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throwaway69764 · 2020-05-03T10:38:04+00:00

Well, most likely she is banging another dude - otherwise she would have rescheduled an alternative day/time (also, "because of her job" - if she's not in a fucking management position where spontaneous workloads can appear, she knew she would be busy already back when she "agreed" to meet up with you). Obligatory soft next, let her re-engage. If she doesn't, move on.

Jabbermouth · 2020-05-03T12:17:57+00:00

Should i have offer other day?

No.

Or should i wait for her to suggest?

Yes.

Or should i have suggested her to let me know when she be able.

No.

Your time is valuable. She canceled on you. If she wants to see you, she can and will reschedule. You are the prize.

Also if this is the first time it’s happening, nothing to worry about. If it starts happening regularly, be ready to move on.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-05-03T16:13:30+00:00

Good, now you have some free time to work on a project or goal.

It's up to her to arrange the next fuck session, she missed out.

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-03T13:42:36+00:00

Part of life is that things can come up at the last minute. Canceling plans every once in a while is normal. When that happens, there's nothing wrong with suggesting another time.

But pay attention. If this becomes a pattern over time, then the ball will be in her court to re-schedule. Eventually this can earn her a soft or even a hard-next.

brianmcg321 · 2020-05-03T14:15:50+00:00

Don’t contact her again until she texts back.

If she texts back after a week and says something like “What are you up to, or Why haven’t you asked me out again?” Just reply you were busy. Then ask “Who is this?”

FieldLine · 2020-05-04T04:25:24+00:00

Ignore. Obviously don't show up to the date, but let her wonder if you're pissed off or even got the message.

It doesn't matter what you say. What matters is that you make her feel any emotion at all.

Should i have offer other day?

Not immediately. Let her bake a little. Hit her up again another time with a follow up date as if nothing happened.

Or should i wait for her to suggest?

Definitely not. You're almost always sunk if you even accidentally put the ball in her court.

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