So what’s going on here?

noobish_senpai · 2020-08-07T06:41:39+00:00

Whats going on here is you loat frame by sending not one, but two snaps, meaning not only you lost frame, you straight up butchered that poor boy.

She thinks you're a bitch. Move on

kclanton80 · 2020-08-07T11:43:36+00:00

You fucked up by inviting her to meet your friends...then immediately telling her you did not want a relationship.

I see this mistake with plate management all the time. A plate is only a plate if treated as such. You can't do relationship type behaviors, then say "hey I don't want a relationship."

Snapping with her.... introducing to friends. Fancy kayaking dates.....what are you doing!? Talk about mixed signals. She was probably pissed that you would do that and she should be.

Even if you did not want a relationship.....why would you need to have "the talk" about it, after hanging out three times? Did she even bring it up? Why are you assuming that someone you met from the internet to have sex with wants a relationship after hanging out with you 3 TIMES!!!

Then you break the cardinal rule of never double text. Men keep fucking up on here using snapchat, and I keep on telling guys not to use it at all, but they think I'm crazy. Literally every day someone fucks up using snap on here.

SNAP is purely a tool of female validation. Don't use it

itiswr1tten · 2020-08-07T11:17:21+00:00

Don't overtly communicate with women, it's a huge turnoff. You failed her social retardation test and now she is unwilling to be a plate.

What you should have done is covert communication - "I am really happy with the way things are going. We need to learn more about each other so we can be confident that's the right choice" then IMMEDIATELY deflect to a more pleasant conversation about your stamp collection or whatever

PepinoSF · 2020-08-07T13:31:34+00:00

Introducing to a friends is signaling ltr status. Eventually you reject it and she is thinking,that you are telling to all your frinds "this is my cheap whore". Thats why she left. Giving more than she deserves is a bad signal to women - signals retardation and she will not be grateful, she will despise you.

93til1nfinity · 2020-08-07T12:05:51+00:00

You probably didnt fuck her good enough lol. Or maybe you fucked her too good and she wanted to hold you down. Either way you didnt hold frame by snapping her. Also why the hell are you using snap its a waste of time

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-08-07T12:54:16+00:00

The pro's say "never define the relationship" just always kick the can down the road...

cunningcaring · 2020-08-07T10:55:22+00:00

She is looking for a relationship. Not plate material.

Title	So what’s going on here?
Author	watstherate
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	August 7, 2020 5:11 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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