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Won’t go into a “long” explanation but pre-selection works wonders, can’t tell you the amount of ex gfs/girls that turned me down that started bothering me or acting funny when a new girl was on my arm. Usually pre-selection says they have to be “hotter” than the last girl but I’ve seen girls get competitive over girls that aren’t as good looking, but the original girl was one of those hotties with the self confidence of a fat virgin
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:22 PM
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Not a drug and I do have low natural T levels
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:19 PM
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Yeah not really. I either give up too quickly, or fuck it up. I was pretty good but over time I just lost the luster. Might be starting test injections soon so that’ll prob change
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:53 PM
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Want some strategies tbh lol it’s hard not to, I’m at a point where I’ve hooked up with so many girls that I just see mad games being played
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:37 PM
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Ngl went through your post history and you’re projecting. I’ve been cheated on too, man. Shit blows, but I realized that people make choices that aren’t really right. Like I said above, I’m not creating some Hollywood love scenario. I’m just pump and dumping girls like that, cuz that’s all they showed me they’re worth. Why are you on a seduction forum if this is your attitude? It’s all about being a player and this is a part of the game. What’s next, call someone toxic cuz they get a confidence …
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:30 PM
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Realistically, it’s not my job to worry about if a girl is holding up her end of the deal of a relationship. Jealous boyfriends, I could care less. You’re not supposed to blame the other person for cheating, you blame the cheating partner. Not only do I say this, but a therapist will tell you the same thing. Again, this is a seduction forum, about being a player. It’s all a part of the game really. Some people cheat. I’m not starting a love ballad with these type of chicks, I’m just pumping and …
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:28 PM
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Cry me a river, man. Make the woman take accountability for her own choices lmao
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:17 AM
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Don’t bother, man, this sub ain’t about being a player anymore. Just a bunch of simps crying over not being tall, or not getting attraction
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:15 AM
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Oh cry me a river
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:14 AM
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Not gonna lie, if some girls coming onto me, and I have to choose between getting a nut, and some rando dude in a failed relationship, it’s not really wrong to choose myself. Maybe not exactly the highest moral ground, but nonetheless, honestly don’t care. This sub has gotten super soft
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:53 AM
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Most of it was when I was younger. Honestly don’t understand the downvotes, I even admitted I wasn’t proud. Just a reality. A lot of women cheat
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:44 AM
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Am I though? If not with me, they’d cheat with someone else. I don’t fuck my friends girlfriends, but if some girl doesn’t respect her boyfriend, it’s really not my problem
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:43 AM
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It’s not true, I’m out in Honolulu rn with a bunch of single women that are good looking.
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:42 AM
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Eh yeah, I stay away from it now. Usually it was them coming into me. Save me the morality tho, this is about pick up. Not my fault they’re shitty women lmao
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:41 AM
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Nothing, she probably sucked anyway. Shit happens
/r/seduction05/09/21 10:14 PM
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I don’t because social media is the worst way to attract women unless you’re a celebrity
/r/seduction05/09/21 10:10 PM
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It isn’t necessarily “bad boys” that are attractive. It’s confidence, Drive, and motivation, as well as strong boundaries. Being an asshole isn’t an end all be all. Dudes who are straight up assholes to everyone don’t actually get laid, that’s some incel thoughts. You can be respectful, just don’t think doing favors for a girl is gonna make her wanna suck your dick
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:38 PM
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I don’t believe in it, but I’ll keep the convo going and know my own “sign”. I have it unironically tattooed on me, but I was going more for taoist koi fish like in ATLA and didnt think about the fact I was a Pisces (two fish)
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:36 PM
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I get it too. It’s crazy that they won’t take “I barely know you and want to know you better” as a real answer
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:09 PM
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Tbh it’s not as effective as you think depending on the vibe you give off lol I kinda got the whole “player” vibe naturally cuz I’m a good people person so some girls are chill with it, other girls will bug and think you’re playing them
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:12 PM
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I usually am honest and say I am down to seriously date if we work together well. There’s a huge difference in sexual compatibility and relationship compatibility
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:00 PM
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You talk to her in person
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:13 PM
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I dunno, I have a mental illness that makes me unable to notice social cues but I’m pretty good at making random friends. Just say hey what’s up, join the clique
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:06 AM
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Usually I split it at first. Only time I’ve had issues are with BPD girls, or insta baddies that have narcissist level egos
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:05 PM
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Rock climbing is all the rage now. Made a lot of friends in Jiu Jitsu.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:57 PM
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Disappear and talk to other girls. There’s no long game
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:52 PM
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How to be more interesting personally: Get hobbies. Get GOOD at them. Talk about them How to be more interesting socially: Learn. Ask people about their own hobbies and interests. Ask them why they’re into them. I have my own hobbies but a good understanding of a lot of things I don’t do so I can shoot the shit with a lot of people. It also helps to become a good conversationalist. I’m visiting LA and I made friends in the street just by speaking Spanish and skating around in Anaheim.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:27 AM
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You’re not losing out because you’re short. You’re losing out because you’re acting like a cry baby loser
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:09 AM
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It’s not as much of a deal breaker as everyone makes it out to be. This and the “girls only want the top 5% of guys” is incredibly nuanced. What you need to do is: Shut up Grow a set Improve the things you can Get off of seduction subs and go be social. Seriously, if shits that bad go on HGH or something. This shits more annoying than the black pill shit on here.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:09 AM
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I wouldn’t worry. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 20 and I’ve had over 40 women since then
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:40 PM
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Don’t make me put your wallet on top of the cupboard
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:15 PM
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It’s not a bad argument lmaoooo you’re just being a downer. So I’m kinda tall? Doesn’t really matter when I’m pencil thin
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:56 PM
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Listen dawg you got two choices in these situations: Be a cry baby bitch while tall dudes fuck the girls you want, and be a black pill sooner Understand some of the “pilled truths” and improve what you can control Whining about it isn’t gonna do anything. Go out and improve your life
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:27 PM
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Not really. Looks and physical characteristics just get you in the door, it doesn’t let you walk through. That’s also not that tall lmao
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:26 PM
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Tinder or dating apps are the worst way to meet women. Just go talk to them in person
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:57 PM
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Despite what a lot of people say, I’ve yet to really meet a woman who is okay with “sharing a high value male”, and I’m no sperg. There’s a difference between having an abundance mentality, and being a disrespectful sperg. You were the latter. It’s cool to talk to multiple girls, but usually, it’s much better to do it as something that is true, but unsaid, as in, not IN HER FACE. Seriously, stay off subs like this. Good ideas are occasional, but if you live on them, you lose actual social skills…
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:04 PM
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Yeah, while they’re busy being huge pussies, I fuck their bitch
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:46 AM
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If I can slay pussy weighing 125 at 5’10”, you can get laid
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:30 AM
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So here’s the discrepancy. Being “nice” isn’t bad. If you’re a raging narcissistic douche bag, you also won’t get laid. What you need to be is confident, tactful, and successful. Usually jerks are good at this. Being overtly nice isn’t going to get you laid. You’re not gonna do a girl a favor and have her wanting to suck your dick (unless she already really wanted it). But you don’t have to be an asshole lmao I hate that black pill shit. Getting an asshole will get you laid, but it’s a balancing…
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:57 PM
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Realistically this sounds like a case of she might dig you, but her friends are the “you deserve better/some amazing dude” type of people, and you don’t fit the bill (in their eyes). This isn’t directly about you tho if that’s the case. I fall victim to this because, at first glance, I just seem like some stoner/surfer guy, but after getting to know me, people find out I’m a Master Auto/Diesel Tech, own two businesses, and am pretty smart. I just don’t look like that kinda person. This isn’t a g…
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:53 PM
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I wouldn’t say nice tits, you can banter after they’re into you and feeling you. I’ll say I like their shirt or something but ultimately it boils down to how attractive you have
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:49 AM
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It’s cool to text every once in a while. In fact, I think it’s kind of effective. Just don’t text her all day. You got shit to do, right?
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:23 PM
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So this will come across as a sort of humble brag but there’s a message to it. On paper, I am realistically very much “good boyfriend material”. I’m self sufficient, I have a decent career for my age, I work hard, I have motivation, and am generally good looking. I don’t think there’s ever been a girl I wasn’t sleeping with who hasn’t gotten attached in some way. How do I counteract this? I’m just not boyfriend material. On paper, sure. In practice? Fuck no. I’m somewhat rude (not literally I ju…
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:21 PM
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“I’m Batman”
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:16 PM
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Just walk away and say “oh my bad”. It’s a rejection. Don’t be dude that keeps hitting on her, there’s so many women.
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:15 PM
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Well realistically, what are you working on in life? It’s no secret that people want to be a part of someone else’s life with its interesting. I normally just help dudes, but purpose is a big thing for me. That doesn’t mean some crazy manifest destiny type of shit, but like, are you crushing it at your job? Are you enjoying your hobbies? Are you developing new skills? Is your social life decent? I cant say my social life is amazing but I still try to develop it
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:30 PM
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I don’t not have sex or get intimate with people, it’s more about acceptance. All good things come to an end type vibe. And you’ll stop craving validation from others, that will breed an inner neediness.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:50 AM
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So a lot of subs like this preach abundance as “having lots of women”. I do t agree. I feel true abundance comes from being okay when there’s no women in your life, and you are self sufficient and self fulfilling
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:23 PM
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Doesn’t work. Text for logistics
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:37 PM
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Never shit where you eat
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:34 AM
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She just doesn’t want it. It’s not always mutual. Either be her friend, or get over it. Story time: I’m moving to Hawaii with a girl I had a crush on years ago (not WITH but she’s out there and I’m about to be out there). Am I sad? No I just fuck her hot friends
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:26 AM
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I agree with others though. Game all day but it’s a good habit to not approach women with the intent to fuck at the gym, or at their jobs
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:20 AM
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“Hey can you spot me/film this set?”
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:20 AM
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This is a bad idea and incredibly sperg level thinking
/r/seduction20/08/21 07:29 PM
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Met girl at bar> “hey I like your tattoos and hair can I touch them?”> touched a lot more than that like maybe an hour after rhat
/r/seduction20/08/21 07:28 PM
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Just gotta find what works for you. I got long hair and tattoos but that’s like my niche since I do skate/surf and play music
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:49 PM
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Style, gym, skin care, and purpose. Find a style that fits. Not gonna lie, my style is lacking, I still got that whole skater/surfer vibe that I’ve rocked since I was young.
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:46 PM
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Idk what world you live in but even ugly girls get approached a million times. No phrase is magical, it’s mostly about how physically attractive you are when opening doors. Game is technically non existent. It’s just another way to say “not a social retard”. Get attractive, just talk to women. I number closed a girl out in Hawaii (I am moving there in two weeks) and she already told me she’s excited to hang with me when I move. All I did was walk up to her group, say what’s up and ask where she’…
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:00 PM
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You either are bad at sex, come off TOO player (very possible I have this issue) or you offer no RMV
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:53 PM
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“What’s up? I’m “name”, where are you from?” Just did this on a trip to Hawaii. Easy, and opens the convo
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:52 PM
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This is true but not in this case
/r/seduction20/08/21 05:26 AM
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I compliment their tattoos or being up a random convo. “Hey before you go lemme get your number”. Ngl I’ve never really stressed “things not to say” to women outside of not being a huge pussy.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:04 AM
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Some girls (from my experience, the better looking ones) are usually at least a 6/10 on the crazy scale so they’ll make shit up to not look like a hoe
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:04 AM
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Not gonna lie, a LOT of dudes are simps now, so usually they give in and date a girl out of pity.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:03 AM
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Anytime I’ve IGNORED my gut, I’ve regretted it.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:02 AM
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From a girls POV it’s just being used as a meat pocket. I’ve met a lot of girls like this. If a girl really didn’t want a non serious hook up she wouldn’t fuck you. From my experience girls like this are more hassle than their worth. These types will bitch at you for not texting them every day, or not simping and buying them stuff to prove your love.
/r/seduction20/08/21 12:56 AM
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As long as you’re sociable and generally good looking you’ll be good.
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:00 PM
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Everywhere. Was just in Colorado, enjoy your music scene. Join some groups to go hiking. Denver is a social hot spot rn
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:23 PM
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In person is always better IMO
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:16 PM
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You’re either not good looking or trying way too hard
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:54 AM
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Tl;dr “i fucked my first girl with BPD” run dawg seriously
/r/seduction18/08/21 03:45 AM
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Yeah you had the opportunity to invite her over. Should just scooped her from the bar
/r/seduction17/08/21 03:04 AM
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So work on other things you can control. You’re acting like a baby, seriously
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:01 AM
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I’m only 5’ 10” and I get laid plenty dawg. If you keep this defeatist mentality, you’ll just stay a sex-less pussy
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:03 PM
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Improve your looks. Realistically not hard
/r/seduction16/08/21 04:24 PM
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Very unrealistic. No dude who’s good with women is asking them about “creating sex reviews” for yourself. No ones jealous man, we just know you’re blatantly lying
/r/seduction16/08/21 04:23 PM
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Looks get you in the door, confidence walks you through it. Wanna know what you need to do? Get off the internet and work on your life. Best “game” you can use
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:14 AM
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There’s a massive difference between being emotionally intelligent and just acting like a pussy
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:42 AM
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Your post history is also pathetically sperg like. You ain’t fucking 1000 hoes bro, no way
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:37 AM
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Found the blatant liar lmao cmon bro, 1000+ is a wildly unrealistic number. No one here is gonna believe you ever
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:35 AM
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That just shows she ain’t worth it dawg. Take her off the pedestal, and put yourself there
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:37 AM
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You haven’t slept with over 1000+ women dawg stop lying lmao
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:23 AM
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Getting and understanding consent shouldn’t be difficult. Been with plenty of women, and I know what’s good and what’s not.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:50 AM
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I’m 27 and I’d maybe fuck a girl who’s 19/20 but she’s gotta be one of those girls that looks way older. I’d never actually date one though, I remember how immature I was at that age. Can’t imagine being in a relationship with someone like that at the stage I’m at
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:19 PM
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It statistically has a very low success rate (16% of people on Tinder actually meet). It is obviously much better to be social in real life than rely on a program to meet people. Also if you need to constantly get laid to have abundance, that’s not true abundance. That’s just craving validation but being successful at getting it. You’re still relying on external factors to make you feel good
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:13 PM
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Honestly do not understand how you’re okay with not having hobbies. Do you not get bored? If you want to be interesting, make an interesting life
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:55 AM
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Dudes on this sub don’t wanna hear this. They wanna see some magical wording to get every girl rather than realize abundance comes from purpose
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:15 AM
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Dating apps are the worst way to meet women honestly. Just game girls in person. Gain abundance. Get a purpose. Girls come and go, dawg
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:11 AM
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Honestly, since I stopped reading subs like this that often, it’s so much easier. Paralysis by analysis is a real thing. The best experience you guys can get is going out and learning to be social, not sitting on a sub that’s largely run by insecure dudes. I’ve also never experienced shit testing in the frequency mentioned in this sub or asktrp unless the girl was a train wreck or a straight up bad person
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:05 AM
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I half agree. It’s about balance. You want a girl to feel lucky to have you, but I’ve been in a position where too much of this makes them freak out and think you’re gonna fuck them over.
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:56 AM
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Being confident in yourself isn’t bragging dude. I’m talking about my own experiences. You’re just upset because you lack confidence in yourself, clearly.
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:43 AM
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Not a humble brag. It’s acknowledging that it isn’t always the guys fault when things don’t work out, despite what a lot of this sub says. Not everyone who is confident is bragging either. From your other comments, you admitted you got low self confidence and other insecurities. Try adopting an “I’m the shit” mentality and watch how much better life in general gets.
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:13 PM
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This is why abundance is important. I’ve lost chances with girls for my own mistakes, sure, but so much else can happen. I’ve lost girls cuz I was literally TOO attractive and they had some fear of abandonment so they thought I’d fuck them over (I’m like a chaotic good type of player. I flirt a lot but I don’t necessarily lead people on.) I’ve lost girls because they were just confused (yeah I know best option blah blah blah but some girls just can’t handle a lot of attention, or genuinely get c…
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:54 PM
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“Purpose” isn’t always a singular thing. It’s really just a nomenclature. A lot of “hustle culture” calls it that, but it really just means cultivating your own interests that make you happy and confident. A girl wants to join an interesting man’s life. Mine isn’t really traditionally exciting, but I’m into fitness (mixed martial arts, idk why but when a girl finds out I can fight, or sees it, the fact that I’m pretty skinny kinda goes away), I play music, and I build race cars/offroad vehicles.…
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:45 PM
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Everyone gets ghosted. Just says more about them than you. Also do you want a fuck buddy or a pen pal?
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:14 PM
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It can be good or bad. Come across as too fuck boy and girls will think they’re getting played. I got a fuck boy aura and when I actually wanna pursue something with a girl it definitely gets in the way.
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:57 PM
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I got the same thing, a truly hollow existence. There def has to be something up tho, even girls that just wanna fuck will stick around, even just for more dick
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:17 AM
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It comes with time and wavers man, just work on yourself. Purpose saved me
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:16 AM
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Well my personal reasoning is that it is largely a crutch. I also think people act mad dumb. I spin it cuz I’m an athlete. Bring up other things about your life you do instead of drinking
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:16 AM
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“Ding ding round two, fight!”
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:43 PM
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Later im about to fly to Hawaii. Just look up “style on a budget”
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:39 PM
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So you’re either not what they’re looking for, or are weird. Also I got sad news for you, a lot of modern romance is dependent on sex. If the sex isn’t good, why would you wanna continue?
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:37 PM
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I’m straight edge (no drink no smoke). I still go out to bars, I just drink water or ginger ale. Haven’t really had an issue. Usually brings up a good talking point
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:34 PM
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They either got mad options, are just bad people, or you’re fucking girls with boyfriends right husbands. Also, although you said it, the sex might be bad. I know you THINK it doesn’t but it just might.
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:29 PM
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I disagree on a few points You can definitely be in style and not spend a bunch of money. In fact, the most stylish people I know do a LOT of thrifting. You can do a lot with non branded clothing, there’s a lot of good YouTube channels dedicated to it. High price=/= high quality This is a bit more nuanced. She may have done it for that reason, but Pete Davidson also has BPD so I’m positive that is a contributing factor as well (to date a BPD girl, or look on r/BPDlovedones) It isn’t ALWAYS about…
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:15 PM
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Either she legit has better things to do and has some value and realizes that OR she just got fucked over.
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:07 PM
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Having a purpose makes having game not needed because you just act as a high value dude because you are one
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:00 PM
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This is easy dude. Easy lay, not girlfriend material. If she doesn’t cheat with you, she will with someone else, so might as well get your nut. I’ve unfortunately been in this situation a lot. Low value chick, pump and dump
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:57 PM
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The reality that there are a million girls like her because, although I have high standards, they aren’t really unrealistic and if they are, then the bar is embarrassingly low. Also have less expectations. I’ve fucked girls that dudes say are the love of their life and I know from personal experience that they fucking suck
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:41 PM
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I’m a mechanic and rarely deal with people. In fact, I took this job because I don’t have to deal with people. I am socially naive cuz of the upbringing but you gradually learn it. Funny helps but only if you’re hot to be super frank. No one really has an advantage outside of a high income (which isn’t as much of a selling factor as people think.) and looks but that’s not really too changeable and genetic lottery
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:38 PM
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I agree, partially. I would say game does matter because I have met conventionally attractive dudes with none who can’t pull even getting hit on and approached, and I’ve seen not as good looking dudes have more luck. Looks open the door, and game lets you walk through it. Another thing, dudes SORELY forget on this sub two main things: Style. I always had a cute face, but dressed awkwardly. I got some tattoos and dressed better, and I get approached all the time. In fact, I’ve gotten with girls w…
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:36 PM
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Sorry for late reply. Just gonna be real, not every girl is honest. I usually watch what they do, not what they say. If you go out with her, do it with low expectations. Cuz of what you know, do not spend a dime on her. I’ve straight fucked girls who have started the bitch tirade cuz I’m flat out that I don’t pay for stuff until it is more serious (this seems to happen more with really hot women, who expect the best and are used to dudes throwing everything at them)
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:11 PM
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Good outcome: she’ll fuck you even though she has a boyfriend Worst outcome: she’s using you for validation/ a free meal This is when you put in low effort. Either she comes over to fuck or you don’t ever talk to her. I would not call any hang out a “date” cuz even if she’s using you, this is still bad behavior
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:21 PM
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Like if you do everything verbatim, you’re gonna be robotic. So you have to use those tips naturally, and the way these guys make videos makes you question everything
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:59 PM
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Nah he’s right. Watch em, internalize it, but your game will be significantly better when you aren’t watching it. I’ve DEFINITELY noticed this
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:49 AM
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Any girl that has played hot and cold (game or not) was either a waste of time or bat shit crazy
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:39 PM
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It’s not worth it unless they’re like following you around
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:35 PM
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Just go out and hang out. Learn about IOIs
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:34 PM
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I got sick of my area and decided to move to Hawaii
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:56 PM
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It isn’t “no matter what you do you can’t get them” Get that mentality out of your head. Are you attractive? Do you live a life that a woman would want to be a part of? Dudes on this sub can give you a million strategies but it really just dials down to being good looking, fun and confident.
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:52 PM
1

Yes it is, but it isn’t how this sub thinks it is. It’s just the ability to flirt and be confident
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:42 PM
2

I’m absolutely loving that we’re getting down voted rn lmao
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:28 PM
3

Well if you fake being interesting you’re gonna get dropped. If you follow my post history I regularly talk about dudes having purpose cuz it allows you to build an interesting life for yourself. And lol yeah I know I got lucky with a nice face
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:45 PM
5

You don’t have to fake it if you’re a genuinely interesting and good looking dude. If you’re hbu g trouble getting 8’s, it’s either you’re boring, ugly, or they have their own issues.
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:24 PM
1

The gym and at work/at the girls work are the two places I never hit on women (I’ll talk to them at the gym but they gotta be basically following me around)
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:20 PM
1

NGL there’s a lot of psych studies that younger women choose looks over anything
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:17 PM
1

I think you have oneitis and I think this chick is nuts
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:18 PM
2

Yaknow how they say don’t stick your dick in crazy? Yeah don’t stick your dick in crazy
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:29 AM
4

I won’t approach girls at their job cuz it’s hard to see if she’s into you or just thinking you’ll make a bad review if she turns you down. No work or gym (I will sometimes approach a girl at the gym but she’s gotta give me major IOIs). Don’t shit where you eat. That’s it
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:23 AM
3

Then you’re starting from a loss anyway. If she wouldn’t meet up drop this bitch lmao
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:51 AM
2

If you still want to reattract, then you’re needy. Just talk to other women and forget her. Why are you talking for months on tinder? Just meet her in person
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:45 AM
117

She probably has a million matches. Tinder is the worst way to meet women. Go game in person.
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:57 PM
3

I wouldn’t even say this is from this dude “chasing”. There’s some girls who are like this and usually they’re just a mess. Almost always “ugly duckling syndrome”. A girl that acts like this is never worth it. They don’t want your attention until it’s gone, or they see someone else has their attention. It’s a weird insecurity/control thing. Just ghost this chick she will only get more annoying
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:18 PM
8

You didn’t dodge a bullet, you dodged a whole firing squad. Imagine you got into a relationship with this girl. What a butch
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:17 PM
3

This is true but if you take this too much to a T you’re a sperg. Just be confident, interesting and decently in shape. It’s literally not hard.
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:06 PM
3

I wouldn’t bother, seems like she’s rejecting you and wants validation of you still wanting her. Ghost her back, this is the type of girl that will date you then monkey branch
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:00 PM
4

There’s a Fat Chance she likes you. You seem a little intense though, relax dude lol
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:59 AM
1

Attitudes the problem. Go take some martial arts
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:56 AM
3

In person
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:39 AM
1

The first one
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:20 AM
2

Yeah same but having abundance helps for sure you in those too!
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:20 AM
1

Also it just takes a long time. TKD is often made fun of cuz dudes get black belts in like a year. Most martial arts are not like that
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:53 AM
7

Only if you call me daddy This is a dumb question lmao
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:51 AM
2

I often forget it. Taoism is ironically an amazing method to form purpose and be seductive (not literally but helps with abundance mentality)
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:50 AM
1

Honestly don’t know why I got downvoted to zero for this comment lol
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:50 AM
1

Tbh it’s a life style if you wanna get really good. First step is signing up for classes. I hear so many people in BJJ say “I gotta get in shape for BJJ”. The only way you get in shape is by doing it. Check out schools, and if you wanna get good, see if they are pushing out dudes that compete and WIN. That shows they are a good school. I’d also make health and nutrition a focal point. If you eat like garbage, you train like garbage. When you train, ask questions. You’re gonna get swept for a lon…
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:49 AM
2

That’s a mad low number lmao
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:47 AM
2

He’s already kinda ruined his chances with this girl by asking so much. He’s gotta pull a Gatsby to get this one
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:07 AM
2

I would skip asking again and just do the latter.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:06 AM
1

Currently Jiu Jitsu, I’ve trained Muay Thai and Black Hand Kenpo
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:47 AM
3

That’s the name of the book btw
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:36 PM
14

Gotta remember 2 things: You think 4-10 matches is a lot? Dawg, ugly chicks get hundreds a day. Dudes are thirsty. I preach against dating apps cuz they don’t really worn and ruin in person game. Also statistically like…16% of people meet in tinder. That’s a small percentage
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:29 PM
6

It’s kind of a summarization tbh. Most the Tao is that simple statement, reiterated in many forms. Definitely not a direct quote. A good one is “change your mind change your life”
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:23 PM
12

Yes bro
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:08 PM
3

-Any serious mental health issue (idc if you have adhd or like regular struggles. BPD? BP? Fuck no. Been there done that) -Serious drug use. I’ve experimented so I don’t really care but if you’re getting wrecked all the time, ew -I don’t want to hear about your ex -Yes I am a mechanic, no I will not fix your car for free -Entitlement. Confidence is good. The idea that you deserve things handed to you because you graced me with your pussy or presence does zero for me -insulting interests. Yeah, I…
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:08 PM
12

It’s like when you’re into a girl and it isn’t reciprocal and it effects your mental health (usually)
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:03 PM
2

I’ve had his issue before. It’s probably not literally this one girl. After you’ve been with a ton of women, it loses the luster fast
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:58 PM
36

You’re young so I’ll give you a pass on being a dick. She’s not your girl, and it’s not even your turn. Zero reason to be mad, and you shouldn’t be. You don’t confess feelings. You create an attractive vibe and just…act interested in her. You’ll turn her off by confessing especially cuz she’s trying to fuck your boy She didn’t “use you”, you never made a move little homie. Her asking for dating advice? Deeeeep in the friend zone. Overall, this is a hopeless endeavor. A wise word of the scripture…
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:49 PM
1

Jiu Jitsu for sure
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:51 PM
1

Honestly the hollowest of victories. Being a dude in this position loses the luster very fast
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:28 PM
4

Also agree, this only works on relatively young girls. Even at 27, that whole bad boy only works on girls who are also bums
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:27 PM
0

I got the same thing. I compete in martial arts, and have a bunch of tattoos. My lay count was nuts cuz I also sold uh…party favors. Even “proper chicks” were into it. Only problem with giving this advice is I see a lot of dudes faking it. Happened to me a few times. I’m always down to scrap and I’ve seen some dudes in my area completely lose that image with their girl when they try to act tough or “hard” and I’m like “yeah dude I’m down to fight” and (usually) win. Also a reason I preach taking…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:27 PM
1

Good girl. Look up some BDSM stuff this girl wants it (I tend to not try to LTR girls who are always like this tho)
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:57 PM
2

Monk mode dawg
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:56 PM
2

Try some martial arts dude. Great way to stay in shape and the mentality at these gyms tend to build your confidence quick
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:53 PM
22

I’ve made the same mistake dawg. That’s why I preach to all the dudes here to “be a monster and hustle”. It always turns into “blah blah don’t be a provider I don’t wanna be a wage slave” but if you’re working on hobbies and fitness and making a decent wage, you’ll soon realize you don’t really have time to chase girls cuz you can barely fit them in the schedule
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:05 PM
54

Just say “okay hmu” and never hit her up again. She isn’t interested in anything and your availability has turned you into an option. If it isn’t a fuck yes, it’s a no
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:43 PM
1

You just explained that your basis was pure assumption tho
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:32 PM
1

She legit said a whole group is going so you can’t understand the dynamic until you’re in person. If you listen to these dudes telling her to fuck off or consider it “bad behavior” then you’re gonna be a butt hurt sperg. Part of attraction is social proof, so prove your social ability. Only tell her to fuck off if she’s all over the other guy, but again, your largely over thinking this and frankly acting very insecure
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:05 PM
3

It’s a concert, not a one on one date. Your fault for doing that. This is just as bad as a movie date. For all you know, the dude heard her excited about seeing you and was like “oh shit I love that band lemme come through”. Just mingle and see how their relationship is. For all you know it’s the gay best friend
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:04 PM
1

Like an incredible amount of assumptions with no basis, and I really doubt you actually read this FR thoroughly without putting in some generic advice that’s always nuanced to the situation
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:44 PM
2

I don’t see how he was needy at all. He was able to take a bad situation and make it work. You’re reaching like a giraffe’s neck dawg
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:43 PM
1

Got a few chicks there. I suggest these things cuz it increases confidence
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:24 AM
1

Never too late just is harder when you’re older
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:23 AM
3

Part of attraction is having an interesting life. I play music and it’s an easy babe magnet. Also compete in BJJ, another good babe magnet
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:28 PM
2

Everywhere at your age. Go try a sport, or find a group to go to bars with. People are extra social now that COVID is pretty much “done”
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:55 PM
3

She took the nerdy thing as an insult. I’d probably give up on this one
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:51 PM
4

It happens. I’m 27 and still go through it
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:46 PM
0

Haha yeah I got High standards but I didn’t for a long time
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:27 PM
2

Red flags for me are: -addicted to social media (validation hunter) -a heartbreaker -I’m cool if a girl is a little jealous but not if it’s the “I do what I want but will examine everything you do” type (do as I say not as I do) -no hobbies. I have like a million so I don’t want some chick who just sits around acting pretty -daddy issues=just fwb. Fear of abandonment always becomes some weird argument when I don’t text em all day, and they never understand I build engines all day so I don’t have…
/r/seduction12/07/21 08:12 PM
24

Move on she doesn’t want you
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:16 PM
4

I have a habit of not approaching women at their job cuz that’s sketchy (to them) and they’re professionally obligated to be nice to you. Just walk up say she’s cute and ask for her number
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:15 PM
3

Yeah usually doesn’t work lol I don’t mind, I don’t ever stay dry for long
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:03 PM
2

Yeah I don’t mind but I’ve had instances of things like “he gets tons of girls so I’m gonna be the girl he chases” and that just doesn’t sit right with me
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:37 PM
1

I just accepted my position, hesitantly. I am almost always the dude that girls go to for short term pleasure, or to cheat on their man. Some may call that “alpha” I call it depressing lol
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:36 PM
2

It’s all good, partially my fault. I’ve had a shitty run with relationships so I tend to be hesitant about committing (which I communicate) but in today’s dating climate, it’s almost always interpreted as playing games
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:06 PM
3

Yeah I get this too. I’m a generally good looking dude with decent confidence, and a decent job and a bunch of tattoos. I have “prime boyfriend” written all over me, and I get a lot of female attention that I don’t necessarily desire. It was cool when I realized this, cuz I grew up an awkward kid, but it stopped being cool after like 30 lays. It’s all the same. Any time I’ve tried just being chill and dating a girl, they always think I’m playing when I’m not. It’s a blessing and a curse
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:33 PM
3

Genetics plays a larger part than 10% but people often forget that you can improve your looks with fitness, hygiene and style
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:26 PM
1

Don’t let her know. Just see how she’s acting and bring her down a notch on the hierarchy. She didn’t do anything wrong cuz you aren’t in a relationship
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:33 PM
2

I don’t think so. I think it’s just the lack of social calibration. ADHD and ADD are technically on the autism spectrum (often jokingly called diet autism cuz you’ll have some tendencies, as well as probably an incredibly easy time socializing with autistic people)
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:59 PM
6

There’s also zero indication that she isn’t good looking. It’s true that a lot of hot girls are brats but his post showed nothing saying that. You’re just assuming cuz she wasn’t a bitch
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:57 PM
2

They’re all crazy lol just gotta find out if it’s normal. That chick was Bipolar/BPD tho I just ignored it cuz she fucked like a porn star. There were plenty of warning signs before hand
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:46 PM
2

Entirely nuanced. Had one girl flip the fuck out after I accepted her own offer to split the bill. Last night had a FWB come over, fuck, but me a pizza and leave.
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:36 AM
3

You can endlessly speculate but it’s all nuanced. That’s the problem with this sub it’s usually always nuanced
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:31 AM
38

Terrible condition to live with but we are perfect for things under pressure
/r/seduction12/07/21 02:54 AM
187

This doesn’t seem too bad. Good end results, you showed being resourceful. Don’t listen to the spergs saying “bad date too much validation”. She seems into you and the day and if she had a bad time she would’ve left way sooner. Dudes on this sub are wilding “don’t hold her hand even though you wanna smash first night”. Literally zero social calibration and this is coming from someone with ADHD
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:52 AM
4

Just out being social. Social circle, very rarely out on nights. Your issue isn’t WHERE, it’s the fact that you tried TWELVE TIMES in the same venue imo. Screams thirsty.
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:43 AM
3

Probably because you’re the dude trying to pick up a dozen chicks at the fricken MALL.
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:50 AM
1

Partially. I talk about this a lot on this sub. Good genetics help but you can improve yourself immensely in looms with fitness hygiene and clithes
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:49 PM
3

I think it’s not his game. Game is step 2. I think his appearance isn’t as good as he thinks (again no offense) cuz he’d at least get some attention from hot girls
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:52 PM
2

Yeah just work out and build a more interesting life. Hot chicks like excitement
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:08 PM
8

Surprised no one has said this yet, and not meant to be offensive, but objectively, how attractive are you? Like genuinely. Do you dress good? Are you fit? Do you have a decent amount of personal success? I attract fat chicks too but I also get the occasional fit chick cuz I sit at a nice 7.5/8 but I also work really hard on BEING hot
/r/seduction11/07/21 03:47 PM
2

Realistically it’s just deep set. I was abused for a really long time and I cannot begin to tell you how it has effected me. It truly does affect every part of my life
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:48 AM
2

Broke losers only fuck girls when they’re young, or they’re like a 9/10 in hotness
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:20 PM
3

Even non gold digging women don’t want broke losers with no life. That’s like PUA 101, no game will help if you’re a loser
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:14 PM
1

I disagree with age frame but largely agree with you. I think we both misconstrued the others point
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:47 PM
2

The age also isn’t too far off, at least in my anecdotal experience. If you’re 30 and aren’t in a financially stable spot you’re failing, and that’s coming from someone who wasted a lot of time themselves
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:26 PM
3

I don’t support it, I acknowledge it as fact cuz that’s what they do. You are big time complaining about a dynamic that you aren’t gonna change and has been around since the dawn of our kind (and she even said she wants a dude to match what she’s doing so that doesn’t even apply to her, not use him for financial stability) You’re wilding dog but we all go through anger phase. Big cope, but be good. No point in being mad about how women act unless you can’t handle it.
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:25 PM
3

You understand you said literally the same thing as this chick you’re mad at, right?
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:59 PM
3

If you’re on your purpose you should be easily achieving all those standards she’s making. You ain’t being about it
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:27 PM
2

Yeah but if you’re physically attractive but can’t act attractive it won’t really work. I think there is game but people on here think it’s the end all be all
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:14 PM
2

Sounds like you dodged a bullet
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:17 PM
9

I tend to do this but it’s because my parents abused the shit out of me so “normal” love scares me (so instead I chase mad toxic women) It also really depends on how they show high interest.
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:59 PM
2

I feel like game is real but people on here sorely undervalue initial physical attraction
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:57 PM
6

You know all these things but expect a chick to think realistically about it? Stop crying and hustle, dawg. Women don’t care, they wait at the finish line for winners
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:55 PM
6

I agree half heartedly. Girls pick up true intentions but dudes go so over board with shit tests. It happens but not that often (even shooting out of your league). The only times I’ve encountered shit tests like Reddit weee BPD chicks or other kinds of crazy/insecure that would’ve never made good partners anyway
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:53 PM
3

This is 100%. Not worth anything other than a low effort fuck (aka you run into her and she’s down to fuck that day). Have more self respect for yourself dawg
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:26 AM
2

The rest of the percentage are people who don’t meet
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:33 PM
2

In person is the best way
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:33 PM
1

Don’t text her just set up a date
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:45 PM
3

You’re just fighting against the current. I use it too but you should meet people in person
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:35 PM
1

It’s all nuanced but being confident and interesting (and attractive)
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:34 PM
1

No
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:33 PM
2

I probably would’ve had a better convo but tinder is a poor way to pick up women. Statistically only like 16% of people actually meet on tinder
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:33 PM
2

It’s not worth it. I have a few chicks like that in my life. They only want me when I straight ignore them or they see other women hitting on me. Juice isn’t worth the squeeze and like what others say, initial physical attraction is key
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:26 PM
2

Yeah when I cared less it seemed to be more successful. It’s the opposite of oneitis
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:29 AM
7

Probably hopeless. You gotta let the girl bring up being more serious always. Go no contact but don’t expect her to come back
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:17 AM
1

Dawg I woulda dropped her after maybe two. This girl is only interested in the ego boost you’re giving her chasing her
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:40 AM
1

I know you weren’t I was just wondering tbh
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:26 AM
1

Is dental care honestly that rare? I’ve been in a union since I’ve been off my parents insurance so I’ve never ran into this issue
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:21 AM
5

My go to is “yeah there’s just something in the water here…lead. It’s lead.” What makes Texan chicks different?
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:45 AM
7

Careful for the crazies, it’s in the water here
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:32 AM
10

NJ women are something else dawg
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:20 AM
15

Same with other dude from NJ, somewhere over 30. I play music and was an uh…”self employed pharmacist” so a lot of it was from social circle. Most of them were from 21-24 but I still don’t stay dry for more than 3 months. Never had too much luck with dating apps outside of a few and the sex was good but the girls were not
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:19 AM
2

Yeah dawg let’s work together to keep pushing purpose. No one wants to fuck with losers
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:46 PM
14

Don’t bother, I’ve mentioned staying on your purpose and how it helped and got flamed because people wanna deny how success and fun help attracting women
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:19 PM
1

Gotta get with the times, text for logistics and “just call her” has changed. Unfortunately gotta learn to build rapport through social media these days
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:16 PM
6

Why are you stressing this chick? She sounds like she sucks
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:13 PM
3

You can look at tactics as much as you want but if you don’t internalize it and utilize it, it’s useless. My best results come when I’m not ravenously consuming this sort of info because it’ll be more natural. You can read a million strategies and have zero game still if you’re acting fake or not being natural with it
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:10 PM
1

I literally mentioned all of those things, or that purpose is not always a job. My statement about over socializing still holds true
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:37 PM
1

This is mad head games and reminds me of a BPD girl I used to fuck with big time. Is this head ache honestly worth it? This girls just fucking with you dawg
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:01 PM
26

Reddit: “girls never approach guys! Only Chads!” Reddit: has posts like this
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:53 PM
1

That makes literally zero sense because that’s true for every single person on the planet
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:16 PM
1

I understand that, but what are ya gonna do? Complain about it, or work around it? It’s hard, hustle culture sucks, but I doubt you wanna go down as a losing factor
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:30 PM
1

Ah that explains it, you’re young as hell lmao You’re a wage slave if you’re working a dead end job. Let’s be fair, unless you got godly genetics you aren’t slaying pussy while working at Walmart cash registers If you’re developing a career, you’re not a wage slave. If you’re willingly putting time in to better your life, its not being a wage slave. Also, read my comments…again. “Purpose” is not always your JOB. It’s meant to be whatever you’re passionate about. If you’re hanging out all day, yo…
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:22 PM
2

Tbh I feel like you’re making excuses to justify chasing a girl that doesn’t wanna hang with you, no offense
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:11 PM
1

I’m as leftist as they come but working on your purpose isn’t always just at your job. It’s whatever gives you meaning as a man. That could be art, music, working out, literally anything. The point I’m making is that you’re not building an interesting life (that women will want to be a part of) if you’re just hitting the bar all weekend every weekend because you wanna “enjoy life”. That’s cool when youre 21 but as you get older, you’re gonna start losing out to dudes who took the time to build t…
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:10 PM
4

Tried two times? Attention whore (maybe not literally but she isn’t interested in meeting.) next her dawg. I’ve had a few girls like this. Always blowing my phone up but never meeting. Hooked up with a few but only after I ignored em or they saw other women talking to me. In the end I rationalized that it wasn’t even worth the lay. Take a page from Manson. If it’s not a fuck yes, don’t bother
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:49 PM
1

Also always socializing means you’re wasting time. Success and money is the easiest way to display high value so if you’re just some dude who’s always putzing around, you’re gonna be losing out to dudes who can take chicks on trips to places or on their boat
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:33 PM
2

There’s a difference between being a wage slave and working hard. You ain’t gonna get girls, especially nowadays, when you got zero money
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:31 PM
1

Gotta cut her loose dawg after showing this much neediness, you’ll only get her like a year from now when you forgot her
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:49 PM
1

You’re needy. Stop it.
/r/seduction06/07/21 05:36 AM
2

Only certain types. If they got the BPD/NPD mix then they don’t give a fuck
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:34 AM
1

Okay look forward to your field reports. It doesn’t always have to be a career, you can focus on hobbies too.
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:54 AM
2

Yeah big time. Sex is great, but my game is nowhere near good enough to handle a bitch like that.
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:53 AM
2

bugs bunny no meme
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:53 AM
6

Here’s the thing, in my opinion. Going out all the time? Every Friday and Saturday? Sorry dawg you’re a loser. It’s cool to be social but a man is a monster when he is focused on purpose. That means like going out every two weeks, maybe three. The rest should be focused on his purpose, hobbies, and health.
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:53 AM
7

That’s such a neutral response
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:42 PM
3

Watch what they do, not what they say. A girl that’s head over heels for you, you have to like beat her off with a stick. She wants to visit you at work, she wants to see you after work even though she visited you, blowing your phone up, face time. Tbh a girl that’s head over heels for you is kind of annoying lol Imma guess you’re young but I’d probably relax. She’s leaving for college, you ain’t gonna be in her head cuz someone else is def gonna be in her bed
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:27 PM
27

“I’m busy” is a soft rejection “I’m busy but let’s do it soon/here is when I’m available” is a clear shot to reschedule
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:03 PM
4

Unless she’s head over heels for you, that’s hella needy. Not trying to be rude but if you’re chilling with a girl that isn’t your girlfriend 3-4 times a week, you ain’t on your purpose.
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:55 PM
1

Mobility exercises. See a chiro
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:54 PM
8

If you wanna be the guy she sees when she comes back, I’d tone it down killer. Just see her for what she is, a temp lay
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:53 PM
6

How far is she leaving? You’re gonna fuck it up by trying to see her a thousand times before she leaves
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:52 PM
1

Also when you’re courting a girl, you’re supposed to put your best foot forward. You shouldn’t talk about your anxiety or issues. Also seems like you got abandonment issues. Doctor Lies prescribes: 1. Hours at the gym 2. Other women 3. Maybe some therapy 4. No more jerking off 5. If anything some martial arts. Kills the neediness
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:50 PM
1

She just doesn’t want you dawg, you got oneitis. Just move on.
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:49 PM
1

I agree with this. Saying something shows neediness. Just say oh okay then disappear
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:46 PM
2

“Hey what’s up? I like compliment that isn’t sexual blah blah blah where’d you get it? Blah blah my names name where ya from?”
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:11 PM
1

Tuck it in your waste band
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:47 PM
68

Got a list: -going out to bars/hang out. It’s good to be on your purpose but all work and no play makes jack a dull boy. This actually works really well if you are on your purpose because the rare times you’re out makes it more memorable -concerts/local shows/art shows/open mic nights: people are always socializing. Also excellent if you play (I cannot tell you how many times I’ve gotten my dick wet because I play music, and I don’t play pop crap. I play in weird types of metal bands and I’ve go…
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:46 PM
5

I’m a decently attractive dude with interesting pictures. I get a ton of matches (at least 5 or more a day) but statistically I think like 16% of people actually meet from Tinder. Tinder is also a huge issue because it’s a crazy magnet. I’ve met very few women on there that weren’t BPD, or some other form of mentally ill. It also just KILLS your game. You can pick up chicks in perso and practice social skills, rather than hope some chick answers you out of the 4 million matches she has
/r/seduction05/07/21 04:17 PM
1

It’s a video game lol
/r/seduction04/07/21 05:43 AM
1

Lmao I appreciate the support dawg seriously
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:46 PM
2

I wouldn’t send that sorry text but she probably still isn’t ready. Despite what a lot of people say, attraction isn’t cut and dry and she might still be pining for her ex
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:06 PM
8

You aren’t supposed to be “fuck it”, you’re supposed to not care about others views. If they aren’t feeding, financing, or fucking you, you shouldn’t care how they feel
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:41 PM
5

We all know the real Chad is Octane or Bangalore
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:05 PM
5

I’ve had girls switch up after not texting them for a single day. Despite the AWALT talk girl, it’s nuanced and every chick has different needs for communication
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:44 PM
18

Some may call that needy. I tend not to ask, I’ll take the hint and move on. Some girls do this as a game and the only game I play is Apex Legends
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:21 PM
1

This is also an excerpt from the second article “both daughters and their parents report valuing other mate characteristics much more strongly than physical attractiveness (e.g., mutual affection, intelligence, etc.)” You really should read your own sources cuz you for sure did not read any of them at all. In fact, that quote I just pulled is talking about differences in generational ideas of what is attractive
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:09 PM
1

I’m also not coping cuz I’m also in a higher percentile of physical attractiveness. This is just bad advice because it isn’t the end all be all like you’re making it. Physical attractiveness only gets you in the door, so saying it’s all just how hot you are isn’t it, chief. It helps, no doubt, but only in initial attraction. If this were an undeniable truth, you’d see less men than now getting laid
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:07 PM
1

That first study alone contradicts what you’re saying brother. Under “Equivocal Evidence for Sex Differences”. I’ll read the others after work but real life interactions are much more nuanced than this.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:05 PM
0

Yeah this dudes missing the point big time. If someone is physically attractive but a social retard, they aren’t getting laid more than someone who has a better social presence
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:51 PM
1

You are attempting to gaslight people into thinking their lack of success is because they aren’t physically attractive. It is a factor, yes, but it is not the end all be all like Reddit likes to make it
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:43 PM
1

This is definitely a troll your account is 2 days old
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:28 PM
1

We did, you’re just missing your mark and incredibly disillusioned
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:28 PM
3

I never said they didn’t. Modern dating is a shit show of a cycle of toxicity on both ends
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:12 PM
1

Yes. I don’t wanna fuck a dead fish, and I get off on the girl getting off.
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:57 PM
2

Looks matter but people vastly oversimplify it down to that. I have a friend who looks like a straight up model, but can’t talk to girls worth anything. I have a friend that’s maybe 6/10, obnoxious but can spit game. He gets laid more than the model kid. People also forget that, if your goal is to get women, you should be ACTIVELY trying to improve your looks. Fitness, skin care, style, and attitude. You can make a lot of progress quickly but people wanna be like “wah I’m not 6’5” and jacked I c…
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:56 PM
2

Picking up women on social media is nigh impossible. You gotta be like top 5% or have crazy social proof. It’s not worth it
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:23 PM
2

Any time I’ve taken a girls advice or given her what she wanted I’ve been dropped. When I do what I want, it’s easier. Anecdotal evidence says this is BS. I’m not an asshole to girls but definitely don’t take this advice, especially when girls do one thing then say the opposite
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:01 PM
2

Yeah this dudes mad at and I can only imagine how he in social situations
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:20 PM
1

You should be YOURSELF, but always be improving that. I see SO MUCH advice on this sub being like “do this to keep her in her feminine, and you in your masculine” and if you’re following stuff like this verbatim in social interactions, you’re gonna come across as fake or a social retard. A lot of this sub has good advice, but if you’re ACTUALLY socializing in a natural way, you don’t have time to be like “oh I read this on seduction I’m gonna do this”. A lot of stuff on this sub is armchair dati…
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:12 PM
2

Yeah my skill set is definitely in a much different sort of need. One of the reasons I chose trades is the fact that a lot of people don’t do them
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:00 AM
3

Honestly wish I had the spare change to give you a Reddit award. I’m your run of the mill dude, and I definitely do have romantic trouble. I just have noticed my own failings and realized that when I’m on subs like this a lot, I try TOO hard. Going with the flow is easier, and being less strict with these “rules” makes it a more natural approach. Believe me, I was big beta when I was younger, and still have some beta moments for sure
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:00 PM
1

I disagree. I have some friends I’d bone and think are beautiful but also do not care one bit that I don’t get it. Hate this topic. It’s just not beneficial to stick around after you get “LIBF” by someone you have feelings for
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:56 PM
3

Since I started working on being more attractive, I don’t think I’ve gone more than 3 months without getting laid, and usually that only happens after I caught oneitis (I chronically get oneitis for toxic/abusive women, thanks mom). I’m 27 now, and I’ve had sex with a good number of women (don’t know exact but I’ve hooked up with over 30-40 and I lost my virginity at like 19). This is my own personal evaluation but I think true “abundance mindset” doesn’t come from being able to bed a lot of wom…
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:45 PM
1

I talk about this a lot on this sub, but being on these type of subs will turn you into “overthinking mode” (aka, a sperg). The most effective thing is to learn how to refine your game, then just allow it to become natural. If you’re trying too hard, you’ll just fake it. Fake it till you make it is only so true
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:34 PM
2

Man you’re wilding lmao I still flirt with girls and will approach, but I don’t make it a priority when I’m out. What you said does happen tho, it depends on the setting tho.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:32 PM
2

Lmfao yeah I was like “bro cmon”
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:30 PM
1

Haha yeah earlier today asking about what makes girls attracted to me
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:27 PM
2

On the seduction side of stuff, I also agree I wouldn’t have handed out my number on a business card, but I have a theory (tried and trued in my own experience) that having that card for my own side business is a DHV because it shows I work hard, developed a skill, and have the aptitude to run my own business (if you can call it that. Very rudimentary I only take cash and don’t do it full time cuz I’m a lead tech at a dealer)
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:27 PM
2

I would say both. I got the hook up on cards so I luckily have the freedom to give em away like candy. Being into fixing/modifying cars is a big part of my identity (it’s both a hobby and my current career) so more than likely, if someone talks to me, I will reference it at least once. Sometimes they ask for my card, if not, I’ll mention that I do side work, have a lot of my own equipment, am knowledgeable about all makes/models and also other engines (small engines or diesel) and I’ll give it t…
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:25 PM
2

Damn bro you’re my biggest fan today lol I dunno, they just wanted to date me. As much as a lot of online forums say, my anecdotal experience has shown not many girls are really into keeping things casual, especially if you spend any time outside sex with them
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:12 PM
1

Focus on building your life. You don’t want to be a deadbeat husband. This will also allow you to figure out what “wife material” is to you, cuz it’s different for everyone
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:39 PM
2

Yeah exactly dude. A lot of young men (including myself) have failed trying too hard to fit this stereotype. It’s easier when you sharpen your game every once in a while, but I think there’s a point of “overdose” where you get too into these subs
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:37 PM
2

Tinder. Bumble is a close second imo I got a few hook ups from there but it was more difficult to keep it casual
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:23 PM
1

No obvious mistakes. Maybe ex cock blocked. Maybe she lost interest. Despite what a lot of people say, it’s not always what the guy does that can ruin stuff
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:18 PM
3

I have a cardinal rule of not hitting on women at work unless they initiate (cue the Reddit hive mind saying “be more masculine”) I adhere to this rule cuz she is obligated to be courteous to you cuz she can get a nasty call later of some BS about “how she was so rude to you”. On the other side, dynamic seems alright but I wouldn’t over think it
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:05 PM
1

Nothing wrong with business cards, I carry them with me everywhere cuz I’m an independent mechanic. Easy way to network
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:04 PM
2

Nah man I’m shy and awkward lol just gotta own being a little weird. I’m not insanely extroverted, I just am who I am. That honestly helps more than any “tactic”. I’m also a winner of the genetic lottery, I’m generally good looking, tattooed, and athletic
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:04 PM
2

I honestly don’t know. I’m funny, pretty confident, and I work hard. I don’t really go out of my way anymore cuz I noticed I do better focusing on myself
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:48 PM
0

This stuff works but people go overboard with it big time. Yeah, have options and be confident, but you’re only gonna be around for a few weeks if you follow this stuff verbatim or go 100% strict on this stuff. (Before anyone comes at me, I do subscribe to this sort of stuff, my issue is that a lot of young men see this stuff and try TOO hard to be alpha and end up being spergs. This stuff should be unconscious, not conscious)
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:15 PM
1

Way too eager. Good banter but in too little time. I don’t think I’ve ever talked to a girl at the bar and expected to see her past that night except at that bar again maybe. Slow down killer, should’ve left it at “I’ll make ya good at pong”, a week is not that much time if you’re busy tbh
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:05 PM
2

I have a best friend that is def a 8/10. Super hot, professional and smart. However, I value the friendship way more than some (more than likely temporary) sexual satisfaction. It isn’t worth it dawg. I had a crush on my best friend too, but I got over it. You will too. (On a side note if she wanted you, you’d more than likely would’ve gotten it already. Even the most conservative girls I’ve been with haven’t really waited long when they wanted me)
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:01 PM
2

If she’s really into you, pick her up and have her wrap her legs wrapped around you (even in a not super sexual way this is great)
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:01 PM
1

Develop skills and fitness
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:42 AM
1

You don’t have to, that’s not what I said
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:34 AM
3

The only girls who were into me when I actually treated them like dirt were either BPD or cripplingly insecure. You’re not supposed to treat them BAD you’re supposed to treat them like they’re an accessory to you life (I.e. take em off the pedestal)
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:17 AM
3

If I meet a girl out at the bar, I will try to a bit of both. “Oh I’m free from training this day, let’s link up. Cool, let’s exchange contact info” I’m gonna be super real, a lot of this seduction stuff should be more of a tool set. People WAY overthink this stuff and focus on a formula that doesn’t always work. It’s easier to acknowledge these things and just let it flow naturally cuz even if some things are true, and there’s a lot of generalizations, every girl IS different. They got the same…
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:14 AM
1

If you have to think about it this much you’re doing it wrong
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:00 AM
1

How is it not? It’s just the next step.
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:32 AM
2

This is a bad guide cuz I’ve fucked mad girls from just sexting them on social media. This is also a bad guide because it’s incredibly unrealistic and like, the worst way to get women. Admin where you at?
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:51 AM
3

When she turns around and I see she got that phatty
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:45 AM
4

Chris Hansen has entered the chat
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:54 PM
2

I have ADHD. Yeah it makes dating hard but the advantages are: -Really easy to be “distant” because you probably forget they exist -If you own your weirdness, you’ll probably attract a lot. When I’m hyper focusing on my hobby’s, I will slay -You probably aren’t internally confident but you’re so “shot” you seem confident but you really do not understand social cues On a side note, or rather more important note, you should probably focus more on a job than pussy
/r/seduction29/06/21 02:55 AM
1

Usually it’ll go good for a while and I’ll fuck it up lol
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:28 PM
1

Idek how to define this cuz the time I was fucking the most girls was when I lived in a room in the ghetto with illegal immigrants and all I had was a tapestry, and a bookshelf full of bongs
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:40 PM
2

This is super low value thinking because you’re trying to use things for external validation. But: -Clean house -Decent kitchen -Clean Bathroom -Fridge doesn’t have to be full but contains good foods and not junk -Tastefully decorated
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:39 PM
2

Tbf you don’t got much self respect if you kept asking, especially if you’ve never hooked up.
/r/seduction28/06/21 10:35 PM
3

I have tried, but somewhat doubt the effects. I do have more energy but I also become a serious horn dog after like 3 days
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:43 AM
5

It’s where you stop socializing (or at least do less of it), and focus on your health, fitness, job
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:18 AM
7

I suffer from this. Monk mode is the answer. Dating burn out is real
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:14 AM
4

Every time I think I’m socially retarded, I come online and read shit like this
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:26 PM
1

As a jokester, it’s a double edged sword for sure
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:08 PM
2

I have this problem. I last forever. It’s from long time porn abuse, as well as just a huge libido. It’s always taken me forever to finish. Don’t sweat it too much
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:08 PM
3

Good on ya. As much “game” as I like, girls like this are honestly so annoying. I have a few in my orbit…don’t wanna bother me until they see me with other chicks or I straight ignore em.
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:07 PM
11

I’m jaded. My priorities changed. Went from bad boy drug dealer to professional minded guy. Don’t hang out all day anymore, most of my time is for my purpose. I also have much higher standards so if someone acts dumb I just say it rather than dealing in hopes of getting some
/r/seduction26/06/21 04:05 PM
1

Lmao yeah you right, I thought it was an obvious joke but oh well, ya live ya learn
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:25 PM
1

How so? I was joking obviously she sent me a snap of her face and has been lol
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:20 PM
5

Not all dates work out. Just keep moving on
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:07 AM
0

Honestly bro, join a jiu jitsu gym. You gain a ton of confidence, get in shape, and you’ll never fear walking up to say “hey” to a girl when you spent hours walking up to someone to ask to wrestle
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:45 PM
0

Not really
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:10 PM
6

It’ll happen I just wouldn’t let gay dudes hitting on you bother you lol
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:39 PM
1

From what I understand, generally no. You’re thinking of either a really young one, or one that’s just slutty.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:14 PM
3

Thing with my ego is this: Even if I make mistakes, or do something embarrassed, if I am confident, sure of myself, and know I am ever evolving, I don’t sweat it. If my ego is weak, I will get upset and take it to heart, because my ego is damaged, rather than being like “lol whatever shit happens everyone fucks up”
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:16 PM
1

I’ve had some issues with this. My hypotheses are as follows: -Just looking for ONS (not really thinking long term, they’re just like “he’s hot, I’m horny” or have a more serious prospect (not necessarily better just grandfathered in yaknow?)) -TOO high value (have had this happen when a girl thinks I’m a player, or that I can get with other girls too easy. They get spooked/insecure and tap out) -TOO confident or cocky. Gotta have like a 80/20 alpha/beta ratio, some girls who are mad insecure ma…
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:15 PM
42

I’m not gay but having a gay dude hit on you is the ultimate compliment tbh. Gay dudes don’t really fuck with really ugly guys so it just means you’re pretty conventionally attractive
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:08 PM
7

This post is spergy as fuck, especially that ABC guy. She’s at work dude, she literally cannot tell you to fuck off. No, don’t hit on girls while they’re working.
/r/seduction23/06/21 11:51 AM
-4

My funniest (and most successful) is “yeah maybe I’d simp over you). Usually makes em bug a lil lol
/r/seduction23/06/21 10:28 AM
4

Perfect opportunity for amused mastery missed. The good in the bad tho…guess who’s gonna be remembered? Guess who’s gonna get a “hey” they next time they see you or when she ain’t with her boyfriend? You are, dawg Humiliation is weird. I’ve been humiliated before, but that’s because my ego wasn’t in check. Nowadays, I love people trying to humiliate me cuz I use Amused Mastery to boost myself from THEIR humilition
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:35 AM
6

There’s a fundamental difference being an asshole, and being confident and not caring what others think. Go ahead and be an asshole truly. I’ll see you on r/BPDlovedones cuz that’s all you get being an asshole
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:23 PM
1

Damn yo, teach me your ways. Tried this sort of thing and girls bug out when I don’t give commitment. I think it’s either: -them having abandonment issues -Me being too “boyfriend material” (not in a bad way but not only am I good at sex, but I have a high pay job) -Probably mentally ill (last one def was)
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:04 PM
1

Sexual Market Value and Relationship Market Value Also, are you a loser with no life? Or someone with interests and hobbies?
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:54 PM
1

Not everybody, however, dudes seem to have more success with love/sex as they age as they develop more. Add good fitness/genetics, and you get a dude that maybe wasn’t so hot in his younger years, blossoming at 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:14 PM
1

If you’re physically good looking, you get matches. I almost never meet people from Tinder tho (except crazy chicks/BPD girls sadly). If you do get a lot of matches, however, this shows something. You are at least physically in the top 20ish percentile. What that tells you/me is that you need to work on your flirting skills, and you’ll kill it IRL (which is objectively better and easier)
/r/seduction19/06/21 08:12 PM
2

You’re not supposed to “wait”. You’re supposed to have your life filled with so many important/interesting things you have no choice to text back later. It isn’t ALWAYS like that. If I’m at work I’ll text back later cuz I’m a mechanic and work with my hands. If it’s like 10 at night and I’m just getting ready for the next day I’ll answer back quick
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:40 PM
2

I would take that shit in a heart beat
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:09 PM
7

Can the science pill give me super strength?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:49 PM
1

I’m an outlier with this stuff but if you weren’t with her, you shouldn’t care who she slept with. You’re being insecure. If she treats you good and actually apologizes then just date her and enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:43 PM
7

Yeah if you stop posting on this sub and go to a psych ward lmao You’re hamstering so hard bro. I have ADHD/anxiety and I’m getting clean off uppers and I don’t hamster as hard as you.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:23 PM
11

Bro I’m tryna learn on this sub and all I get is your reposts of a girl that DOESNT EVEN WANT YOU
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:03 PM
10

Try to meet more in person, or just say you don’t like texting and use that to meet up
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:56 PM
2

Bro go fuck other chicks wtfffff
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:54 PM
1

You’re just hella angry bro just accept how it is. You don’t have to hate women when you understand them you’re just digging a hole
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:38 PM
1

Username checks out
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:01 PM
2

Yeah I got it but you’re still in anger phase. Bitches act funny, so just laugh at em and enjoy as you please. No reason to really be like “dirty smelly holes”. This is why this sub gets a bad rep. Your mental point of origin is still them bro
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:00 PM
5

Not a lot. Just reswallowing TRP and how important working out/staying off drugs is. My jobs essential. Lol @ obvi anger phase tho
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:57 PM
1

Like I said, I’m open to LTRs so I think your reaction depends solely on how you view her.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:05 PM
1

And you’re kinda seeing exactly what she’s doing. She’s tryna secure commitment. Tbh I’d say I’m kinda purple pill cuz I like being in a relationship sometimes and like I said, you gotta evaluate based off the chick. If she’s good, comfort If she sucks, let her drop and she’ll bother you later
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:45 PM
1

Tbh when it first happened I was BP/reswallowing the RP. It’s tough and realistically depends on how you view said girl. If she’s bein a brat and you’re digging her and she’s good to you, then you can give some comfort. I say it’s a shit test cuz they don’t want you to fold, they’re usually looking for the comfort in you being dominant if that makes sense? Usually girls like this have daddy issues so you gotta fit a weird role
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:43 PM
1

Listen man, you don’t. I go against rule 7 sometimes but you will objectively not want her when you gradually get over her. The way I go against rule 7 is that I realize that it wouldn’t have worked anyway, be like “wow that bitch sucks”, get better (as per usual), and I’ll see em later when they’re fed up with whatever they were doin and I smash again. However, by then I can look at them through NOT rose colored glasses and just smash. Right now you will operate from scarcity cuz you want her b…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:27 PM
6

Tbh I’ve noticed that a lot of girls will call themselves “switches” when it’s the same thing. Every “brat” I’ve been with has either been completely incorrigible, or they’re mentally ill/daddy issues. Dealing with one of those and the shit tests are NON STOP, and sometimes even crazy nuclear (think like fucking other dudes because I’m not around and parading it to me in an obvious manner) TLDR; amused mastery will get you far with these chicks but watch out
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:23 PM
5

Oh is this that crazy dude with all the accounts? Lmao
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:44 AM
1

Yeah any time I felt she was searching for validation I just ignored it
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:53 AM
1

brought up a specific thing I said in anger My response was: “we’re keeping the past in the past if you’re a good brat then maybe you’ll get a sorry outta me :)” started texting me and opened with an old pet name she called me My response: “”daddy is next” she: “nice try l0ser” me: “big brat energy” bringing up that dude again saying she’s still with him (I was hella weird about her cuz she tried to make me jealous by overtly telling me she fucked him or would send snaps about him a few months a…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:24 AM
1

On a side note, would you say this is a shit test? I’m not entertaining anything but I feel a couple times she shitested me (brought up shit we argued about before, tried begging me)
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:14 AM
6

Usually they think you don’t want em so they try to get you jealous to show commitment
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:54 AM
6

You see it’s on purpose. Just laugh it off bro. She’s thinking of you while doing this stuff
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:44 AM
1

Yeah for sure but you also gotta adopt that mindset of “if they don’t have time for me I don’t have time for them”. It’s honestly crazy how different it turns everything. YOU are the prize to be won. Chasing her makes HER the prize. Your mental point of origin should be YOU
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:32 AM
1

Omg eat some shrooms and stop comparing dude Think about all the shitty sides of her
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:20 AM
2

Yeah that’s the plan. I was goin slowly cuz I acted HELLA crazy and honestly I feel so different after getting clean but after she’s clearly tryna get some validation cuz her mans ain’t givin it to her I was like “nah I’m good”
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:20 AM
1

Tbh I’ve had quite a few girls return and bang me im def trying to hard so whatever. She don’t want it? C’est la vie
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:15 AM
1

You just don’t. They’re all different dude. I dated a girl with a fat ass, then fucked a petite girl. Both were dirty for me.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:14 AM
1

That’s exactly what I did. Tried to escalate, she kept texting me, gave it one last go and she said no. Haven’t talked to her since. She even tried to get me to listen to her dude problems twice but I was dismissive about it. I only entertained it cuz she was acting kinda flirty but since she “can’t see me” I just left it.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:13 AM
1

Def don’t double text. If she don’t got time for you, you should be like “yeah not worth my time”. Believe me, it works but you gotta let it do it’s magic
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:12 AM
1

Low interest. She might even have interest at times but you might be acting needy. It isn’t ALWAYS a better guy
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:03 AM
5

You don’t have abundance cuz you think you can’t get a better bitch and you think this dude is better than you. Lemme put it this way. My last oneitis is with some dude who is maybe a point higher than me in looks, but makes more money and has some better alpha traits than I DID. (Was getting clean/on drugs long story). If I ever compare myself to him, I remind myself what I CAN do. I am musical, and play many instruments. I can fix cars and tons of machines. I train martial arts and can win a l…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:02 AM
1

Are you medicated? I see from your post history that you are schizophrenic
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:22 PM
2

Gotta make sure to stay fresh. Purpose is all about moving forward but if it’s a bland sort of progress you’ll get that. Switch up your work outs, eat good food. Might just be the holidays too
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:21 PM
1

I was actively fucking her but who knows. Oh well, c’est la vie
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:09 AM
1

Bro this is text book bulimia
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:08 AM
1

Bro run
/r/askTRP25/12/20 05:44 AM
2

Omg dudes on this page are nuts. Yeah man you can have female friends. You just aren’t supposed to think “being her friend will make her desire me”
/r/askTRP25/12/20 04:12 AM
2

Listen man, I feel sort of the same. In my opinion, there’s two kinds of approaches to the red pill. Those who focus on the way men should act, and those who focus on the ways women act. I prefer to focus on the former. Stop comparing yourself. You’re gonna go crazy and it breeds insecurity. I did it recently, and lost out on a girl that really digged me cuz I got insecure. I compared myself cuz some dude was moderately more handsome and had more money. But he can’t fight like I do. He can’t bui…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:44 AM
5

Yaknow how people say dudes who use alpha and beta unironixally are actually beta? Yeah that’s you. Let’s break it down. you’re comparing yourself (even if you think you’re better) you’re trying to class yourself higher than these dudes (fake alpha) you’re hamstering hard as fuck over this one chick Like dude I’m barely even RP fully and I know that even when it’s confusing or sucks you just gotta say “eh” and move on
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:30 AM
3

Eh after two cancels I usually next em. I give em 1 for jitters, after the second one it’s like “cmon bitch”. Just ghost dude she doesn’t sound too interested
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:28 AM
1

I don’t really care if she is and I’m banging others too. Just mad weird to rando block after literally asking me to bust in her lol
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:13 AM
4

If you aren’t lifting, lift. If you are consuming any substances such as booze, weed, coke, or even caffeine, stop. Have fun more just laugh at shit. I’ll give ya a story. Still got oneitis for a girl, but was way worse. Recently asked her out and she’s like “nah I’m with that dude I fucked that you’re weird about”. Before? I’d start bugging out and getting upset. Now? I just laugh
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:04 AM
1

I wouldn’t be surprised tbh
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:51 PM
2

Lol it’s more of a FWB and I just use the terms for ease of communication on the sub. Is this that girl?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:44 PM
1

This girl is weird cuz I’ve held frame but made classic mistakes (pillow talk, opened up about my self etc) she’s weird cuz she’s def like a smoke show (no pedestal)
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:48 PM
2

Yeah I’m getting my own place soon and the plates will be spinning like I’m a clown in the circus
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:16 PM
1

Lol pretty sure I got ghosted, I’m not acting needy but I checked and she blocked me EVERYWHERE (no oneitis and she def knew we were just fuckin)
/r/askTRP24/12/20 08:45 PM
2

Yeah she said she had ADHD and I think in the past she said she was Bipolar? I don’t remember tbh I’ve been friends with this girl for years and only recently started banging her.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 08:44 PM
1

When I acted hella blue pill she shit talked me
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:49 AM
1

Yeah I would say the same, this bitch was a tough one to deal with. Got under my skin but honestly getting clean and lifting has made my frame fucking crazy lately
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:43 AM
1

Like more of a “sorry...I’m so mad (so talk to me to make me feel better)”
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:39 AM
1

More of a comfort test imo but I’m not giving comfort unless I’m getting my dick wet
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:36 AM
1

Okay so typically this girl is like this but I think it was more of a “I’m so mad” about something else not about me
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:36 AM
2

Most disappointing part is she flamed me to her friends and all her friends were hotter than her. RIP
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:28 AM
2

Yeah I seen that for real. She just tried again with a “sorry I’m so mad rn” text but like bitch naw I’m good
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:24 AM
2

Yeah I figured just wanted some evaluation on if I acted more RP. I was embarrassingly BP and the fog of getting clean makes you doubt your actions a lot
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:07 AM
29

Never fight at a bar unless the whole crowd or staff are your buddies. I’ve trained BJJ and other forms of MMA for years and regardless, it’s still sketchy to fight on the street. A lesson you learn about street fights is, sadly, you automatically have to assume who your fighting has a weapon or is trying to kill you cuz he very well maybe. Bar fights are sketchy cuz you can get jumped really bad, or say you win; the guy goes to the hospital, and later dies from some stupid injury like falling o…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:57 PM
1

She is probably not over you. It’s subconscious though. Like she outwardly thinks she’s over you but honestly, would anyone bother telling you this if they were 100% over you? Don’t say anything, I’ve had this happen with a few chicks and as soon as I mention it they flip out even though it’s blatantly obvious they want me still,or at least my attention. If you must, emotionally disconnect and plate her when she eventually comes around, but honestly sounds like she’s immature
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:52 PM
1

I’m genuinely trying to help. I wouldn’t straight teach TRP more manosphere stuff
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:04 PM
2

Shhhhhh
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:04 PM
1

Yeah just tryna empower other men yaknow?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:56 PM
1

I was at one point pretty close to him, not so much since I don’t sell him drugs anymore
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:55 PM
1

Yeah it’s sad. Whatever, sucks to be him. His ex is hella fun to fuck whoops
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:33 PM
2

Yeah man I just feel bad for him. He’s not like THE worst looking dude (got that whole dead beat musician vibe but genuinely a good musician with decent ink) and it’s just embarrassing how this dudes acting
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:25 PM
4

That was good but that milk comment was sperg af
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:02 PM
6

Dude you gotta go to therapy. Big time. I am literally legally insane and I think you’re bugging. You literally are facing charges.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:37 AM
2

You don’t need actual abundance. Understanding that there are more is good enough
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:46 AM
1

I just make fun of myself. I’m kinda skinny and have that whole “surfer/stoner” stereotype. No one can roast me better than I can
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:24 PM
1

It can honestly be so many things. If I’m really turned on, I can jack of multiple times every day and still get hard. Are you depressed? Do you eat good? If not is it just junky food or straight sugary garbage? Do you lift or work out? Do these girls actually turn you on?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:00 PM
1

Imma mechanic and this is a terrible analogy
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:35 PM
1

It all depends on your skin. I actually get facials at a Spa every once in a while cuz I deal with facial eczema. This isn’t “gay” or feminine it actually really works and they will have a lot of info. I also get to flirt with the girls that work there
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:26 PM
0

Eh I don’t really want her like that, I wanna disrespect her like the smut she is
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:12 PM
1

Great song tats a buddy holly song right?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:58 PM
0

I def think they are shit tests cuz they only come when she wants attention. I just deny it or tell her it makes me think less.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:54 PM
1

I know I’m spinning other plates I’ve just seen this before with other chicks...I gotta get outta NJ lmao
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:53 PM
1

I consider it a shit test (albeit a gross one) because it’s typically in response to me not giving attention
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:50 PM
1

Yeah when that happened I legit said I wasn’t tryna anymore cuz she was sexually unsafe and she went BALLISTIC. She’s saved in my phone as “cumsock”
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:49 PM
2

You don’t wanna stick your dick in crazy because: If she’s a crazy slut, she can try to baby trap you or you can get an STD Some girls, even non BPD, will constantly shit test you. Not even in a playful way, like they legit wanna make you fold. They can destroy your rep or your stuff False charges Etc
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:43 PM
17

Being weak and apologetic, freaking out, jealous etc
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:37 PM
5

It probably has to do with some mommy or childhood issues. I also have a habit of doing this. You wanna be captain save a hoe
/r/askTRP10/11/20 12:58 AM
3

Its typically a shit test (although a poor one). They wanna see if you get jealous. If you do they think the other guy is better
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:31 PM
0

Shit tests are an attempt to see what can break you. If you’re gonna carry some dudes kid, do you want a strong dude who can hold you down? Or do you want some weak bitch that can’t get begged?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:25 PM
1

Yeah I had a little beta slip up with this last chick. She had like tons of red flags, and me mentioning these to her turned into a huge fight (unprotected sex with everyone, pregnancy scares all the time, super petty when I wasn’t given her attention (literally sends me snaps about some dude she’s fucking after I back slid) the whole nine) I had no choice but to be real and be like “I don’t wanna date you cuz you play mad games and wanna act like I should wife you up but you portray yourself as…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:21 PM
2

From what I understand, it’s to test your frame. By saying it bothers you it sets up the beta idea so she wants to see how much she can break you
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:43 PM
1

Talked to a girl like this recently. I wouldn’t bring it up cuz even if it doesn’t bother you, she will take it that way. She’s craving your attention. Soon she will start chasing. Stay on your path
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:23 PM
4

Yeah in the most sperg way possible
/r/askTRP08/11/20 02:01 AM
2

I’m just talking like in general I’m not friends with these chicks necessarily they’re just in the group I head to the bar with (gonna try to fuck some). My question is, does just being around them increase my SMV?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:57 AM
1

I’m just asking in general lmao relax dude it’s just a question
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:12 AM
2

Since you made a post probabltn
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:44 AM
2

Youre DEERIng doing this there’s no point they’ll just convolute it
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:32 AM
1

Yeah this ones getting pretty annoying
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:09 PM
1

Ah jw. This plate was bugging and I’m getting that whole block/unblock thing but she keeps tryna shit test me or make me jealous when she pops by
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:07 PM
1

Soft next, she might not want to/be slutty
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:40 PM
3

You’re overthinking
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:39 PM
1

Yeah very rarely will it work out in my favor. Only good results with weed I’ve had are when I’ve mixed a little booze or blow but I’m pretty shot afterwards
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:36 PM
6

I smoke every day, it helps me stay kinda loose. I notice I can’t smoke before going out to hang tho I get super awkward and lose my game. Just don’t overindulge
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:26 PM
1

Yeah bro sounds like a solid plan
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:33 PM
1

Bro that’s dumb as fuck that ain’t even alpha or beta that’s just stupid
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:15 PM
4

Just gotta learn man. Sometimes there will be times when you back slide. Start spinning plates and reading a lot of TRP books
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:50 PM
0

If you’re concerned for her safety, then you’re okay to ask and stay in your frame. Don’t expect you guys to get back together over this either
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:15 PM
1

Yeah sadly lmao
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:22 PM
2

It’s easier to start like that then to change a closed to an open tbh
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:39 AM
2

You might not be cut out for it. Relationships take tons of work, TRP mentality aside. Try ethical non monogamy
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:34 AM
1

I feel like this situation calls for it, I kinda avoided it at first but I kinda went for the kill outta anger
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:13 AM
0

Tryna re-plate frankly def not tryna date her
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:29 PM
1

I def don’t wanna date this chick she’s hella drama I just feel bad for acting that way
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:58 PM
1

Yeah low value investment to be specific (I was mad but was basically saying why I wasn’t super into the date. This was after hours of her digging into me)
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:48 PM
1

Lol she was upset I brought her around my weed dealer and started bugging, I kinda flipped out called her low value, etc etc it’s just a constant fight with this chick
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:08 PM
-1

I just don’t know how to engage she blocked me everywhere cuz I was buggin
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:05 PM
1

Yeah already soft nested after she freaked out and blocked me after a fight. I just feel bad cuz I was def acting like a dick
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:13 PM
0

Sadly my second time losing my cool so I don’t think this’ll work lol
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:00 PM
1

Yeah this chick brings up hella past stuff always.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:53 PM
-1

This ones a little worse than my bad I said some pretty fucked up shit lol
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:51 PM
1

You understand that you more than likely ruined your LTR. If she wants to revenge cheat, she’s going to. She’s gonna fuck some hotter, richer, more manly dude and kiss you after swallowing his load
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:36 PM
1

Diesel tech for 7 years. You should be mixing yoga and calisthenics into your work outs to help with mobility. You can skimp on how strict you are with lifting because your “rest” days will be more active.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:42 PM
4

Just act normal
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:49 PM
2

I’m currently an auto/diesel mechanic and go to college for mechanical engineering
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:25 PM
4

Oneitis. You idealized that ten year LTE (understandable that’s a LONG time) and you are looking to fill that hole. When one is trying to fill emotional holes it seems like one will also lower their standards for what one uses to fill that hole
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:23 PM
1

Scarcity
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:58 PM
0

Not everyone I’m just confident in my abilities
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:57 PM
2

So dump her if you can affordnit
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:30 PM
7

If this challenges this guys frame, he has the frame of Eeyores stick hut
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:24 PM
2

I’d hit tinder and other dating sites or go to local clubs or the gym
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:23 PM
1

Which state?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:22 PM
2

It’s mostly your attitude I feel. Chicks don’t always want an Adonis. I’m 6’ and 140. I’m fucking SKINNY. But both my job (auto/diesel mechanic) and just what I do for fun (MMA, surf, skate, etc) makes my body hella strong. It also helps if you got confidence. Girl says I’m skinny? Lol okay but I can beat your mans ass so who cares?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:22 PM
4

Just say yeah whatever works and spin other plates. I have a fucking anxiety disorder and wouldn’t lose frame over this
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:15 PM
3

Just ignore it. She’s doing it to get under your skin. You gotta gauge it. If she’s playfully negging then she just really likes you. If it’s never ending or you feel really flustered after she may be gaslighting
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:28 PM
1

Idk think she’s BPD tbh
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:33 AM
1

Tried, turned into some huge argument about what she was mad about before, ended with me blocked again lol
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:19 PM
1

Went NC for a minute, she tried getting my attention by rubbing some other dude in my facs. Turned thermonuclear when I said I didn’t wanna date and was just tryna be her friend (I’m just tryna smash) and I had a major frame loss cuz she gaslit me
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:19 PM
1

I picked her up at the bar and fucked her the first night I met her, was spinning her and she got mad at some shit that happened on our date
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:17 PM
1

I guess this one is one and done? I was tryna plate again cuz she kept tryna get me jealous so I took it as n IOI
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:05 PM
4

None of what your fantasizing is true. It’s literally all in your head. Oneitis for a far chick cmon
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:57 PM
1

Oh I go thermonuclear on this chick cuz she does the same lmao I just call out her shit and she gets pissy
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:57 PM
1

Eh not really just don’t expect to grasp it swiftly or be a shred master outta nowhere
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:30 PM
1

Learn an instrument
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:21 PM
1

I’m wondering this too. I was tryna work on a friendship with a girl to get with her friends. She just brings up every old thing I apparently did “wrong” (some stuff I did but yaknow how it is, a one way street)
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:20 PM
1

So fickle. Had a girl talk me up about getting her brother stoned at school and he got sent to the hospital and made her mom cried. Later that day we go to my boys house before dinner to talk about edibles. Next day she goes NUCLEAR over the weed stuff. Just let me be however. Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:50 PM
1

Yeah it’s frustrating but gotta do it
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:37 PM
5

You just gotta stop caring. Who cares what she does? She probably has some shitty attitude. Did she really bring anything to your life at all?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:54 PM
2

Just gotta up your game, this should push you to become a chad not make you more AFC
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:58 AM
9

On the sides, like a claw. Air chokes aren’t good for sex, blood chokes are
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:06 PM
1

Depends on their enthusiasm. Plates always bounce back tbh. Had some BPD chick before get super pissed and cut me off then a month later was bugging me and tryna get me jealous
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:56 PM
1

Yeah I have a BPD mom and I’m always falling for chicks like this. This last one I like fully acknowledged how she was at first but somehow got sucked in anyway. And yeah def some good stories lol I’ll check that book out
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:58 PM
1

Usually it’s to make sure I’m not acting out of turn or if I think my assumptions are correct. Confirmation bias exists
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:15 PM
1

Whey fucks with my stomach heavy, I think it’s all the synthetic stuff. I drink Chobani Supreme now. 25g of protein and super super light (and no lactose)
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:13 PM
1

Yeah that’s what I was figuring. I’m spinning some other plates I was just tryna see if I can respin this one
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:25 PM
1

I wouldn’t necessarily be done with her. A lot of dudes are hardcore with the nexts. Frankly I think doing instant hard nexts is operating in her frame. You’re the man, so you stated your boundaries and what is acceptable to be with you. You just set a lead, but now you gotta see if she follows. If not, scarcity will show (it kinda is). Good advice above with talking to other chicks, you don’t even gotta close you just gotta act like if she can’t act right, some other chick is waiting to act rig…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:15 PM
3

Bro I have trouble with this and the entire idea is to literally not give a fuck. Wanna know when I have the best luck with women? I say literally THE. MOST. RIDICULOUS. SHIT. I don’t think of what I say I literally just say dumb shit and they eat it up. Once I get a LITTLE serious (I’m realistically like super brash and straight forward) it’s instant panty drier. Adopt IDGAF. Truly do not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:10 PM
1

Not fuckin her anymore, been spinning other plates. Don’t know how to reinitiate after the LJBF/beta back slide, if I should at all
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:03 PM
1

Yeah I wasn’t gonna hit it unless I got to use protection,
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:47 PM
1

My issue was my super beta back slide but I think a thermonuclear shit test I did reversed everything. She was posting dumb stuff about me and is still throwing the dude in my face. I’ve ignored it entirely
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:46 PM
1

Yeah I fucked her the first night I met her
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:45 PM
2

Had this happen recently. Make yourself unavailable. Read the side bar and internalize it. She’s off with some other dude def but girls are weird. I had the same shit happen and the girl started randomly shit testing me again thru snap. You have to have a IDGAF attitude and she might come back but you can’t be wimping over her again
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:06 PM
1

I’m a diesel mechanic, and a small dude (5’10 maybe 140) make sure you’re stretching and using good form when you lift. I do calisthenics every morning
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:53 PM
1

I understand why you feel bad check out MR nice Guy it’s a book about that stuff. Basically it’s not your problem
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:13 AM
1

Don’t change the girl, change the girl
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:12 AM
2

Chris Heria is a bodyweight genius. Jacob Manning has some cool stuff going for him as wwll
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:45 AM
1

Don’t let the pity control you. I’ve met my fair share of girls who had “abusive” boyfriends who controlled them and it turned out these girls were horrible partner choices with “I do what I want, have my cake and eat it too” mentality that probably caused more issues than they’d care to admit
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:53 PM
0

She probably isn’t that special, and you aren’t considering yourself a prize. Even if she is special, one of things making her special is realizing what a catch YOU are, and taking your lead. If she’s bratty, not reciprocating, or you’re just striking out, you’re literally wasting time. You don’t even gotta fuck other women just go talk to them. Oneitis always return especially after you’re over them
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:48 PM
1

I go to hand and stone and get facials Inb4 lol facials girls notice
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:41 AM
1

I’ve had it before where someone got mad then came back, just asking for advice. Wasn’t dating this chick, just caught a little oneitis and wanna make sure I’m thinking clearly
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:37 AM
1

Do you soften her hard next if they hit you up again?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:06 PM
2

Bruh that’s an easy one
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:33 PM
1

Sometimes people are toxic. Typically when I hear this from a girl tho, I start looking harder for red flags. Almost always, the toxicity was in part by her. My last instance of this showed me this girl couldn’t take accountability, was petty (but will deny he petty actions), and thinks anyone voicing boundaries was “controlling”
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:55 PM
1

You shouldn’t obsess over the thought but being outcome independent means that you shouldn’t care if they answer or not. If they say yes, go “aww sick” then continue until the moment it actually happens
/r/askTRP08/10/20 11:08 PM
22

I had this happen when dating a BPD sort of girl. They don’t want you to improve. It makes it harder to monkey branch to a new guy
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:32 PM
2

Absolutely not. I will gain solid frame, and foolishly think one of these girls is my special someone and turn into a massive beta due to my issues. It is never worth it. Never ever ever ever.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:00 AM
1

Am i though? I wasn’t even tryna talk to her. I just got confronted by someone and he confronted someone who trained
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:33 PM
1

Hahaha the local island is our popular bar area, I felt it was appropriate. I wasn’t really expecting to fight and I was a little rattled cuz I didn’t know if I was gonna get jumped
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:34 PM
2

I typically do not. The martial arts is a hidden characteristic I do not like to tell.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:01 PM
2

Dude yes. I have so many mommy issues honestly and it manifests into me loving women like that, especially cuz they give crazy kinky sex. It’s dangerous to your mental health and your frame
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:53 PM
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