Offering the Pill

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-11-16T13:23:25+00:00

First rule of the Fight Club.

Is it ever worth coaching/teaching dudes?

Ideally, yes.

In my experience, no.

Most of the people out there are so caught up on their own ideas that they reject every other idea, and then blame you for not thinking the same. (also, they might even call you a misogynist)

And in one way, if you talk to him about something that looks so simple on the surface but complex in the inside (game, seducement etc etc.), then he will resent you, because he will think that you think you're better than him because it looks simple, but in reality you're trying to help him. Even the most bluepilled guy thinks he's "alpha in his own way", that he's doing something special.

A lot of people are deluded.

Basically, if he's an open minded, cool guy, who can think for himself, go for it. But if he was like that, and also into researching stuff, he would have already found TRP.

Most you should do is getting him The Rational Male book.

IXseed · 2020-11-16T13:54:09+00:00

Don't shove the pill down his throat.

If you've been her more than like.. 10 minutes you should learn how to speak to guys like this without sounds like a red pilled sperg. It's all about tact. Also I wouldn't do it unless this is, say, a good friend of yours. If he's just some acquaintance or a guy you see in passing you don't hold enough stock for him to even listen to you about this.

Capital_Recognition · 2020-11-16T15:17:35+00:00

You definitely won’t sound like a loser at all.

willthedj · 2020-11-16T13:45:56+00:00

Well a lot of men have the mindset that he has. And as far as every guy in this sub is concerned - that's a good thing it just makes us look better.

I completely understand though and have been in similar situations where I feel empathy for people making similar mistakes, but like, who cares? It's not your problem.

thecarryone · 2020-11-16T14:35:43+00:00

Big no. People don’t want to be woke.

Whole-Pea1870 · 2020-11-16T16:28:28+00:00

Like what the other comment said, don't shove the pill down his throat. Give him small doses. Don't necessarily point him to this subreddit. It may be shocking to cucks and they will reject it entirely.

Feed him small things like self improvement, lifting, working on his hobbies, etc.

I've had friends like your friend. Ultimately, you can not help them unless they are open to being helped. Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved.

ws6pilot · 2020-11-16T17:43:36+00:00

I ruined a four day vacation I took with a friend by trying to sell him the rp the whole time. I had just discovered the rational male after a rough breakup, and I was so excited about all the stuff I was learning I just had to tell him.

Problem is that guy was kind of a pussy, so he wasn't having it. AT ALL. He was far too scared to even consider the harsh lessons I learned could ever possibly be true.

Still a delicate little flower to this day. I don't talk about it with him, but I'm open to sharing with other guys only when I can tell they are ready and if they come to me with questions.

Title	Offering the Pill
Author	Legitimate-Lies
Upvotes	2
Comments	25
Date	November 16, 2020 1:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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