What's the difference between being a non-consequential person who is seen as a "cool guy" or a pushover vs just not caring about what people do?

redpillman99 · 2020-08-21T17:48:02+00:00

You are not a pushover because you chose to be this way. Actions are open to interpretation and most actions can be interpreted as either alpha or beta depending on the situation. All that matters is your intention, whether you are in control or not basically your frame as this will give you the inner confidence which will let people know which end of the spectrum you are on.

If you agree with everything, you are a beta, If you disagree with everything, you are a beta. Both are from a reactive mindset. Be in an active mindset: weigh the pros and cons as free from external influence as possible keeping in consideration your own values and feelings. That is the best way

Musicgoon · 2020-08-21T17:55:30+00:00

Being overly agreeable is a very feminine trait. Your agreeable attitude puts you in situations where people will take advantage of you. Even if you don't let that happen, your attitude invites that.

You will be seen as a weak part of the herd. An alpha will lead. Being red pill aware and staying beta will leave you confused and will sabotage good results.

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-08-21T22:13:21+00:00

Law 5: Protect Your Reputation

How you’re “seen” is critical. Always take action to maintain/enhance your social standing.

I don’t see the point

Train yourself to try and see other’s viewpoints regardless if it’s similar but especially if it’s contrarian. It’s a great social skill to master to attain better social leverage.

considered chill

You know best whether that’s the best aspect of your reputation to be known by. Or if you could do better.

Godspeed and good luck!

WIA20XX · 2020-08-21T18:48:22+00:00

With girls, if he's not the leader/calling the shots/setting the tone, he's just a follower.

legospartan · 2020-08-21T17:32:46+00:00

Be vocal about your opinions, be opinionated.

Hopefully someone else chimes in great question

seanconneryfan_ · 2020-08-21T17:52:59+00:00

You answered your question in the question. The difference is actually not caring what people do lol.

jojojijo333 · 2020-08-21T20:19:57+00:00

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Title	What's the difference between being a non-consequential person who is seen as a "cool guy" or a pushover vs just not caring about what people do?
Author	ProudKingbooker
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	August 21, 2020 5:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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