant daddy little girl) turnt out that I loved it really much and we took it very far with rules both in bed and her "little space"

Question: How to not get oneitis from that girl if the gave me this special ddlg? It feels like that There are not that many girls who does that

Or Another example if There is a girl who is an expert at something that improves your life for exemple edit your Youtube videos if you are a Youtube

Am I taking oneitis to litteral that It means that There Other girls like her in the world? Becouse how do you explain that if There are 1 girl or 50 who are in the the Daddys little girl Lifestyle. How is she not "special" lf the Other girls feels boring in bed besides to her?

I hope you feel me, what do I think wrong? What do I need to hammer in my mindset to be more cold and /next girls no matter what? Even if the feels specific